For a woman, is there such a thing as too much lube?

[RawDog]

You know, I've never had sex with a de-haired guy, so that COULD be why it happens with me as well. I just can't get my head around WHY it would happen. I just can't visualise how hair can have that effect.

I guess it all depends on how long your inner labia is as well. Hers is fairly hidden when she's not turned on, but once she's really turned on, it hangs very very nicely. Grab one of those handheld mirrors and watch his cock as he slides in and out of you. I do lots of stem to sterm strokes too, so that could be why.

And yes, only the big guys. Which makes sense to me, but I can't grasp the thoughts as to why clearly enough to put into words.

I think the girthier the guy, the closer your lips are to getting dragged in? Have any other ladies experienced this?

It is??? And here I was thinking that people did it because they actually ENJOYED it :tongue:

I see it as the hors d'oeuvres. It's supposed to whet your apetite even more. Or is it wet? :wink:

:biggrin1: Good to see I'm effective when I manage to get things into words :tongue:

Do it more often!

Do I get to vote twice? :biggrin1:

Yes. And bribery is encouraged.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I guess it all depends on how long your inner labia is as well. Hers is fairly hidden when she's not turned on, but once she's really turned on, it hangs very very nicely.

Ahh, this could be a common thread. I'm much the same - hidden until aroused.

Grab one of those handheld mirrors and watch his cock as he slides in and out of you. I do lots of stem to sterm strokes too, so that could be why.

Do you really think I'm going to spend good floaty time with a mirror? :tongue:

I think the girthier the guy, the closer your lips are to getting dragged in? Have any other ladies experienced this?

Maybe it's because the girthy guys take up more space, and put more pressure on the surrounding areas?

I see it as the hors d'oeuvres. It's supposed to whet your apetite even more. Or is it wet? :wink:

It certainly whets my appetite, but I just can't handle that close but unfulfilled feeling. It's just too much.

Do it more often!

I'll do my best :redface:. My FB would be very happy if I mastered the ability to do it at will.

Yes. And bribery is encouraged.

Hmmm . . . what do you think MrsR would like then? After all, it's not you we have to convince. :tongue:

 

[RawDog]

Ahh, this could be a common thread. I'm much the same - hidden until aroused.

Is that common or rare?

Do you really think I'm going to spend good floaty time with a mirror? :tongue:

After doing it for hours and hours on the weekends, it becomes a science project for me. Can't help it. Have you ever fucked a nerd?

Maybe it's because the girthy guys take up more space, and put more pressure on the surrounding areas?

Bingo! I think the lube can mask the friction, but the tugging still happens just because there is so little "give" left.

I'll do my best :redface:. My FB would be very happy if I mastered the ability to do it at will.

It's not that difficult once you have the inspiration and the trust that no one's going to laugh at you if you get it wrong.

Hmmm . . . what do you think MrsR would like then? After all, it's not you we have to convince. :tongue:

Start a thread on the Women's Issue forum with the title "Why We Need RawDog's Cock's Pictures" :biggrin1: <== Shortest thread ever.

 

[Empathizer]

You know, my inner labia are like that, too... My vulva looks kind of like a disapproving maiden aunt until aroused. Then it's like she suddenly has makeup on and she's licked her lips and she's ready to party... :biggrin:

 

[RawDog]

You know, my inner labia are like that, too... My vulva looks kind of like a disapproving maiden aunt until aroused. Then it's like she suddenly has makeup on and she's licked her lips and she's ready to party... :biggrin:

My wife said her vulva needs a new headlight and a good wash.

Hmm, we're talking that Swedish car, right? :biggrin1:

 

[B_subgirrl]

I have a fantasy of being tied down and blindfolded during forced oral orgasms one after another, but TheBF ususally just holds me down by the wrists when I want to push him away, which I like. Oh, I like it. :smile:

I'm really not difficult to restrain because of my size. I think part of the fantasy about being tied down and blindfolded is the anticipation and thrill of not knowing what he's going to do next, which would make it a different experience from just being held down when I don't think I can take it any more and I feel like pushing him away from me.

Oh, ALL those things :biggrin1:. I like the vulnerable, he can do whatever he wants, feeling best.

Is that common or rare?

No idea. Maybe if bottoman's thread had worked out for him, we'd know.

After doing it for hours and hours on the weekends, it becomes a science project for me. Can't help it. Have you ever fucked a nerd?

Several! But I wouldn't want my FB wasting time with a hand mirror either :tongue:

Bingo! I think the lube can mask the friction, but the tugging still happens just because there is so little "give" left.

Does this mean I should stop trying to skip the lube? :frown1:

It's not that difficult once you have the inspiration and the trust that no one's going to laugh at you if you get it wrong.

I laugh at me! It makes me feel really silly! Which is weird, because I don't think its silly when other people do it.

Plus I just clam up and go giggly when people want to know what's in my mind. Don't know why. I'm happy to share my experiences.

But I want to get better! I'd love to be able to surprise my FB by actually being able to do it when he asks.

Start a thread on the Women's Issue forum with the title "Why We Need RawDog's Cock's Pictures" :biggrin1: <== Shortest thread ever.

We could give a try in Etc though . . . :tongue:

You know, my inner labia are like that, too... My vulva looks kind of like a disapproving maiden aunt until aroused. Then it's like she suddenly has makeup on and she's licked her lips and she's ready to party... :biggrin:

And again, Emp wins Writer of the Year award :smile:.

I would have written that after arousal mine is so swollen it looks like it belongs on a porn star, but I like your description so much better :tongue:.

 

[RawDog]

No idea. Maybe if bottoman's thread had worked out for him, we'd know.

It had potential, but it was somewhat skeevy from the get go. Too bad.

