Doesn't androgynous mean you look like a guy and a girl, thus making it hard to tell the difference? I would have thought, if that's you in the avatar, that you look more feminine.
Yup, that's me in the avatar. Yeah, I def look feminine, but when my five o' clock shadow grows out, and I'm still getting hit on by stupid men, then you know you have a problem.
Maybe they think you have been on birth control pills for a long...long time...might try a new-do to butch it up a notch!
But, I DON'T EVEN HAVE BOOBS! And, I like my long hair, I'm a hairstylist, what did you expect ?
[COLOR="Blue"I know, I used to have hair down to the middle of my back and in a pair of blue jeans, cowboy boots and a sheep skin coat I had lesbian woman eyeing me in admiration." Comes to a point you have to make a choice![/color]
I used to get that. Right up 'til i was about 23. The strange thing was, i liked it & would exaggerate the he/she thing with eyeliner & sculpted brows. The folly of youth!
for me its having a really hot guy think your awesome but then runs when he finds out you have a penis...
Seems to me, and I may be wrong, that a lot of this undue attention is brought about by your own created circumstance. And you seem intelligent enough to rectify the situation yourself however I think you'd miss the attention?!
But that is inherently the problem with putting yourself 'out there'. You don't really get to choose between the positive and negative feedback. You are not gonna stop people talking.
In your profile your got your stats down as...Height: 5'9.5, Weight: 110-112lbs, Chest: 33 in., Waist: 25 in., Hips: 34 in. "Hips"!??!?! Look at what your putting out there before you question whats coming back?!?!?!
I used to get this on occasion back in the early to mid '90s when I had bigger hair (like most guys then) and a smaller build.
Get a buzzcut and lift some weights. I did, and nobody calls me "miss" anymore. :biggrin1:
Steve
Sorry, but you are not androgynous. That would mean that you have both masculine and feminine characteristics. You look like a girly female.