For all Straight Guys: thoughts, deeds

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Funkalicious said:
Ummm just a thought, but if a straight guy had an experience with another guy or was inclined that way wouldn't that mean they're not straight and are in fact bi or gay...I know as a straight man i find the thought of something up my butt repulsive!

I don't see it like this. If I had a friend and they wanted something from me, I would be happy to give it or let them take it. The fact that it might be some affection or even a blow job wouldn't make any difference to me. I have done this with women friends and lived to tell the tale - so what difference a gay friend - I wouldn't be taking anything from them which would be the point at which I would say that I was bi or whatever - but I have never wished for that which is why I put 100% straight.

I don't know how I would have reacted if they wanted my virgin bottom - still all that type of scenario was sometime ago and it just isn't going to happen where I am with my life now.

I didn't ever tell the ex that her friend had come on a little strong - I wonder how she would have reacted.

No problem HBG9.
 

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here's a thought.

do gay guys or have gay guys ever fantasized about being with women?
can a gay guy find experimenting with a woman intriguing?

if not then end the debate and take it as the understanding to the straight male perspective.

sometimes to understand someone, you may have to take a walk in their shoes, but if you cannot or are unwilling to do so, then come at an issue from a different perspective but with the same variables...

hence if a straight guy cannot imagine wanting to "experiment" with a gay guy and if a gay guy cannot imagine "experimenting" with a straight woman, then where is the debate..?

just a thought.

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Satsfakshun said:
At the risk of repeating a thread, and maybe some newer members would like to reply, any straight guys out there had sexual experiences with other guys you want to share? Or maybe just thinking about guys or one guy in particular? Maybe you "almost" acted on an opportunity?
Although i consider myself a straight guy, i had and still i have sexual experiences whit guys, and i enjoy them too. Why i keep to consider myself as a straight guy and not a bisex? Because whit men i seek only adventures or "sex friendships", but not relations... But if maybe on future i fall in love for a guy, well... I will change idea about my sexual orientation.:tongue:
 

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Funkalicious said:
Ummm just a thought, but if a straight guy had an experience with another guy or was inclined that way wouldn't that mean they're not straight and are in fact bi or gay...I know as a straight man i find the thought of something up my butt repulsive!
Being gay has nothing to do with wanting something up your ass. Lots of gay males never experience what it is like to be penetrated. Thinking that anal sex is all there is to being a gay male is a rather myopic view to say the least.

Orientation is where your head is, not where your cock is. I know many straight men who get pleasure from their woman putting a finger up their ass while they have sex or from rimming for that matter. Having your ass played with can feel good, regardless of who is doing it. Same with getting a blow job or having your prostate massaged.

There is nothing inherently "gay" about any of these acts in and of themselves. It is only when the thoughts going through your head while this is happening are of someone of the same sex or the person on the giving/receiving end is of the same sex that it becomes "gay."

I was gay in my thoughts long before I was gay in my actions.
 

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Currently my wife more than does it for me. In my past I've had some same-sex encounters, but that's all history since I've been married, don't have the desire anymore--I found male-male sex somewhat unfulfilling, even at the time. Pretty much just stuck to frottage (consensual only, of course) and oral. In fact, male-male sex contributed greatly to my insecurities about my penis size, even though I was the larger male in more than half of my encounters. The 2 biggest ones I saw (largest in the flesh were 7.5" and 8") really had my head spinning. Found it hard to fathom a cock could be that big. Wasn't even into cock much anyway -- muscle, especially pecs, was my big thing.

I do still have an awareness, obviously, of what type of male turned me on in the past and far and above I would say Mark Wahlberg (aka Marky Mark) is at the top of the list.
 

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Pexman--thanks for sharing your unique perspective, especially how the male-male contact made you more insecure. That is very telling. Your honesty, will no doubt, help many here. Thanks.

Hot pictures as well, stud!
 

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i think it many cases, this all just comes down to how people gauge sexuality. the terms straight/bi/gay just don't consider myriad other possible preferences.

i don't see anything wrong with gay guys fantasizing about 'turning' straight men, as i think it's really only because of what that would imply: for a straight male to give himself to another male would mean that he found you insanely attractive, on all levels. it's just a basic case of gay men wanting to be desired (not that others don't want to be wanted as well; i'm speaking from my experience of being gay). the fact of the matter is that even gay men see other gay men as weak (huge generalization, but i digress)... straight men are, and probably always will be, the strong, silent type. that's what women want, and that's what gay men want. if i wanted some art-student hipster, i probably wouldn't have to worry much because those guys tend to slide both ways.

it's all about stereotypes, really.

i've known quite a few 'straight' guys who i've fiddled around with before, and i continue to classify them as straight because i would be surprised if they ever did anything else with a guy. on the same level, i think i've masturbated ONCE to the thought of a vagina, and that wasn't successful. however, i've told myself that maybe one day i WILL meet a girl who interests me, and i might try that side of living for a while.
 

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I've been dealing with this shyt about gay/straight or whatever for the last couple of years. Now I'm looking at it from this point of view: I can have sex with a girl or a guy who's attractive to me. I can also love a girl or a guy who's attractive to me. But I don't think there's really anybody who is absolutely anything. I think too that my sexuality and feelings about girls & guys may change at different points of my life so I don't think that's stable either. Maybe it's all about who I meet & who I want to make it with. It ain't just all that simple to me.
 

