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My girlfriend knows I have one and has walked in on me using it before. She has no problem with it, and sometimes when we have a threesome she'll blow one guy and use it on the other guy.
 

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I have one plus several other masturbation toys. I also have sever back issues and have trouble climaxing from vaginal or even oral sex. I was wearing my poor wifes jaws out. So i bought some toys to see if they would help get me off. They do and she knows. She will use them on me. P.S. I have always used a vibe on her. She is much too shy ( up tight ) to buy or use them herself. So I help her out atleast once a week. Currently our favorite is a LELO majic wand. Gives her the best orgasms ever.
 
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I guess I’d be the significant other.

if his self satisfaction does not take away from my own needs (and that goes both ways), I have no issue with it.
I don’t want to be involved, aside from a situation where I’m not able, with a simple sleeve.
I’d understand vibration and such. I know vibration and body parts feel differently.

circling back to unable, if I’m in a playing mood, but the Jenny is not up to it, and other options have been exhausted, I’d rather watch his hand, but if he liked a sleeve, well, he’s my person, and I want him happy.
 
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My girlfriend knows I have one and has walked in on me using it before. She has no problem with it, and sometimes when we have a threesome she'll blow one guy and use it on the other guy.
How did she get introduced to the toy? She found it on her own? Or were you open about buying it?
 
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I've had a fleshlight for years, long before I met her. Quite often it sits on my headboard, so from the first time she came over she knew I had one. The first time she used it on me was when she came over on a day when I wasn't expecting her. One of my kids let her in and she came upstairs to my room, where I was using it. She didn't say a word. She just came over to my bed and took over using it on me until I came.
 

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Who has a fleshlight your significant other knows about? Are you in a hetro-relationship? How open are you to using it when they are around?
In my experience women are largely ok with the idea of men using a personal masturbatory device such as a fleshlight...but decidedly cool on the reality of it. I've yet to come across a woman that exhibits the same sense of excitement and wonder id express if I came across them using a dildo/vibrator..so I dont use any type of device, nor even do i masturbate at all when anyone is around...lots of shame baggage from women in my upbringing and early adulthood.
 
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Not sure if it counts, but my roommate and I have one that we share. We just leave it in the washroom and go get it when we want to use it.

Wow - that's awesome. My husband and I share one... but roommate? Fantastic.
 
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My wife gave me my fleshlight. She knows I use it obviously, but prefers me to be discreet about using it, and the same about masturbation in general. We have a rather minimalist sex life so the fleshlight was an olive branch of sorts.