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I was wondering if anyone here has noticed that they attract the same type of person time and time again. If so, what were the types and why do you think they are attracted to you.

For me ...

1. Black men. All ages, shapes, sizes and intellectual levels. Reason: I have always thought that they appreciate a thicker body and that I have.

2. Young men. Very young, under 30. They have been the more calm type, not the out in the bar every night type. More soft spoken then life of the party. Usually are goal driven. Reason: Not sure

3. Way too old of men. I am 43 and I am talking men who are 60 and over. All different social classes and physical types. Reason: I think I must put out a vibe that they read as ... rescue me (couldn't be further from the truth).

Ok, to address in turn:

1. They aren't the only one's, love. There are a LOT of guys in the world that HATE the walking-toothpicks that dominate fashion. I'll take a Lane Bryant model every day of the week and nine times on Sunday!

2. Well, Right On!

3. MMMMM...ok, I'm not all for this one. I like my cougars, though! :biggrin1:

I attract all types. I can't find a theme that really links them all. :confused:
 

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I seem to attract

-Good looking but pretty stupid girls. I've come to learn that most girls (around here, at least) who are good looking just depend on being good looking to get things, causing them to never develop brains because they get everything handed to them either way (blech).

-Really smart/interesting/cool girls who have awesome personalities but unfortunately lack too much in the looks department. I wouldn't exactly say that I'm shallow, I don't expect a model whatsoever, just at least cuteness, which can often be amplified greatly if the girls' personality is good.

-Black girls, not all the time but enough to make note of it. Hmm. For some reason I wonder what they find appealing in me, eitherway I love it. I find it very flattering for some reason! I have yet to be with a black girl though. I'm changing this soon, hopefully.

-Older women. This has been happening even since I was underaged. Another type of woman I'd love to get with (and almost have but didn't, long story).

-Psycho, controlling and/or depressed bitches. Oh fuck how I hate them, yet I seem to be a magnet for them. Maybe my passive attitude and mellow personality makes them think I'm an easy target for pussy whipping (bitch please).

-Jailbait. I'm 20 but look a couple of years younger (people seem to guess often that I'm 17/18), so I have all these 16 year olds sweating me all the time. Flattering and very tempting but the legal (and maybe moral) consequences prohibit me from doing anything with them.

On a physical sense though, I guess I attract more brunettes than blondes. I like brunettes better anyway, I think they like me too :) I'm tan and dark featured. The girls also tend to be shorter than me (which isn't hard considering I'm above average height).
 

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I was wondering if anyone here has noticed that they attract the same type of person time and time again. If so, what were the types and why do you think they are attracted to you.

For me ...

1. Black men. All ages, shapes, sizes and intellectual levels. Reason: I have always thought that they appreciate a thicker body and that I have.

2. Young men. Very young, under 30. They have been the more calm type, not the out in the bar every night type. More soft spoken then life of the party. Usually are goal driven. Reason: Not sure

3. Way too old of men. I am 43 and I am talking men who are 60 and over. All different social classes and physical types. Reason: I think I must put out a vibe that they read as ... rescue me (couldn't be further from the truth).

White men, I think 9 out of 10 times I get approached by white men. I dunno why, maybe the area I live in?

OLD MEN. I think it is the she looks underage, so it is like having a teen type mentality. That or they feel they can buy my love and impress me with money. Grandpa moses really needs to step away. The oldest guy I dated was ten years older. I was 18, he was 28, and I felt he was ancient. Now 28 doesn't seem so bad LOL, I am 31 now :)

Younger guys, they think I am their age....I think that is why they approach me.

Drunk Pervert men. I think sometimes I am way too friendly and people men and women share too much. I have had guys ask me to dance for them for money (not a hooker) at clubs, or men ask if they could feel me up, again drunk at clubs. Or try to sexually seduce me by saying "I have never been with a black girl before" as if I will drop my panties and be flattered to be their first black girl. I am not flattered :confused: I have never said yes in my life to any perverted drunk man.
 

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I seem to attract

-Black girls, not all the time but enough to make note of it. Hmm. For some reason I wonder what they find appealing in me, eitherway I love it. I find it very flattering for some reason! I have yet to be with a black girl though. I'm changing this soon, hopefully.

-Older women. This has been happening even since I was underaged. Another type of woman I'd love to get with (and almost have but didn't, long story).


Does this mean you have forgiven me for my previous snarky posts and we will soon be hooking up? :05: :flirt:

White men, I think 9 out of 10 times I get approached by white men. I dunno why, maybe the area I live in? Yup, that's probably it. Or it could just be cause you have great boobies. :tongue:

OLD MEN. I think it is the she looks underage, so it is like having a teen type mentality. That or they feel they can buy my love and impress me with money. Grandpa moses really needs to step away. The oldest guy I dated was ten years older. I was 18, he was 28, and I felt he was ancient. Now 28 doesn't seem so bad LOL, I am 31 now :) I get this too. I never have the heart to tell them that if they think all I'm interested in is money, then they don't have enough to interest me.

Younger guys, they think I am their age....I think that is why they approach me.

Drunk Pervert men. Or try to sexually seduce me by saying "I have never been with a black girl before" as if I will drop my panties and be flattered to be their first black girl. I am not flattered :confused: I have never said yes in my life to any perverted drunk man.

I don't get a lot of perverted drunk men, but I could pay off my student loans if I had a dollar for every sober man who seemed to think I should be his first Black girl. Contrary to popular belief black pussys aren't any tighter than white, latina, or asian pussys.
 

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I attract bikers and young black men like no ones business. In fact it is a constant running joke between my husband and our friends.

I am not sure why, how, or what happens, but usually when I am out in bars, that is who will approach me without fail.

I think I scare accountants :)


x

Honey
 

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If I go to a bar with my friends, no matter who else hits on me, the one old guy who looks out of place is going to try to hump my leg. Literally. I also get the random drunk guy smoking outside who puts his arm around me and tells me funny stories until I am forced to tell him I can't be around the smoke due to severe allergies. I also attract socially awkward guys whose wingmen are even worse. And recently divorced white men. White men love my ass. And many of them think I should know this within minutes of meeting me. Caribbbean men love my breasts, and many of them think I should know this before they even get within 5 feet of me.
 

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I get this too. I never have the heart to tell them that if they think all I'm interested in is money, then they don't have enough to interest me.

Yes these men aren't what you call rich, they are just middle class, or god forbid even poor. I guess they get excited at the concept of dining at Steak and Ale, I don't. That ain't high living dining. I once had this guy who was 51, recently divorced, living at home with his mother trying to impress me by asking if I wanted to go to the chinese food buffet with him. I politely told him no, and that if I were to date anyone in his family it would be his SON who was two years younger than me at the time. I actually did end up dating the son, who I went to college with, who is the only reason that old man knew I existed, as he saw me on campus when meeting up with his son to give him money for school.