for all you straight 8"+ guys here

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do you consider that having a supersized cock (maybe resulting in excessive self confidence) lured an extra nice girls to you? do you have sex with top lookin' ladies in the first place and how often (by top lookin' i mean those which you visually adore)?

i've always been with girls which i was at least somewhat attracted to but never get a chance of fucking some super good lookin' "bitch" nor ever come close to it. i don't blame it on my penis though.
 
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I have a dick smaller than 8 inches but I have had no problems hooking up with "top" looking guys ... and when I was younger gals. Honestly, I don't think most people are size queens - it's just a pleasant surprise when you encounter one sometimes.
 

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Guys with confidence get girls. A big dick is one thing that can give you confidence but not the only thing. I have a friend who two women have told me is "tiny", a glance at a urinal confirmed this but this average looking, slightly overweight, greying, balding guy has the knack of geting women into bed like nobody else I know. He reckons it gets easier the older he gets. For him it's all been about practice, he's nearly 40 now and about ten years ago he decided he'd start hitting on women at every oportunity. For a while he got knocked back all the time and became a bit of a joke among his friends. Not anymore. Now he just has the knack, he'll make eye contact with any attractive woman walking down the street and 9 times out of ten, get a smile, if he's in a club or pub he'll talk to them and one time in four get a phone number. Half of these become fucks...
 

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dunno..i never looked for women..they have either cum to me or one of their girl friends referred them to me...and i don't think it was entirely on the size of my breeder..a few were just into my size..but the others...just wanted i think a nice guy who is reasonabley good looking and manly to hang out with on a date...weddings, family stuff...and i would escort them...and sex was later...and most women don't know how to swallow a big cock like mine...its a passion thing..and i don't think women have a consumming passion to suck cock or swallow baby batter
 

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Personally, I married young (to a woman who is a "10" in every way) so I didn't really have the opportunity to find out if my size would play any role in attracting women. And while it didn't help me land the woman I married (she didn't see it until we had been dating a while) she was VERY pleasantly surprised when she pulled it out for the first time. I think the first words out of her mouth were, "OMG, how am I supposed to fit all that in my mouth?!?" Her previous boyfriends had been short enough that sucking them balls deep had apparently not been a challenge. So who knows, maybe it helped me hold on to a woman who is clearly out of my league.

I can say this though, my wife and I are a bit partial to nude beaches. These seem to be the only places where women actively approach me. And while they don't bring up my size in conversation, they usually sneak a peek or three. So I guess when its right there for all to see, yes it helps me meet women.
 

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I usually date top shelf girls, the girls that everyone that knows them want. I don't think it is solely because a big dick though. I have confidence, carry myself well and and a really good talker. When hanging out with women I generally just say the right thing and not because I am lying my ass off or anything, I just say things that work and mean them.

But, the my cock and being pretty good in bed generally gets word of mouth from ex-girlfriends to their friends works in my favor. We used to call it 'carpet bombing'. After a girl and you are broken up or stop dating or whatever, we would do our best to have sex with all of the girl's friends. Worked out pretty well and I would try stay away from the uggos.
 

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I don't believe that having a "supersized" dick would create this obscene self confidence. Self confidence is something that should come from within concerning your talents and abilities beyond the endowment that you may have been born with. I don't date ugly (unattractive I should say) women or men. We shut rooms down when we go out and that comes from our self confidence not because of what's hangin' in between our legs. That's cockiness and can be unappealing if it's not maintained. It's only been within the last few years that I've even gotten compliments on my endowment to where I would view it as others do. I've never used to it to build relationships. It might be possible if a man could walk around with his dick on his shoulders for the whole world to see, but that's an automatic arrest right there, lol.

A "supersized" dick should just be used as a compliment to the rest of the goodness about you; not the thing that defines you. They are several men on this site that have issues with women because of their size. A mature personality, sense of humor, and a healthy intellect should give an average cock a "supersized" appeal.
 

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My dick has never been the source of my confidence. Quite the contrary if I dwelled on it. I used to be quite nervous about the "unveiling," so, in essence, if I thought about my size I would have been less confident.

But I'm happy to say that I never let it get in the way. I've also never, ever used my size to pick up a woman. Like I said, that's probably the last thing I would want them to know.
 

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I know alot of guys who, despite being hung like horses, don't have much confidence in themselves.

See, many guys don't look at the fact that their penis is humongeous as a plus. They don't really obsess over their size the way we do in this microchosm of well-endowed men. They've had girls be either turned off or disappointed. Even worse they got used strictly for their cocks...and contrary to popular belief, being used ain't such a great feeling.

They don't have that swagger to get girls, but if the girls saw what they had packin' more often, they'd probably get quite a few more.
 

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I don't believe that having a "supersized" dick would create this obscene self confidence. Self confidence is something that should come from within concerning your talents and abilities beyond the endowment that you may have been born with. I don't date ugly (unattractive I should say) women or men. We shut rooms down when we go out and that comes from our self confidence not because of what's hangin' in between our legs. That's cockiness and can be unappealing if it's not maintained. It's only been within the last few years that I've even gotten compliments on my endowment to where I would view it as others do. I've never used to it to build relationships. It might be possible if a man could walk around with his dick on his shoulders for the whole world to see, but that's an automatic arrest right there, lol.

A "supersized" dick should just be used as a compliment to the rest of the goodness about you; not the thing that defines you. They are several men on this site that have issues with women because of their size. A mature personality, sense of humor, and a healthy intellect should give an average cock a "supersized" appeal.




Right on.
 

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Ya people that brag about being hung or goodlooking are just like people who brag about being rich because their parents have a lot of money. To me, bragging and being confident based on something you have no control over is laughable, at best. But then again, being hung, for me at least, always adds a little boost of confidence because I know I have something every guy wants, but most guys will never have. Im a hypocrite by the way.

It's weird, because I have had a lot of girls say "I bet you have a big dick." Likewise, I have also heard girls say "i bet that guy has a small dick" when referring to one of my friends, who in fact, does have a tiny dick. Whenever i ask them why they think that, I usually get a response along the lines of "You can just tell by the way a guy acts" And then when I ask what they mean by that, I usually get a response like "Well, you're laid back and dont seem to care too much about anything outside of your control." Whereas guys they think have small dicks they usually descirbe as being uptight and overly concerned with impressing people. I'm not saying this is a golden rule or anything, but I have heard this from more than a few girls, and maybe in some aspect, it is partially true. Based on this, I'd say that a lot of times, it does affect some aspect of personality, I'm just not sure which aspect that is.
 

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i've got a great piece of meat but i've only been with 3 chicks. all were/are cute, and pretty good looking, but not models or anything. lately i've been in somewhat of a drought... so no, having a giant penis hasn't really helped me get ladies. none of them new of my size and talents until we got naked.

i think that i could use it to get chicks, but having a big cock isn't something that a nice good match will go crazy over; its more of a way to pick up bar sluts. and that's not my thing
 

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dunno..i never looked for women..they have either cum to me or one of their girl friends referred them to me...and i don't think it was entirely on the size of my breeder..a few were just into my size..but the others...just wanted i think a nice guy who is reasonabley good looking

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