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There is no perfect specimen. I find all sorts of different things beautiful.
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Thanks for the thought provoking thread ! Seeing as I'm currently single and hoping to meet "the one", I've been giving this alot of thought lately. It would be a man, obviously. About my height, or a bit shorter. Hair color could be any color, thick and slightly wavy. Nice, soulful eyes, great smile, mustache and/or goatee, and an almost musical laugh. I like a hairy chest, and an athletic to beefy build. Big strong arms, nice legs and an ass you could eat breakfast off of ! I'm partial to uncut, so he would be uncut, on the thick side, and about my size or a bit bigger.He'd be open to exploring different things sexually, and want it a couple times a day.
He'd have a great sense of humor, slightly naughty, of course. He'd be employed and happy in his chosen profession, not a workaholic. He'd love to travel, and more specifically, would be into RVing as I am. He'd think I'm just the sexiest, greatest, most interesting person he's ever met ( because thats the way I'd feel about him..) He'd also appreciate jazz and big band music,he'd get goosebumps listening to Ella Fitzgerald singing a romantic song, appreciate good wine sitting next to the fireplace cuddling,love basset hounds, look fantastic in a tuxedo ( and be comfortable in one ),smell good enough to nibble, and probably most important, would love my Mom's cooking. So if theres anyone on here looking for a genuinely nice, sweet loving guy... and you fit some of the things I'm looking for.... well, just chat me up ! LOL
He'd have a great sense of humor, slightly naughty, of course. He'd be employed and happy in his chosen profession, not a workaholic. He'd love to travel, and more specifically, would be into RVing as I am. He'd think I'm just the sexiest, greatest, most interesting person he's ever met ( because thats the way I'd feel about him..) He'd also appreciate jazz and big band music,he'd get goosebumps listening to Ella Fitzgerald singing a romantic song, appreciate good wine sitting next to the fireplace cuddling,love basset hounds, look fantastic in a tuxedo ( and be comfortable in one ),smell good enough to nibble, and probably most important, would love my Mom's cooking. So if theres anyone on here looking for a genuinely nice, sweet loving guy... and you fit some of the things I'm looking for.... well, just chat me up ! LOL
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Hmmmmm....
A man who challenges me to be a better person when I'm with him and who helps me be the best I can and who I can similarly inspire.
A man who respects me as I respect him; who forgives my shortcomings without rancor and sees beyond my imperfections and mistakes by accepting me as I am.
A man who is honest with himself and others while maintaining compassion and love for them and himself.
A man who knows himself well enough to know his strengths and limitations and accept them as they are even as works to improve himself.
He must be intelligent, have a good sense of humor, and have an adventurous taste for sex and intimacy.
Interest in art, travel, and cars is a definite plus.
I have a difficult time being attracted to grossly obese guys. Killer smile helps but so do sparkling eyes and a genuine warmth. I don't give a damn about size or circumcision status. I do tend to find myself attracted to hairy blond bears and otters but that could go out the window at a moment's notice. I'd just be thrilled to find a guy I really like.
A man who challenges me to be a better person when I'm with him and who helps me be the best I can and who I can similarly inspire.
A man who respects me as I respect him; who forgives my shortcomings without rancor and sees beyond my imperfections and mistakes by accepting me as I am.
A man who is honest with himself and others while maintaining compassion and love for them and himself.
A man who knows himself well enough to know his strengths and limitations and accept them as they are even as works to improve himself.
He must be intelligent, have a good sense of humor, and have an adventurous taste for sex and intimacy.
Interest in art, travel, and cars is a definite plus.
I have a difficult time being attracted to grossly obese guys. Killer smile helps but so do sparkling eyes and a genuine warmth. I don't give a damn about size or circumcision status. I do tend to find myself attracted to hairy blond bears and otters but that could go out the window at a moment's notice. I'd just be thrilled to find a guy I really like.
Well I've never been in a relationship, so I don't really know what to expect in a partner.
But if I could describe a perfect boyfriend, he would be funny, creative and genuine. Someone who is confident in themself and trusting in me. A guy who can make me smile and who appreciates me for being who I am.
Also, it'll be good if he's taller than me and can drive (and owns a car).
But if I could describe a perfect boyfriend, he would be funny, creative and genuine. Someone who is confident in themself and trusting in me. A guy who can make me smile and who appreciates me for being who I am.
Also, it'll be good if he's taller than me and can drive (and owns a car).
Points for the thread topic!
First off, I'm supremely turned off by social-climbing, aging frat boys posing as adult "alpha males". Swing your dick in my face trying to prove your dominance, and you're likely to have it bitten off! :evil: Prudes need not apply, either. I don't care much for materialists--impress me with you ARE and your character, not what you own.
With that out of the way, I prefer my guys on the geeky side. I want a man with a healthy amount of "Peter Pan" in his heart. He'll know obscure facts about a subject that lights his eyes when he discusses it. It need not be an obsession I share, but it would be one that at least passes the time in interesting conversation. This man might enjoy comic books, foreign films, mythology, or songs from 1979 or earlier. Ideally (right?), his interests should overlap just enough with my own. Not slavishly, but I'm all for commonalities in a relationship. A healthy love of Joss Whedon's work would only help his case, too!
