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Since my first sexual experience with a male friend over 12 years ago, I have been on the trajectory of exploring sexually with other men. It took a while to open up to friends as bisexual, but they have been very supportive.

I have only had two sexual experiences with women. The first with a bi-curious MF couple (Amazing!). The second, with a straight MF couple at a swingers club (Exciting!).

I recently went through a series of big life changes. I turned 30, moved to a brand new city and left my job when I relocated. I am forging new friendship groups in London, and I'm now keen to explore sexually and romantically with women.

I just joined GuardianSoulmates (an online dating website) looking for a dates with women. I wanted to write this down, to keep a diary of my sexual development.

Feel free to comment below if you have similar feelings, or just want to chip in. Please keep it positive.
 
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Since my first sexual experience with a male friend over 12 years ago, I have been on the trajectory of exploring sexually with other men. It took a while to open up to friends as bisexual, but they have been very supportive.

I have only had two sexual experiences with women. The first with a bi-curious MF couple (Amazing!). The second, with a straight MF couple at a swingers club (Exciting!).

I recently went through a series of big life changes. I turned 30, moved to a brand new city and left my job when I relocated. I am forging new friendship groups in London, and I'm now keen to explore sexually and romantically with women.

I just joined GuardianSoulmates (an online dating website) looking for a dates with women. I wanted to write this down, to keep a diary of my sexual development.

Feel free to comment below if you have similar feelings, or just want to chip in. Please keep it positive.

Interesting situation. It appears you have been successfully and regularly having sex with men for more than 12 years. Now you want to expand that. Do you wish to expand that due to lack of satisfaction or are you simply curious about sex with women. It appears your experience with women are in situations that would be highly likely to avoid long-term relationship or intimacy. Do you believe Intimacy is an issue?
 

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Thanks for replying Florida_Boy.

I am not into romantic relationships with men. I prefer 'friends with benefits', but have always looked to have a sense of monogamy within these friendships.

Sex with men has mostly been discreet encounters with other straight/curious men. And has mostly been mutual masturbation and foreplay. Only on a handful of occasions has this included intercourse, and I always took the 'active' role.

Recently, I enjoyed getting fucked and found this really enjoyable. He was very masculine and well endowed. I enjoyed being dominated by him.

I'm wondering if there are women out there who would see the benefits of getting to know a man who is open-minded sexually.
 
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Good Luck with your new adventures as you create a new life...I am with you in regards to monogamy with male sexual partners. The passion is awesome and with the monogamy you can through caution to the wind. Congrats on being dominated wish that was me dominating your virgin ass. :)
 

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Thanks bijockfl. How does your girlfriend feel about you being bisexual, or having explored sex with men. Has it enhanced your relationships with women?
 

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Thanks for replying Florida_Boy.

I am not into romantic relationships with men. I prefer 'friends with benefits', but have always looked to have a sense of monogamy within these friendships.

Sex with men has mostly been discreet encounters with other straight/curious men. And has mostly been mutual masturbation and foreplay. Only on a handful of occasions has this included intercourse, and I always took the 'active' role.

Recently, I enjoyed getting fucked and found this really enjoyable. He was very masculine and well endowed. I enjoyed being dominated by him.

I'm wondering if there are women out there who would see the benefits of getting to know a man who is open-minded sexually.

Think you for providing additional information. I am certain there are women out there to meet your requirements.
 

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Thanks bijockfl. How does your girlfriend feel about you being bisexual, or having explored sex with men. Has it enhanced your relationships with women?

You'll find women who are open minded about sexually. It may feel rare but they're out there. Ive been with a few who were alright with the idea and it allowed me to be more relaxed and more fulfilled.
 

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Thanks for replying Florida_Boy.

I am not into romantic relationships with men. I prefer 'friends with benefits', but have always looked to have a sense of monogamy within these friendships.

Sex with men has mostly been discreet encounters with other straight/curious men. And has mostly been mutual masturbation and foreplay. Only on a handful of occasions has this included intercourse, and I always took the 'active' role.

Recently, I enjoyed getting fucked and found this really enjoyable. He was very masculine and well endowed. I enjoyed being dominated by him.

I'm wondering if there are women out there who would see the benefits of getting to know a man who is open-minded sexually.
I've always been openly bi, since my teens, after having sex with both a male and female. Each gender has it's greater and lessor traits, but I can't find a reason to not like both. I've had exclusive relationships with both men and women, and they always knew i walked the fence. I never gave my partners any reason to think it wasn't an asset -- because I've certainly learned twice the amount of relationship skills or pitfalls.
 

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I've always been openly bi, since my teens, after having sex with both a male and female. Each gender has it's greater and lessor traits, but I can't find a reason to not like both. I've had exclusive relationships with both men and women, and they always knew i walked the fence. I never gave my partners any reason to think it wasn't an asset -- because I've certainly learned twice the amount of relationship skills or pitfalls.
RE: "I am not into romantic relationships with men."

In the beginning, I had the same thought. I couldn't imagine being in-love another man. i just assumed I would enjoy the physical connection and friendship. Then at 23yo, as i was dating the most amazing woman I'd been with, a guy stepped into my life and charmed the hell out of me. It was like a bolt a lighting.

It wasn't the sex, it was how he treated me. NOW, it makes sense but I'd never had a male be so thoughtful, tender, funny, naked honesty. He was vulnerable with me, and followed his lead. I don't think straight men realize (sometimes) being with a man is like finding another you. It's easy, fun, adventurous...
 

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XO-yes they are aware of my bisexuality and feel that I am more open minded and sensitive to their needs..realizing that most of enjoy sex for the passion and connection. In order to have a passionate relationship you have to remove your mind from the moment and get into the body. I strongly believe (i am sure someone is going to go crazy with this)that straight men if they removed their mind from the situation and also the culture expectations that they could enjoy a passionate moment with another guy. I have experienced that with at least three straight guys and all of them have said the same thing. I really enjoyed it and you made me not think about the act...it just flowed; granted they felt guilty about it the next day and would say I am not gay and I would reply no you aren't gay you are just passionate and extremely open minded to let your body explore what it wants; it could be my cock inside you or a toy..the main thing is that you give into the pleasure
 

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Update!

As a single guy, its no secret that I watch my fair share of porn. I watch around 70% Gay - 30% Straight porn. However the porn always features men, whether its straight/gay or bisexual. And my eyes are always drawn to the male actor. Except tonight, I decided to try a solo female film.

Cute Teen Dildos On Webcam

I'm attracted to slim women with natural petite breasts. I love going down on a woman, so this video offered a great close ups of her neatly trimmed pussy. I got hard pretty quickly, and was salivating at the thought of pleasuring her. I finally jizzed when she brought out her dildo, I was thrusting my hips to match her rhythm. Imagining my hard cock plowing into her soft wet cunt.

It's a big confidence boost to know that I can get myself off, without a bloke on screen. It feels I'm a step closer to pleasuring a woman.

Your comments appreciated, please keep it positive.

XOLLOB