As a 100 % gay bottom dude, I love to suck , and get sucked. I don't like to fuck a guy at all. But getting fucked sends me into another world. I love to cock worship big dicks, and I have to say, that it not ending with him plowing my bottom hole would be a let down. I guess I like the complete dominant & submissive issues involved. I'm not one of those bottom dudes that says "I love to feel you cum inside me", I've never felt any guy, cum inside me, but I know that they have, and that is a wonderful bonding feeling. Especially if it's someone you care about. For me, to have sex with a man, and suck his dick, and have him suck mine, and to have it not graduate to him being fully inside of me, would be pure torture, and in the past, it has been, because there are guys such as yourself, that don't get into that. I understand that, and respect it. Sorry to go on and on, just another gay gays perspective. Be well....Chris