My ideal man wins me over with his easy smile--one that clearly comes from the heart. His laugh brings a smile to my face that is reflexive. I like easy-going, laidback guys. In his case, I would probably need "still waters"--a soothing pull on my own roiling tides. Hopefully, he possesses an intuitive nature, and excels at reading moods. However, like others have mentioned, own himself enough to assertively call me out when my bullshit gets loose.
Employed--naturally. Just not a workaholic; I like a man with a balanced life. Education is a must, whether formal or self-taught because of intellectual hunger. I like my men intelligent, after all! I also like them spiritual. Preferably treading a path off the one chosen by the majority.
Physically, I'm helpless before a handsome, sandy-haired guy. Either floppy hair--think that early Beatles cut the young guys seem to favor these days--or a nice, clean close-cropped cut. Sideburns are yummy, I don't care WHAT fashionistas say! I prefer fair complexions, with moderate to very little body hair. I like broad shoulders, prefer thick to lean, don't even mind a few extra pounds, as long as he works out. I usually don't like guys taller than me--I'm into easy spooning. :smile:
Since I'm an ass man, I like a cute bubble butt. Something I can sink my teeth (tongue, fingers, cock, etc) into! I'm a vers. top, and would prefer a vers. bottom. Maybe that explains my "size-queen" tendencies? I don't require a monster cock, but I generally like 'em about 7 inches, just a little more girth than average, with big balls. He should also smell amazing after a shower! Some guys just have that clean scent after bathing that I find intoxicating!
Oh yes--excellent kissing skill is an absolute must!
First off, I'm supremely turned off by social-climbing, aging frat boys posing as adult "alpha males". Swing your dick in my face trying to prove your dominance, and you're likely to have it bitten off! :evil: Prudes need not apply, either. I don't care much for materialists--impress me with you ARE and your character, not what you own.
With that out of the way, I prefer my guys on the geeky side. I want a man with a healthy amount of "Peter Pan" in his heart. He'll know obscure facts about a subject that lights his eyes when he discusses it. It need not be an obsession I share, but it would be one that at least passes the time in interesting conversation. This man might enjoy comic books, foreign films, mythology, or songs from 1979 or earlier. Ideally (right?), his interests should overlap just enough with my own. Not slavishly, but I'm all for commonalities in a relationship. A healthy love of Joss Whedon's work would only help his case, too!
My ideal man wins me over with his easy smile--one that clearly comes from the heart. His laugh brings a smile to my face that is reflexive. I like easy-going, laidback guys. In his case, I would probably need "still waters"--a soothing pull on my own roiling tides. Hopefully, he possesses an intuitive nature, and excels at reading moods. However, like others have mentioned, own himself enough to assertively call me out when my bullshit gets loose.
Employed--naturally. Just not a workaholic; I like a man with a balanced life. Education is a must, whether formal or self-taught because of intellectual hunger. I like my men intelligent, after all! I also like them spiritual. Preferably treading a path off the one chosen by the majority.
Physically, I'm helpless before a handsome, sandy-haired guy. Either floppy hair--think that early Beatles cut the young guys seem to favor these days--or a nice, clean close-cropped cut. Sideburns are yummy, I don't care WHAT fashionistas say! I prefer fair complexions, with moderate to very little body hair. I like broad shoulders, prefer thick to lean, don't even mind a few extra pounds, as long as he works out. I usually don't like guys taller than me--I'm into easy spooning. :smile:
Since I'm an ass man, I like a cute bubble butt. Something I can sink my teeth (tongue, fingers, cock, etc) into! I'm a vers. top, and would prefer a vers. bottom. Maybe that explains my "size-queen" tendencies? I don't require a monster cock, but I generally like 'em about 7 inches, just a little more girth than average, with big balls. He should also smell amazing after a shower! Some guys just have that clean scent after bathing that I find intoxicating!
Oh yes--excellent kissing skill is an absolute must!
i have such a vivid imagination, and i often like to live my life in fantasies, and make believe worlds. i have since i was a kid. :shrug:
i couldn't possibly describe any of them, because it would be so long and so boring, and they all pull at my heart strings equally. there is no perfect partner for me, anyway. i change every second of every day.
i couldn't possibly describe any of them, because it would be so long and so boring, and they all pull at my heart strings equally. there is no perfect partner for me, anyway. i change every second of every day.
I have ZER0 interest in a partner as I love being single. I would love to find a reliable, affectionate, intelligent friend with benefits though. They would need to be Caucasian, fit, have a nice body odor and good tasting cum. Being a good kisser is of prime importance. I find many types of men attractive, but prefer more fair types over darker types. They'd need to be at least 6" and I tend to prefer cut cocks unless they are very clean. They would have to have zero expectation of fucking. Glasses would be a big plus, as would blond or red hair. I don't want anyone who wants to spend the night.
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From an earlier thread, but still applicable -
What is your type in looks?
I like dark hair, as tall as I am (or taller), nice hands, no eyebrow waxing, clean.
I also like an accent.
What does he or she have to do to make you melt?
