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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by D_Oldman Rivver, Nov 25, 2006.

  1. D_Oldman Rivver

    D_Oldman Rivver New Member

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    Any gay guys here who are just into giving and/or recieving blow jobs or penis play and not at all interested in anything anal? I happen to be one (of prob the very few) that is. I, in my own opinion, just think that a penis shouldn't go there, or anything else in that matter. But if your into that, pls dont let my opinion get in the way of yours, cuz i know many do like it. I'll prob just have a harder time finding s/o who's, i guess, basically into foreplay.:biggrin1: Also..women.. do you only prefer things entering your vagina or do you enjoy anal as well?
     
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    My bottom is one way traffic only.

    Not because I think it's wrong, just because I find it uncomfortable and not at all a pleasure.

    I know lots of gay couples who don't have penetrative sex, you're not alone flower xx
     
  3. Mr. Snakey

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    Never had a woman let me try anal sex. So i have never done it. Mabye im missing something Oh well.....:cool:
     
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    Anal sex is the last on my list of activities when play with guys.
     
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    Sounds like a reasonable request to me. It only I were on the west coast.

    I'd throw in a rubdown as well.:cool:
     
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    it's really weird to read this topic, only because i had this conversation with a friend in another state a few days ago. used to be my roomate. he is sort of in a relationship and was looking for advice. he said basically "i don't like doing that all that much...is there anything wrong with me?" he is just into oral, and into being lovey dovey kissy poo with another guy.

    i said there was nothing wrong with how he felt. do what feels good. for me, i am a top. stuff just won't go up there, unless my partner is below average down there. the best feeling for me sexually is having a cock down my throat with a guy i really like. i wish i could be more versatile. wish sometimes i could be bisexual also, but thats another thread. ;)
     
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    Anus=exit only...never have had my cock up one.....
     
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    From what I've determined, anal feels extra fantastic for some men and women. Some seem to have anal orgasms.

    I, myself, don't prefer anal. For me, it's a very intimate act that I'm not going to share with just anyone.

    That being said, anal stimulation is great. You know, a finger here, a small vibrator there. Perhaps a small dildo might be the ticket to a fantastic orgasm. I'm just saying that anal stimulation does add to the act of lovemaking.

    It's funny how someone will have an aversion to an act but with the right person that aversion becomes a non-issue.


    Hugs and Kisses,

    Karmen
     
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    I am gay, and never been into anything anal. It is not something I ever want to do either.

    Luckily it has never been a problem with any of my boyfriends.
     
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    With guys it's always oral only. With women...once in a great while...is fine with me.
     
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    I'm definitely more 'top' than 'bottom' but generally prefer oral over all. Having a cock in my mouth is just awesome. It's rare for me that having a cock up my arse is.
     
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    Nope, no anal for me. It hurts and for some reason it feels very submissive to me. Usually the very dominant guys want to have this done.

    But I would go all the way for my special someone. I would have to feel very relaxed and secure and would only do this in a trusting relationship, so not with every guy that passes me by.

    MJ
    From Hollanda
     
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    I used to be a total whore with my partner and wanted to take it that way all the time. Don't ask me why, probably because back then I worked at a gay club and came home slightly tipsy, (ok ok totally bombed, this was back in the day 90-95) and hornier than hell every night. I've always loved giving oral anyway, plus now that I'm not the young "party-girl" and not drinking, its more dificult to relax and take a big dick. My partner is almost 9" long. Its easier to swallow it and give a great bj than take it in the rear.:wink:
     
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    I've been kinda seeing a guy that isn't interested in penetration...with anyone (male or female). He's more about affection, which I've really started to like. It's the first time I've ever encountered a man like this. I have to say, the "make-out" sessions with this one have been just as good, if not better, than anal sex with him. I dig it!
     
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    I've been married twice. A total of 24 years. I did anal once with a wife, and it grossed me out something terrible. Had to recover for a few days. I am just NOT into anal, either. I do miss vaginal sex, but I prefer having the relationships I have more than missing vaginal sex. I guess I'm really bi, mostly.

    The relationship I'm in now is the best I've every had. I've learned that intimacy is really not about sex, and for me sex is really an act of love. So, whatever sex is for us, it enough, and it's wonderful.

    But I'm like you. I'm not into anal at all. I think there are probably a lot more people like us out there than we actually realize.
     
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    NOPE! I'm your basic old fashion cocksucker. And damn proud of it. I'm good at what I do and enjoy it more. If I've got a dick in my mouth, it's all about the dick and I had a hard time with guys understanding that. I really don't like blow jobs, never have. But feed me a dick every time... now with that said.

    I've done it. It's been done to me... you certainly have to be in the right frame of mind to do it. I can remember only one time I wanted it and I'm here to tell you there was absolutely no pain. But, that was one time in my life. And Dags.,.. you make me giggle a little when you refer to the 90's as 'back in the day' lol.... honey you should have been in the 70's and 80's.... whew!!

    Dcwrestlefan.. I think of myself as a top as well... cuz' when I have that dick in my mouth... I'm in control of the situation!!!
     
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    I'd rather suck a dick than eat a pussy and would rather fuck a pussy than fuck an ass.

    I guess the best mix would be sucking a big dick while fucking a woman but I've never been in a position to do that.
     
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    Drop me a note, punk, and l'd be happy to help you with the fantasy.
     
  19. BigLittleMan

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    interesting thread...

    to me there are few things sexier than a nice ass on a goodlooking guy. and being buried balls deep, knowing i am giving pleasure to that ass, is nothing short of the ultimate.

    i have thought about this and i believe there are several things which are such a turn on--being so intimately connected with another man, that he trusts me enough to let me inside him and last, that he is offering himself to me.
     
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    I second the what was said above...

    I wasn't always into the idea of anal, but as what has been said a million times.. A little patience, lubrication and lovin' can go a long way.:tongue:
     
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