Okay, I'm a 28 year-old virgin. I consider myself bisexual, although I'm aroused more around males than females. My straight roommate doesn't consider me bi, he considers me gay, and he thinks that I'm going to be really disappointed in vaginal sex. Basically what he told me... there's a world of difference in the tightness between your hand from masturbating and the tightness of the vagina, which is really loose by comparison. He says that all of the gay guys he's talked to has told him that they did not enjoy vaginal sex. So... for gay guys, or even bi guys, is vaginal sex enjoyable? What about it is enjoyable? If it's not enjoyable, why?