I guess I’d be the significant other.
if his self satisfaction does not take away from my own needs (and that goes both ways), I have no issue with it.
I don’t want to be involved, aside from a situation where I’m not able, with a simple sleeve.
I’d understand vibration and such. I know vibration and body parts feel differently.
circling back to unable, if I’m in a playing mood, but the Jenny is not up to it, and other options have been exhausted, I’d rather watch his hand, but if he liked a sleeve, well, he’s my person, and I want him happy.