A few weeks ago something happened to me that I was reminded of today.. i thought it might be a decent topic for a thread.
One of my customers at work (coffee shop) started being kinda flirty with me.. when that happens I try to avoid making it seem like I'm showing any interest because I'm happy with my man, so I get kinda dismissive. Not to be a bitch, I just don't wanna lead anyone on/give the wrong impression. Sometimes people don't pick up on my demeanor. I saw the guy at the grocery store, and he decided to come up and try to strike up a conversation. As usual, I was trying to just dismiss the situation, but he stepped in front of my cart and blurted out "Do you want to give me your number? We should hang out or something.." I started walking around him saying "No, I'm not interested." He got in front of me Again and said "Really? Why not?"
I told him I'm in a relationship, and that I was actually getting something for dinner for the two of us. This fucker says "Well, that's not fair!' I asked him why, and his exact words: "A girl as beautiful as you needs to make herself available to the rest of us." FAIL.
It just blew my mind. The look on his face, it seemed like he was expecting me to be flattered by that shit. I just told him "I'm not here for your entertainment bro, now get out of my way please." He did.
He stopped going to my coffee shop too. I still see him in the building sometimes and sometimes he'll smile and wave, so I wave back... but yeah. Shit was all kinds of of eye-roll material.
Anyone else have any flirting fails they wanna share? I have a few under my belt, thought this was a good one to start.
One of my customers at work (coffee shop) started being kinda flirty with me.. when that happens I try to avoid making it seem like I'm showing any interest because I'm happy with my man, so I get kinda dismissive. Not to be a bitch, I just don't wanna lead anyone on/give the wrong impression. Sometimes people don't pick up on my demeanor. I saw the guy at the grocery store, and he decided to come up and try to strike up a conversation. As usual, I was trying to just dismiss the situation, but he stepped in front of my cart and blurted out "Do you want to give me your number? We should hang out or something.." I started walking around him saying "No, I'm not interested." He got in front of me Again and said "Really? Why not?"
I told him I'm in a relationship, and that I was actually getting something for dinner for the two of us. This fucker says "Well, that's not fair!' I asked him why, and his exact words: "A girl as beautiful as you needs to make herself available to the rest of us." FAIL.
It just blew my mind. The look on his face, it seemed like he was expecting me to be flattered by that shit. I just told him "I'm not here for your entertainment bro, now get out of my way please." He did.
He stopped going to my coffee shop too. I still see him in the building sometimes and sometimes he'll smile and wave, so I wave back... but yeah. Shit was all kinds of of eye-roll material.
Anyone else have any flirting fails they wanna share? I have a few under my belt, thought this was a good one to start.