follow up: jackin other guys

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    ok since ive seen a lot ofyou have jacked off other guys, howabout some info of how you felt about it
     
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    or info on how it felt when you got jacked
     
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    Oooohhhh Lala!!
     
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    one night in college, a bunch of my friends (male & female) had a small party and everyone was completely plastered. my gf and i (at the time) went to my room and fucked. afterwards, she got pretty sick from the alcohol and went to the bathroom for a while. i followed, knowing she wasn't well...

    a friend was sleeping on the futon in our living room. i was trying to take care of my girlfriend while she was in the bathroom puking, but thought it might be a perfect opportunity to make a quick move on the friend. i left the bathroom and walked into the living room, kneeled down, and pulled his dick out of his khaki shorts. it was kind of small, but i just bowed over and put it in my mouth. my first time ever, and i have no idea why i wanted to do it.

    the friend and i had quite a few arguments before and pretty much everyone knew we didn't like each other. i think he also had a gf at the time, but something about him made me want to do this.

    anyway, i sucked for a while and he never got completely hard (we were both wasted, so it's likely he couldn't). but while i was doing my thing he reached into my shorts and started jackin' me.

    i was kind of startled by it. for some reason, to me it seemed ok for me to be doing what i was doing, but he shouldn't have touched me. i think it continued on for about 5-10 mins, but then i got up and went back to the bathroom with my gf. she and i walked back into my bedroom and got in the bed, but he later slipped a note under my br door saying "come back to the living room"

    i'd crashed, so i didn't find the note til the next morning -- at which time i was completely embarrassed and he'd already left the house (thank god).

    he told someone what i'd did, and it eventually got back to me and my gf -- so i of course denied it completely. problem is i might've gone even longer if he hadn't have started jackin' me. don't know what this means, but this is the first time i've ever talked/written about it.
     
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    i dont know what thats referring to

    and as for the story, i dont think thats really gay at all, as long as you werent attracted to him as a man, i think that wanting to please another guy can be ok as long as you arent mentally/sexually attracted to him, and obviously you both had gf's...as to not wanting him to jack you, you should definetely give it a chance because when a guy does it, he knows what he is doing and does it well...at least in my experience

    so, as long as there was no gay sex, i think youre good to go
     
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    eh, i donno. i'm pretty open and accepting of others, but i've never really had an experience like that with another guy, and just can't see how that can be considered not gay. i mean... if you're into it and you like it, it's more than just helping each other out. sexual activity is sexual activity.
     
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    yep...i've wondered that, too. it's the only "gay" experience I've had, but i'm not against having another one. it's like you know you're supposed to be with a woman, but having fun with other guys every once in a while isn't a bad idea. but -- seems like that is wrong too. confusing, to say the least.
     
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    its not so much "liking it"...i dont mind doing it for the other guy but for me the main reason i do it is so i can get it back in return because it really does feel good
     
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    by the way giantsfrey, i watched your vids on xtube before you made them private....awesome stuff!
     
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    definetely can be confusing
     
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    Its my favorite thing to do to a guy for sure
     
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    It's fun being able to give that kind of pleasure to a mate, you get a kind of feeling of satisfaction watching them as they cum, knowing that you've been able to give that kind of pleasure to a close friend. It doesn't mean that either of you have the slightest interest in having sex with each other.
     
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    haha, thanks. i appreciate the support
     
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    Why?

    If guys weren't so terrified of an experience or two "making them gay," they might have a little more fun. If you want to, try it out, and if you don't, then don't. It's really that simple; fuck the strict categories.

    But I have to say it amazes me sometimes reading posts here how powerful "gay" is -- some guys will twist and turn, stretch definitions and basically do anything to avoid that dreaded label. Relax!
     
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    I am straight but I have jerked off with a friend or two from college in the room. I have fucked women with these guys in the room and visa versa, so there is not much mystery left. Sometimes we are out of town on a vacation, drunk and have struck out in the bars. Most hotels have porn. So there you are, drunk, watching porn and lying on a bed in your underware with a guy on the next bed you have already seen having sex or waking up with a morning hard on. Basically, it happens. Afterwards the only regret is that we didn't have some gals there to do it for us. Pretty much no big deal.
     
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    I love the feeling of being in control of another guys orgasm. I can make him cum hard and fast or can slow things down and "edge" him until he begs for relief. I have also found that a lot of "straight" guys like to have their balls gently pulled down in the scrotum.
     
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    Jacking off another guy is my favorite thing to do too. I love how another hard cock feels in my hand and I love that pulsing, pumping feeling when another cock begins to shoot.

    I also love being jacked off. I've shot some of my biggest loads that way. WOW!
     
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    happy endings, anyone?
     
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    I love this too, and had a lover years ago who loved it, even though I'd sucked him off many times before I started jacking him at the point of orgasm. I prefer to control the orgasm with my mouth though, and less often let another guy suck me to completion; I prefer to control my own orgasm most of the time, but sometimes I'll shoot in his mouth. The best is to use mouth and hand when the cum is shooting down your throat. You get to drink the nectar while feeling each new shoot coming through with your hand.
     
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