FL lpsg.org members? Please state your city and the most exciting thing to do there, or place to go. List the first thing that comes to mind.
Tampa/St. Pete
Gay GBar, The Honey Pot, Flirt.
Gay 21+ Georgies's, Flamingos (SP), Bradley's on 7th (Ybor City).
Straight/Anything
Downtown St. Pete (Bishop's Tavern, Dirty Nelly's, Push, Scene, Vintage), Jannus Live, everywhere else in Hyde Park & Ybor (The Castle is pretty popular with a variety of theme nights).
I have yet to visit any kink/fetish/couples/sex clubs, so I can't speak on those.