I recently was chatting with a female co-worker & noticed that she seemed very interested in the conversation we were having. She as led a question and when I answered it appear to me that she got really into my answer, She seemed to turn more toward me got closer & was listening intently to my every word. She also appeared to stand fairly close while engaged in the conversation. Earlier in the day other co-workers were discussing the topic of a new gentlemen's club in my area. When I approached them to ask about it, she looked & smiled then said I don't think you'll want to know what they're talking about. I then answered oh I'm aware and am curious about the place. She then looked and said please tell me you wouldn't go there, and she seemed very surprised. She kept saying my name and was said wow you don't want to go there, I couldn't see you going there. I did notice the pitch of her voice did seem to get higher while talking the entire time. I then sent a request on Facebook and she sent me the following message: I got out early today and sprinted out so fast I didn't even say bye! Hah
. I do find her attractive and one of my friends/co-workers had stopped and said that he thought she was really into me. The debate & confusion is whither she was flirting, flirting playfully at all or just being friendly. I know she's in a relationship with someone but don't know what to make of any of this. I'm usually extremely bad a picking up signs of flirtation and an interest someone may have in me. If you have any ideas please sound off below.