Going back to the original topic, I think in a way you kinda have to pick a side if you're a bisexual. It's not healthy, or very kind to either party, to get into a relationship and cheat because you have the fantasy, and it's not healthy to believe that you will ever have someone who'd be OK with you have relationships outside of your own. Anyone who would be OK with that, needs help in my opinion. That being said, I think, for me at least, I am content with falling in love with whomever captures my heart. Right now, that happens to be a guy, and I wouldn't want anything more than for that to be permanent. Yeah, I notice girls, and I'll talk to him about girls that I think are attractive and whatnot, but I'd never go and do anything serious with one. The same could be said if a woman stole my heart, I'd want to be open with her about guys whom I found attractive, but I'd never pursue anything. I try not to let my sexuality define me, so in relation to the masculine/feminine comment, I just act like me. I'm a man who likes men and women. That doesn't define my actions. I feel like sometimes it's a show for the super fems just to prove that they have dicks, and like dicks. It's actually off putting. Same goes for the guys who act super bro to avoid that they like dicks. I think you should just be you, don't be anything for anyone else, because when it comes down to it, it's your life. Why live it for someone else to reach their expectations or stereotypes.
