For gay guys that have had vaginal sex -- is it enjoyable?

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  1. RLSteve

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    Okay, I'm a 28 year-old virgin. I consider myself bisexual, although I'm aroused more around males than females. My straight roommate doesn't consider me bi, he considers me gay, and he thinks that I'm going to be really disappointed in vaginal sex.

    Basically what he told me... there's a world of difference in the tightness between your hand from masturbating and the tightness of the vagina, which is really loose by comparison.

    He says that all of the gay guys he's talked to has told him that they did not enjoy vaginal sex.

    So... for gay guys, or even bi guys, is vaginal sex enjoyable? What about it is enjoyable? If it's not enjoyable, why?
     
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    I have had sex with 2 women in my life.... both times is "just okay" for me. The thing that turned me off, both times, was the "female scent"... I couldn't get rid of it for a couple of days.... (sorry, no offence).
     
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    If his friends are gay, doesn't it make sense that they might not really enjoy sex with a woman? Regardless of how tight or loose a girl's pussy is, if the guy isn't into pussy, it's probably not going to be a very good encounter.

    What makes a woman's pussy feel so good is not the tightness so much as how it envelopes your cock all at once - the warmth, the friction, the wetness, the grip....

    If you're not sure of your sexuality, you really ought to try a woman, in fact, several. And, contrary to BikerBear's experience, women and pussy smell wonderful..
     
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    Like you RLSteve, I am a bi guy who is more aroused by men. The advice from eastbaydude is consistent with my experience. A vagina feels great. The real question is whether you can enjoy and be turned on by the woman. If so, then you will love it.
     
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    Though i agree with the notion of trial periods since you are unsure of your sexual engagement preference, I find the advice given by eastbaydude biased and a detriment to your experience and attempt to deciding what you like. You state you are a virgin which says you have had intercourse with neither gender. Though you are taking the advice from strictly accounts, i think the most effective strategy would be to try sexual activity and intercourse with BOTH males and females. This should help you to decide which you like better, or if you just like both. Each person is different and your questions seems to be more of a psychological question. While you may physically decide you like vaginal intercourse more, you state you are more attracted to the male form, therefore i find it safe to conclude vaginal sex would not hold the same overall sexual appeal to you. Ultimately we, the LPSG community, could give you several thousand opinions but it comes down to you trying out various forms of sexual activity and deciding what is best for you.
     
  6. the_reverend

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    well, right now you know what you're attracted to (and apparently in approximately what ratio. ;) ). beyond that...it's all trial and error. you might find you're still more attracted to men but enjoy vaginal sex better, or enjoy them in different ways, etc. everyone's different, so anecdotal evidence from other guys regardless of their sexuality is only going to get you so far.

    and yes, pussy smells fantastic. as long as it's managed well. lol! i love that it sticks around for a day or two after. ;)
     
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    I was bi in college, none of my sexual experiences with woman were negative and all of them were enjoyable. However I think I am wired to connect and react better with men.
     
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    At the risk of stating the bleeding obvious, sex with men and sex with women are different things and and everyone's experience of either or both is different. Two guys could have sex with the same person and come out with completely different opinions. The only valid experience in this case is your own, so I'd suggest that you try both and see which you prefer, or if you don't prefer one over the other, why limit yourself? There's a world of possibilities out there. The thing to remember is that sex with one person is completely different from sex with another, so don't just base your opinion on one experience - be it mind-blowing or awful - the next one could be the best ever.
     
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    i had my first women when i was 15, and got hooked. nothing is like the feel, the warmth, the whole sensation of a vagina. however, sex now is almost 100% with men - i havn't had sex witha women for more than 6 months, simply because i prefer the idea of sex with a man.

    go for sex with a women, just to experince it.
     
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    All of my early sexual experiences were with women and it was all AWESOME. At first I could not get enough pussy... loved everything about it; the feel of it around my cock, the warmth, the wetness, and (like eastbaydude said) the scent. It's not a bad smell at all, though I know some gay guys completely gross-out at the thought; I happen to like it alot. I have been with a couple of women who's pussies were a bit looser than I prefer but it didn't take anything too drastic out of the experience, even with a condom... it still felt really good. It made me realize that some women are just better at sex than others. Nothing worse than a woman who just lays there and doesn't "fuck back", if you get what I'm saying. Thankfully, I have had more high quality sex partners than bad. I say go for it... you won't know for sure unless you do.
     
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    I echo eastbaydude's comments . . . and hopefully when you engage in sex you are not just engaging with another's cock or pussy but with a person whether male or female with whom you've made a significant enough connection that you've mutually decided to get sexual. Make love with or fuck a person you care about, not just a vagina, rectum, mouth or cock. Pussies can be so sweet and intoxicating or nasty like my first wife's. Most in my experience have been awesome! Keep us brothers posted on your adventures as you explore your sexuality! You've got a lot of experienced big brothers here rooting for you.
     
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    I have had girlfriends in my past and I enjoyed having vaginal intercourse with them but I would rather have dick.
     
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    it's the connection really...I've had both...like both...but still an ass feels WAY better to be inside of. :) Now...if they get into anal...SCORE! :) hahaha Seriously tho...it's all about the connection and if you're into them...you SHOULD enjoy the sex too. I think sex is more mental lots of times.... I can't just do someone without being into them at all.
     
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    I'm gay and I've never fucked a woman's pussy and the thought of doing it makes me ill. Yuck! I have heard from straight male friends about how bad it can stiiink. No thanks!
     
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    Stop being in denial dude.

     
  16. TheRam

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    What's he in denial about? Men can be bisexual and more into men when it comes to sex and relationships but their sexuality isn't gay or homosexual like ours is.
     
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    Of course it feels good. You wouldn't stay hard otherwise. At 19 I would fuck my girlfriend and later wife 3X a day. But I eventually admitted to myself that I like men's bodies much more than women's bodies. Broad shoulders and narrow hips turn me on rather than narrow shoulders and broad hips. I like angles more than curves. And I like hard muscle more than soft skin. But yeah, vaginas make dicks feel good. That's why they are there. Otherwise we would be extinct.
     
  18. TheRam

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    I have no clue why a gay guy would even want to fuck pussy? It's totally disgusting to me and when I've seen it in straight porn I get off to the hot guy but then I'll feel disgusted that I saw a naked woman and her gaping cunt. :puke:
     
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    My straight male friends have told me how pussy stiiinks and how a lot of women don't know how to keep their pussy clean so it doesn't smell nasty at all. :puke:
     
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    Yeah, so thats never been known to happen with some guys ass? Yeah right.
     
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