I need help dealing with having an open relationship. Can you share some stories and how you coped with jealousy, friendships, and communication? My story: My partner(Kenny) and I recently had a discussion of opening our relationship to enjoy "having fun" with other people. Kenny said it was fine and I would be ok with it too as long as there's no actual sex. I'm more eager to play with other bois than he is, so I get a couple of guys to suck me (no big deal to him). There's this boy in class with Kenny and we all hangout sometimes on the weekends, and I like him as a friend. Kenny then tells me that they connect so well and he wouldn't mind f@*%ing. I asked him if he wanted to take our relationship that far, cuz honestly I wouldn't mind being plowed by another guy too. The thing is, I'm worried about how much they have in common and I feel left out because I can't share that aspect of life with him. And I don't want to have someone else always showing up when it's "our" time together. He tells me there is no way he would leave me and that I mean the world to him. He says "just as long as you come home to me, that's all that matters". The fact that they are so connected and both a tease worry me if they were to have sex. I feel like I've already lost him even though they don't hang out that much and maybe I'm just taking it too far in my mind? Can someone give me advice/hope?