For all the bi currious guys

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  1. watcha

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    Bi currious guys out there what made you want to be bi or just currious. what things on a guy that you noticed that made you start lookin a little deeper. mine was checkin out guys underwear when the bent over or what ever. whats yours
     
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    I think what made me start checking guys out started in 9th grade playing football. In the showers I would see my teammates naked and some had better body's than others and I liked looking at their abs and butts and then I just grew a craving to want to see more and then do more.
     
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    thanks for sharing man. any body else wanna share
     
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    I became bi-curious when I was around 16, I think.
    I started looking at bulges from other guys. Always wanted to know what a good-looking guy was packing!
     
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    I remember when I was younger my father who was also bi use to keep playgirl mags in his cabinet drawer in his office at home. So when I found them I would look at all these different types of naked men with hard dicks. Then while in school I would check out the guys looking at their bulges and you'd get the occasional guy in class sporting a hard on. Then as I got older I started watching gay movies and eventually had my first male on male oral experience. I still developed my relationships with women but I also had that fascination with guys too. I am very oral and I enjoy sucking on different size dicks, but I had never had anal sex with a guy until I met my current bf. So now at 36 I'm in my first relationship with a guy.
     
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    I never identified as bi-curious.
     
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    It hit me later in life, more around my late 20's to early 30's. I was in my early 30's when I had my first bi experience and I'm not really sure when I first thought I was bi had to be late 20's. It came about from watching straight porn. I've always been a tit man ever since I dont know when, well forever I guess. I watched big tit porn like it was a religion, ok maybe it was, my own god if you will. I realized that I much preferred huge cocks in my porn over avg ones after a short while. Eventually I got to a point where I would almost be as enamored with the cocks as the tits. So like I said around my late 20's I started to question my sexuality, at first I was worried because I was thinking I could be gay or bi. Over time I just had to admit I liked big cocks, and then I had to decide what else I liked. Eventually I arrainged a meeting with a big dick on gay.com. I was not even the least bit nervous or apprehensive. I met him went to his place, he went to the bathroom I got in my underwear and sat on his bed. He came out and was happy to see me like I was. He got down to his underwear sat behind me and started fondling my dick in my underwear. I realized then and there I was bi. I returned the favor for about 30 seconds, then took his underwear off and mother nature took over from there. I guess I was a natural born cock sucker, so I guess I was born bi and just did'nt know it till 30 years later.
     
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    I think it's just a matter of giving yourself permission to act when to act seems right. With me at 15 it was with the new guy in town. We continued to think of ourselves as regular guys who would connect with females sometime but we were bonded in deep friendship and were content to enjoy learning by doing on that other side of our sexuality for the last two years of high school.

    I was quite as enthusiastic when I entered into a relationship with a young lady. I have never given mysefl a label I am happily married and have no need or desire to stray by cheating. But, I continue to be grateful to have learned that males are often both loving and lovable as are females.

    It's not the gender of the partner, but the quality of the relationship that is most important. Formerly we had no models for permanent relationships between males; things are changing. I have made my choice and that choice means faithfulness in relationship.

    Do I still find some men sexually attractive? You bet I do! Do I find women besides my wife to be sexually attractive? You bet I do! But, I do not act on the sexual attractions outside of my relationship.
     
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    i was about 16 when i first started fantasizing about guys, at the time it seemed mainly my girlfriends idea, she wanted to see me with other men. she really got into the size aspect, liked that i could go too deep for her. eventually she wanted to see me take it from men bigger than myself, forcefully. i've never been with a guy, but i have taken some strapons, which i know is not the same.
     
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    Just wondering, watcha...is it that people want to be bi bi-curious or is it just that people are bi or bi-curious?
     
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