Charles Finn
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Every man I have ever been with (black & white guys), even the one night stands has taken his coffee black with sugar. I think that's cause I'm black and sweet. :tongue: :05: :flirt:
Thankfully I no longer attract the short, ugly; and unemployed men!
Another group of men that I find that are attracted to me, dropping the ugly we have ...
4. Short guys, I am constantly bombarded by those that are 5'7". Now I do not know if 5'7" is perhaps the most common height for a man or what. But I am constantly approached by men around 5'7" and this is usually when I am in heels standing at least 6' or taller. Never when I am bumming around in flip flops. It must be the sex standing up fantasy they have. Unfortunately, my experience with smaller men has not been good and I have a problem even dating someone who is the same height as me. Prefer 6' or taller.
5. The unemployed/under achiever. These men are always my age and they are content never to achieve anything more then just getting by. They have all of the confidence in the world and are proud of their lack of accomplishments. Which totally baffles me because when I date men that are in my age category and are in the about the same financial status they get a little unnerved that they aren't more established then myself.
Mr. Wlyd ... who do you find is attracted to you over and over again? Not who are you attracted to. We LPSG gals know we have your attention because of our intellect and sassiness.
Asian women for sure. Lately it seems women who are bored with their husbands/boyfriends of which they are legion.
Also flashy Pam Anderson Heather Locklear type blondes, who I have no time for. Insecure and needy.
Industrialsize, you are one hot fucking, big cocked man, with awesome tatts and ass. That is going to cross all color lines. Heck, if I had a dick I'd fuck you in a NYC minute. :tongue: :biggrin1:I have pics of myself posted all over the internet.......I recieve a disporportionate amount of comments from black men(Just fine with me)......I was wondering what it is about me that's appealing to black men???????????
I tend to attract very smart intellectual cute fit preppy white women from ages 18-40. They seem to have the most conversation for me. They are attracted to your bad boy/thug image. How many have you seriously and exclusively dated? Did they bring you home to meet the folks or were they just taking a walk on the other side?![]()
With black women I seem to scrape the bottom of the barrel and get hollered at by the most unsophisticated, poorly raised ghettofabulous hoodrats there are (Although that could be because my car sits on 20" rims with spinners, subwoofers in the the trunk)...Well Duh! Conversely though I wonder if intelligent black women pass me by because I still have all of my hood ties You hit the nail on the head. You could be a Harvard MBA and a Rhodes Scholar I wouldn't give you one look let alone two. and I don't do that whole too good to associate with anyone thing that most upper middle class AA's do. The difference if I read your post correctly is that I have NO hood ties I was born and bred into an upper-middle class white neighborhood. I'm not dissing my past by not having anything to do with the thug/hood type men who insist on keeping it real. I was never there. :smile: That's not where my moms family or my fathers family come from either.
4. Short guys, I am constantly bombarded by those that are 5'7". Now I do not know if 5'7" is perhaps the most common height for a man or what. The nationally accepted average height for US men is 5'10". But I am constantly approached by men around 5'7" and this is usually when I am in heels standing at least 6' or taller. Never when I am bumming around in flip flops. It must be the sex standing up fantasy they have.Unfortunately, my experience with smaller men has not been good and I have a problem even dating someone who is the same height as me. Prefer 6' or taller. I am 5'9" and love to wear high heels. Men under 5'10" are rarely even a blip on my radar. I literally don't see them. :redface: Just like some men don't see fat chicks or flat chested women.
That said, my last fuck buddy was only 5'8" we met online and he told me he was 5'10":tongue: . Because of his superior love making skills I am now more open to dating vertically challenged men,:wink: but I don't seek them out. I am more relaxed and feel more safe with a man 6' or taller.
5. The unemployed/under achiever. These men are always my age and they are content never to achieve anything more then just getting by. I know! What is that about? Sometimes I want to scream, "Dude, you're 40 get the mattress off the floor and buy a bed frame!" They have all of the confidence in the world and are proud of their lack of accomplishments.![]()
Which totally baffles me because when I date men that are in my age category and are in the about the same financial status they get a little unnerved that they aren't more established then myself. I know, they get threatened.:redface:
:frown1: This is why IRL I hate to tell a man that I have anything above a BA. Apparently being a black woman with 3 degrees is the kiss of death for any chance at real intimacy or a lasting relationship. :redface: :frown1:
The only men that I have ever encountered that can not just accept but appreciate me are middle- class, upper middle-class, and wealthy white men. In my experience roughly 70% of Black men in the same socio-economic strata only go for White or Asian women.
I tend to attract the bad boys......( and yes Burns1de is definitely a bad boy) His bad ass attitude and pics are a very good indication of the bad boy sterotype.....
All sorts of ages, races, employment and educational background. What they all seem to have in common:
1) Brains and know how to use it
2) Verbal skills
3) Cockiness (not always in size even though a majority have been on the right-hand side of a Bell curve) - as defined in knowing what they want, not being afraid to go for it and pursuing it
4) A certain 'bad boy' flavour - not always going all the way to being one, but a definite flavour
A common language is imperative! Since the only language in which I am fluent is English he has to be able to speak it also.I forgot about another "type" I tend to attract: men who don't speak English very well! I'm sure that a lot of these guys are nice guys, but I want to be able to understand what my date is saying! :biggrin1:
Hmmmmm.....I tend to attract the business executive type. I am the typical "lady on the street, whore in the bedroom". Me too :tongue:
Oh God yes! What is it about those calloused hands and paint, cement, or oil spattered workboots.However, I am attracted to the construction worker, bad boy type. The ones that seem a bit rougher, 5 o'clock shadow, working hands. Yum.
Oh God yes! What is it about those calloused hands and paint, cement, or oil spattered workboots.
However, I am attracted to the construction worker, bad boy type. The ones that seem a bit rougher, 5 o'clock shadow, working hands. Yum. Oh God yes! What is it about those calloused hands and paint, cement, or oil spattered workboots.