For all Straight Guys: thoughts, deeds

STEPHEN71

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to me this is what it down to, gay men , yes they fantasy is to be with a straight man, thats all it is is a fantasy......but is it the same for a guy to want to be with a girl who he sees in a bar or club and fantasize about her cause she smokin hot, and to find out from her he has no chance, then it the same.....it is all fantasy..but the men in both issues know there is not chance to the situation....
the gay guy know that they have no chance with a true straight guy...and a guy knows he has no chance with a girl who dont find him to her liking..
to me if a straight guy has problems with gay issues then like i tell friends of mine who also have this, it not your life and be taught to not judge others as you would not want to be judged yourself....
if we all read posts that did not pertain to us, then the chat world would be a better place.if i dont like a issue i dont respond
 

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bigschlotsky said:
No, I have no issue with it and it's not the same thing.
Straight guys who watch lesbian porn are fantasizing about hopping in with both of them for a 3-some. The difference is that the straight guy watching lesbo porn doesn't want to change anyone's behavior, he just wants to join them. The gay guy fantasizing about sex with a straight guy is disrespecting the straight guy's sexual orientation because he wants to change it to meet his own wants.
The equivilant to the lesbo porn example would be if a gay guy watched straight porn and wanted to join for a MMF threesome. That doesn't rub me the wrong way because, again, it's done in the context of respecting the sexual choices and orientation of the people involved.

And when str8 guys view lesbo porn, at least the ones I have been in contact with, ALL say, if I could join in I could turn them str8! Or "what a waste".
We don't want to turn you gay we want to idolize you for being our version of a "hot man" (speaking for myself of course)
I have a couple "str8" guys, married who I connect with on a regular basis. It makes me hot. I love str8 guys, and I don't expect to turn them gay. I do think it is in all of us to experiment or be sexual with whomever. I have been married and with a number of women, I prefer men.
I grew up with a number of guys who all played around with each other until about 16 years of age, then most started dating women and got married.
Its natural. Curiosity.
 

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Most of the encounters that I have had recently have been with str8 men. I have never had to beg for sex, and quite frankly, gay men sometimes bore me. I may be bi and don't know it, but, straight men have always been the one's to come on to me.

Just recently, I pondered on this and came to the conclusions:

1 I'm not bad looking nor an effeminate male or dresser.

2 They trust that I don't have a lable for them, nor would I ever hurt
them or there loved ones.

3. I am self sufficient can take care of myself, both financially and
emotiionally and can kick but if forced into it.

4. Most importantly, I am kind.