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emu said:
here's a thought.

do gay guys or have gay guys ever fantasized about being with women?
can a gay guy find experimenting with a woman intriguing?

if not then end the debate and take it as the understanding to the straight male perspective.

sometimes to understand someone, you may have to take a walk in their shoes, but if you cannot or are unwilling to do so, then come at an issue from a different perspective but with the same variables...

hence if a straight guy cannot imagine wanting to "experiment" with a gay guy and if a gay guy cannot imagine "experimenting" with a straight woman, then where is the debate..?

just a thought.

E
yeah i have curiosities about doing it with a female, and have done it with a m/f couple, was kind of exciting for me...
 

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pexman said:
Currently my wife more than does it for me. In my past I've had some same-sex encounters, but that's all history since I've been married, don't have the desire anymore--I found male-male sex somewhat unfulfilling, even at the time. Pretty much just stuck to frottage (consensual only, of course) and oral. In fact, male-male sex contributed greatly to my insecurities about my penis size, even though I was the larger male in more than half of my encounters. The 2 biggest ones I saw (largest in the flesh were 7.5" and 8") really had my head spinning. Found it hard to fathom a cock could be that big. Wasn't even into cock much anyway -- muscle, especially pecs, was my big thing.

I do still have an awareness, obviously, of what type of male turned me on in the past and far and above I would say Mark Wahlberg (aka Marky Mark) is at the top of the list.

Dude, judging from the photos in your profile, you shouldn't have any need whatsoever to mind how you "measure up" against other men. You have a very fine penis. Some guys have a lot less.
 

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All this stuff is quite interesting guys and I'm resisting jumping into the debate -- especially after reading some of the most extreme ideas. Perhaps I should just start over with the following instructions:

Straight men, please tell us of your sexual or near-sex experiences and or curious thoughts regarding gay, bi or other straight men. If you are a straight man who has no such experiences, or is certain you would never entertain the thought, please continute on to other threads.
 

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Satsfakshun said:
Dude, judging from the photos in your profile, you shouldn't have any need whatsoever to mind how you "measure up" against other men. You have a very fine penis. Some guys have a lot less.

And the body to back it up too.......nice
 

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black10inches said:
I've been dealing with this shyt about gay/straight or whatever for the last couple of years. Now I'm looking at it from this point of view: I can have sex with a girl or a guy who's attractive to me. I can also love a girl or a guy who's attractive to me. But I don't think there's really anybody who is absolutely anything. I think too that my sexuality and feelings about girls & guys may change at different points of my life so I don't think that's stable either. Maybe it's all about who I meet & who I want to make it with. It ain't just all that simple to me.

I agree with you. I think FAR too many people emphasize sexual orientation. If the point is to get off....well, who cares with what gender, as long as it is mutual.
 

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Blacksnake said:
I agree with you. I think FAR too many people emphasize sexual orientation. If the point is to get off....well, who cares with what gender, as long as it is mutual.
problem with that is whole lots of people care, cuz if you ain't straight you ain't normal. but, alas, be patient with the world, it's still a virgin.
 

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Hey dude, you do have a right to choose what you do and share your experience. This is a public place we come into contact with people we may not really know. I am aware that the world can be a very hostile place for some gay people, I have gay family members who have taken their own lives because of the pain they have experienced and yet I have close family who have very cool lives and also happen to be gay. The thing about the net is that we can learn from people who we don't normally know in our daily life. We're all in this world together.
 

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I've had sex with men and women and I prefer the look and feel of men's bodies, so I guess that makes me gay.

I think a lot of gay men are attracted to straight men because they are more of a challenge and they are more aggressive and often very horny because women put out less often than men.

I like a man because he isn't gonna get hurt as easily as a woman (or at least that's the myth) and because he knows what makes dicks feel good, since he has a dick of his own.

Also, I like men's angular, muscled bodies and skinny butts over the softer rounder curves of a woman. I think this is hardwired into the brain chemistry in utero, and cannot be changed as an adult. I have tried to stick to women, for religious reasons, but I keep going back to men. God made me this way, so I have to accept it.

The few times I've had sex with 'straight' men have been waay more intense than most of the sex I've had with 'gay' men. I think this is because the chase and buildup are extended much longer with a straight man, for obvious reasons. It's more of a challenge, more of a sport. Gay guys are like shootin' fish in a barrel. You can get any one of 'em just by shakin' your dick in his face.

Also, a straight man that is so horny that he is willing to let another guy suck him off is a really horny man, no question, and gay guys love to help other guys get off when they're really horny. It's just something about service. We love to please on our knees!

Also, a lot of gay guys are really effeminate which is not too attractive to me unless they're real young and pretty and then I just imagine that they -are- a girl. If I'm gonna fuck a woman, I don't want her to be a scary gay guy!

So for all you straight guys that are freaked out by gay sex: Relax. All you have to do is say "Thanks, but I'm not attracted to you sexually." Any guy that still comes on to you after you tell him that, deserves whatever he gets, as it's just harrassment at that point.

So stop being repulsed and disgusted by us fags, we're people too, and we're just as normal and natural as the rest of yous.

Nobody's gonna make you take it up the ass (unless you're in prison, lol) so there's no need to feel threatened or edgy. Lighten up. Who knows, maybe an un-reciprocated blow job is just what you'll need some day.

:adam4:
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Truly great stuff in this thread. Pushed me to write my first reply. I appreciated the honesty around page 3 or 4 when y'all were working to define % gay/straight. In this world, we seem bent on finding an explaination for things we don't understand. That allows us to have something to blame or, better yet, sue! And the murky work of Bi-sexuality is a pure fantasy land for many of us. We love that.

But here's my question: Can a straight man tell me how you know you are straight?? As a gay man, I was often asked that question (always when I came out to someone), and I could never really come up with an answer. Something tells me "straights" and "gays" would face the same very challenge to articulate an convincing answer.