Several! But I wouldn't want my FB wasting time with a hand mirror either :tongue:

So, you've never seen you lube glisten off of his plump cock as it plunges in and out of you? How your lips work around his shaft? How the crown of his dickhead looks popping in and out? How your clit bobs up and down with each thrust?

Does this mean I should stop trying to skip the lube? :frown1:

Not at all! Do what's comfortable for you. Unless you want it to be uncomfortable?

Plus I just clam up and go giggly when people want to know what's in my mind. Don't know why. I'm happy to share my experiences.

Dirty talk can get cliched at times. That's when I stick to the grunts and try avoiding the squeals.

We could give a try in Etc though . . . :tongue:

Hah! Good luck with that.

And again, Emp wins Writer of the Year award :smile:.

My wife and I love how she writes. How she thinks, and then how she puts pen to paper.

 

[B_subgirrl]

So, you've never seen you lube glisten off of his plump cock as it plunges in and out of you? How your lips work around his shaft? How the crown of his dickhead looks popping in and out? How your clit bobs up and down with each thrust?

Bastard! Stop putting ideas in my head! (Actually, don't stop, I like it, but grrrrr!)

I've had sex in front of big mirrors before, but I've never really looked, except on a rare occasion when forced to (ordered to?). I'm usually too wrapped up in sensations to notice the visuals. That's why it really IS wasting floaty time if I stop and look. I have to pull myself out of the floaty feeling to look at a visual, and I'd rather be in the floaty place.

Not at all! Do what's comfortable for you. Unless you want it to be uncomfortable?

Much as uncomfortable is nice sometimes . . .

Dirty talk can get cliched at times. That's when I stick to the grunts and try avoiding the squeals.

I think my moans have become cliched! I'm starting a list (because I'm a list person) of things I like and why I like them (in detail). Maybe if I'm clear in my own mind about what I like, I'll have a better chance of telling someone else. Maybe.

Hah! Good luck with that.

It's done. If you were only joking, apologies and you'd best get on to the mods quick smart.

 

[RawDog]

Bastard! Stop putting ideas in my head! (Actually, don't stop, I like it, but grrrrr!)

It's not something I do consciously, it's something I seem to respond to what you do.

I've had sex in front of big mirrors before, but I've never really looked, except on a rare occasion when forced to (ordered to?). I'm usually too wrapped up in sensations to notice the visuals. That's why it really IS wasting floaty time if I stop and look. I have to pull myself out of the floaty feeling to look at a visual, and I'd rather be in the floaty place.

Understood, but the visual is part of my "fetish" in enjoying the act.

I think my moans have become cliched!

Nonsense! Moans are never cliche. Especially if accompanied by vaginal spasms around my cock.

I'm starting a list (because I'm a list person) of things I like and why I like them (in detail). Maybe if I'm clear in my own mind about what I like, I'll have a better chance of telling someone else. Maybe.

That actually sounds like a good idea!

It's done. If you were only joking, apologies and you'd best get on to the mods quick smart.

Hmm. I'm somewhat speechless at the moment.

 

[Empathizer]

This is so fucking hot. It would be soooo hot to be told, "I love the way my cock looks sliding in and out of you," like in some of the hotter porn. It's basically the ultimate guy way of saying "Fuck you're so hot I love what we're doing. I don't want this to end." It's also amazing for a woman because he's basically looking down at how beautiful she looks aroused and "in use" so to speak.

 

[RawDog]

This is so fucking hot. It would be soooo hot to be told, "I love the way my cock looks sliding in and out of you," like in some of the hotter porn. It's basically the ultimate guy way of saying "Fuck you're so hot I love what we're doing. I don't want this to end." It's also amazing for a woman because he's basically looking down at how beautiful she looks aroused and "in use" so to speak.

Oh my God. Is it possible to be even more speechless?

 

[B_subgirrl]

It's not something I do consciously, it's something I seem to respond to what you do.

Well, PLEASE don't stop :tongue:

Understood, but the visual is part of my "fetish" in enjoying the act.

It's probably why you describe things so well. I'm all sound and sensations and converting to visual for describing purposes is difficult to say the least.

Nonsense! Moans are never cliche. Especially if accompanied by vaginal spasms around my cock.

Or if they come from a mouth that's partially gagged by your cock . . .

That actually sounds like a good idea!

I'll let you know if it does any good. I started trying to write it today and I have no words on the page whatsoever :redface:. I went into brain freeze every time I tried to focus on it. But I'm determined to master it eventually. Will try again tomorrow.

It's also amazing for a woman because he's basically looking down at how beautiful she looks aroused and "in use" so to speak.

Don't YOU start tapping into my fantasies as well! Do you realise how dangerous you are with your words? :tongue:

 

[B_curiousme01]

Yep. I think there is. Just a little will do the trick and only when necessary. Overall, it's yucky when saturated. What's worse is that this is what usually happens to me when I'm... multi-tasking: yum:. Totally HIS fault because he LOVES the stuff.

 

[RawDog]

The wetter the better!


Bump

 

[B_Nia88]

every woman is different this is best to ask your partner.

 

[RawDog]

Did you even read the original post?

 

[B_Nia88]

I know I did.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

You can dip me in a vat of lube and it still couldn't possibly be too much.

 

[LaFemme]

I have never used lube, although there's been times when I probably should have.

Usually, I'm really, really wet so extra lube wouldn't be necessary. I do like the slickness of being super wet, but if I wasn't (or it's a really long session), I think using lube would be a really good idea.

 

[snoozan]

I self-lube too much sometimes. If I'm ovulating or on my period, things can start to feel mushy. I also almost never use or need artificial lube anymore.