They are more like qualities I notice that make me melt, not so much doing a specific thing.
Intelligence, social and political awareness, masculinity, deep voice, confidence, directness, the ability to always tell the truth. Is not a pussy. Likes the occasional debate. Does not hold a grudge and is as laid back/easy going as I am. Gets my sense of humor and has a good one to share.
What is that small thing (pun intended) you look for in actions or comments?
Opens doors for me. Lets me have my way on occasion, and enjoys it. Will put me in my place when needed.
Doesn't mention their profession, affluence, or car the first time we talk.
What will make you say let's move in together or your the one for me?
All of the things mentioned above, along with love, respect, honesty, cuddling, and good sex.
What is your type in looks?
I like dark hair, as tall as I am (or taller), nice hands, no eyebrow waxing, clean.
I also like an accent.
What does he or she have to do to make you melt?
They are more like qualities I notice that make me melt, not so much doing a specific thing.
Intelligence, social and political awareness, masculinity, deep voice, confidence, directness, the ability to always tell the truth. Is not a pussy. Likes the occasional debate. Does not hold a grudge and is as laid back/easy going as I am. Gets my sense of humor and has a good one to share.
What is that small thing (pun intended) you look for in actions or comments?
Opens doors for me. Lets me have my way on occasion, and enjoys it. Will put me in my place when needed.
Doesn't mention their profession, affluence, or car the first time we talk.
What will make you say let's move in together or your the one for me?
All of the things mentioned above, along with love, respect, honesty, cuddling, and good sex.
molotovmuffin
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I totally get this. My taste in men is pretty much if they have a penis, that functions... they're perfect. I'm not into details of the personal appearance, matters little in the grand scheme of things.
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Female
20s or 30s
beautiful in the classic, blonde/blue or green patrician manner
WASPy yet stylish
excellent sense of humor
very strong emotionally
must have common sense
self assured
outgoing and witty
an excellent party girl/socialite who makes friend easily
she would have lots of her own friends and would like mine as i would hers
be able to do things on her own with her friends
generous of spirit
she would possess that rare quality of humility, free of arrogance or self importance
love children and be great with them and want to have some with me
have similar interests in architecture, fashion, design
be sensitive and aware of where other people are coming from and not be judgemental
must love sex and be very good at it
be excellent about open and hinest communication
NOT be jealous
be as trusting of me as i am of her (which is full trust)
be able to have calm discussions over matters we disagree
she would be thoughtful and considerate
be in great shape and be conscientous about staying is good shape
and that's the tip of the iceburg. lol.
20s or 30s
beautiful in the classic, blonde/blue or green patrician manner
WASPy yet stylish
excellent sense of humor
very strong emotionally
must have common sense
self assured
outgoing and witty
an excellent party girl/socialite who makes friend easily
she would have lots of her own friends and would like mine as i would hers
be able to do things on her own with her friends
generous of spirit
she would possess that rare quality of humility, free of arrogance or self importance
love children and be great with them and want to have some with me
have similar interests in architecture, fashion, design
be sensitive and aware of where other people are coming from and not be judgemental
must love sex and be very good at it
be excellent about open and hinest communication
NOT be jealous
be as trusting of me as i am of her (which is full trust)
be able to have calm discussions over matters we disagree
she would be thoughtful and considerate
be in great shape and be conscientous about staying is good shape
and that's the tip of the iceburg. lol.
if i were a dude, i'd want this from a woman.
most of these qualities are what i seek in female friends.
rare, but when you find it...they're life long and loyal friends.
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The purpose of marriage/ relationship is to have someone who will make you a better person than what you are while accepting you, as you continue your life's journey.
That said ill indulge my shallow self and fantasize that my prince would have :
height of 6ft upwards
a nice build
a deep sexy voice
a dazzling smile
and kind eyes
dimples would be a plus ( they're soo sexy)
guys that smoke, take drugs or get drunk are total turn offs for me.
personalities and character can be meshed if there is good chemistry and no completely adverse feelings generated from a partners habits. ( need not be identical as that can get boring, i subscribe to the theory that opposites attract )
Should be intellectually matched ( can't be having sex all the time right)
Beliefs need not be the same however respect for one another beliefs is crucial
mmmm im getting too much into the specifics... theres lots more of characteristic that would be attractive and fit my concept of perfection. However thats just fools dreams as perfection doesn't exist =(. the best i can hope for is a 9/10 :wink:
That said ill indulge my shallow self and fantasize that my prince would have :
height of 6ft upwards
a nice build
a deep sexy voice
a dazzling smile
and kind eyes
dimples would be a plus ( they're soo sexy)
guys that smoke, take drugs or get drunk are total turn offs for me.
personalities and character can be meshed if there is good chemistry and no completely adverse feelings generated from a partners habits. ( need not be identical as that can get boring, i subscribe to the theory that opposites attract )
Should be intellectually matched ( can't be having sex all the time right)
Beliefs need not be the same however respect for one another beliefs is crucial
mmmm im getting too much into the specifics... theres lots more of characteristic that would be attractive and fit my concept of perfection. However thats just fools dreams as perfection doesn't exist =(. the best i can hope for is a 9/10 :wink:
