To Bbucko - even what you said about me in your opening post ,I can say that you are a good person.
I will relate to your post:
1. you said:I am not gay because I "lack" anything.I said that it is the main reason to become gay , of course there are other reasons.
a man who has an open feminine characteristics will be probably, in most cases ,gay . because he is lacking the average masculine features.
so hide feminine charecristic ( nobody can see it but you) mean you look and act like an average man but you dont feel very masculine inside can be in some cases lead you to be gay.
2. You said "Aggressive women are not testosterone-richer"
please read more about it and than come back with something beyond your opinion ( put "aggression", or "aggressiveness" with the word "testosteron" in google search) .dont see this comment as insult.
3. You said "how many women would last if they were genetically perfect only by being "soft", passive things"
In a proper world, a strong man atrracted to a soft woman . the more he will be stronger the more he will attract to a softer woman. because opposites- sexually attract. in this proper world even he will be 7 feet tall with biceps like your 2 legs toghter he will be a slave for her wishes and he will die for her ( famous story for that is "samson").
so her softness it is her power and it is more powerful than the male power. 100 man can fight bleed to death over one blond sweet girl . but when only 2 girls fight over a man it is a very uniqe story that you dont hear every time.
over time men ( who destroyed the proper world) put the woman second in the hause hierarchy . that is why woman today develop thick skin to be less soft and not to be taken advantage by men , so when you break the balance in the world lesbian and gays will pop out.
4. you said"The concept of the soft. passive, delicate female is a by-product of:
1) Male domination of the genders".
accordingly to what i say above
a soft female is not a by product of male domination it is her nature and that it is her power .
the opposite is the truth saying- a strong competitve dominent woman is by prodact of the men .
5. you said that I am "homophobic " I respect every man or woman no matter what his/her sexual preferences.
6. you said i am "misogynist" WHY? i dont hate anyone - I am sexually atrracted to very feminine woman. respect any woman.