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interesting thread...

to me there are few things sexier than a nice ass on a goodlooking guy. and being buried balls deep, knowing i am giving pleasure to that ass, is nothing short of the ultimate.

i have thought about this and i believe there are several things which are such a turn on--being so intimately connected with another man, that he trusts me enough to let me inside him and last, that he is offering himself to me.
Um, Big, you ever in Cali? :wink:


...but as what has been said a million times.. A little patience, lubrication and lovin' can go a long way.:tongue:
Yes, bless IanTheTall. :biggrin1:
 

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Any gay guys here who are just into giving and/or recieving blow jobs or penis play and not at all interested in anything anal? I happen to be one (of prob the very few) that is. I, in my own opinion, just think that a penis shouldn't go there, or anything else in that matter. But if your into that, pls dont let my opinion get in the way of yours, cuz i know many do like it. I'll prob just have a harder time finding s/o who's, i guess, basically into foreplay.:biggrin1: Also..women.. do you only prefer things entering your vagina or do you enjoy anal as well?

There are few things sexier than a nice bum, but I have genuinely never been interested in going in there or having anyone (or anything) visit mine. I think it is just the whole (pardon the pun) "ewwwww!-but-poop-comes-outta-there" mentality. I know there are probably oodles of folks who just swear by anal play, but fortunately, for those of us not into it, there are lots of other fun things to do with ourselves.:wink:
 

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Until fairly recently I preferred vaginal sex, with blow jobs coming in a close second. However that all changed this summer. Now I am a self confirmed "butt slut."

I have always enjoyed anal stimulation but chickenend out about going all the way for years. Little did I know I would have the most intense orgasms ever from anal sex. I like to call them analgasms. I still love vanilla sex; and I will always love sucking cock. But, if there is only time for one hole to be serviced, my man knows to breakout the lube.
 

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Hmm,i thought all gays love anal fucking..maybe for some but i was wrong..^^

Yeah, it's a common misconception. I could live without it completely. I have zero desire to get fucked, outside of a little curiosity just because so many others enjoy it. On the other hand, if a guy really wants to get fucked, I figure who am I to deny him? :tongue:
 

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Any gay guys here who are just into giving and/or recieving blow jobs or penis play and not at all interested in anything anal? I happen to be one (of prob the very few) that is. I, in my own opinion, just think that a penis shouldn't go there, or anything else in that matter. But if your into that, pls dont let my opinion get in the way of yours, cuz i know many do like it. I'll prob just have a harder time finding s/o who's, i guess, basically into foreplay.:biggrin1: Also..women.. do you only prefer things entering your vagina or do you enjoy anal as well?

Well, I for sure I'm anal sensitive and enjoy anal manipulation but not penis penetration..little finger do a great job even in the borders while i'm being vaginaly penetrated...when I'm being vaginaly penetrated only them any other play with it will be enhanced, it seems that penis inside makes my whole body extra sensitive...mmmm.....:biggrin1:
 

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If It wasn't for the fact that I have really intense anal orgasms, I wouldn't have anal sex, I'm not into topping because I would rather not penetrate someone's ass, but if someone is willing to penetrate mine... I would let them (for the most part)
 

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As a 100 % gay bottom dude, I love to suck , and get sucked. I don't like to fuck a guy at all. But getting fucked sends me into another world. I love to cock worship big dicks, and I have to say, that it not ending with him plowing my bottom hole would be a let down. I guess I like the complete dominant & submissive issues involved. I'm not one of those bottom dudes that says "I love to feel you cum inside me", I've never felt any guy, cum inside me, but I know that they have, and that is a wonderful bonding feeling. Especially if it's someone you care about. For me, to have sex with a man, and suck his dick, and have him suck mine, and to have it not graduate to him being fully inside of me, would be pure torture, and in the past, it has been, because there are guys such as yourself, that don't get into that. I understand that, and respect it. Sorry to go on and on, just another gay gays perspective. Be well....Chris
 

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Due to the fact that I've probably only had two positive anal sex experiences in my history...I've decided to become strictly oral. A couple of guys have done everything short of giving me their lives to get in it (I don't know why, it's not all that back there anyway) but I resisted because it's just not something that I've found pleasurable.

I do slightly envy those who can receive ultimate pleasure from being fucked but for me, there's nothing better than being choked by a big 'ol piece of meat.
 

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I've never let a guy do anal on me.

One boyfriend suggested it, and when I declined, he got very upset and said everyone's doing it. When I checked around with my girlfriends I found that they weren't all doing it; it was more like the minority. And when I pressed him further on why he wanted to do it, he admitted that most of the porn he was watching focused on anal sex.

He had a porn problem and wanted me to do what a lot of the porn girls were doing, and anal sex was just one of the many things. I read an article that said certain straight men consider it the ultimate in their masculinity to get into all three of a woman's holes. I don't know if there's any truth to that, but it would be interesting to hear if any guys feel that way.

One of my brothers is gay and he doesn't give or receive anal.(It must run in the family.) He even got into a fight about it one time. He was at a club that gays and straights go to, and a straight guy started harassing him about something and then used a very derogatory term towards him. My brother is very tough and attacked him. A bouncer had to break it up.

It was the opposite of a usual gay bashing. He got harassed, but the straight guy got bashed.
 

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I've never had anal sex with anyone, but my girlfriend and I have talked about it and decided that we'd like to try it, but with all the preparation first. It's not something either of us are massively obsessed about, but definitely something we'd like to try.
Steve
 

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Any gay guys here who are just into giving and/or recieving blow jobs or penis play and not at all interested in anything anal? ... I'll prob just have a harder time finding s/o who's, i guess, basically into foreplay.

I'm not much of an ass play person either. Guys ask if I'm a top or bottem, I answer "a Side."

I top mostly because the other guys want me too. Otherwise, I'm perfectly content sucking and getting sucked and playing with a nice set of balls.

M*
I lost my virginity...but still have the box it came in.
 

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It took me about 20 years to figure out that I didn't have to fuck a guy just because I had a big dick. It seemed that my destiny was to plow men's asses the rest of my life. Then I picked up on the fact that I was being chased by size queens. I used to be rather slow about such things.

Since most condoms don't fit, (and who wore a condom in the early 70's?), I would top with lots of enthusiasm, but cleaning the shit off of my dick was the main thing that got in the way of me hanging around and getting to know a guy better. As soon as I came it was off to the shower to clean myself as fast as possible. Sometimes, my date would join me and we'd clean each other up so going back to bed and snuggling was possible -- as long as the sheets weren't soiled. Sorry, just not into scat.

It wasn't until I met my first serious long-term lover who was meticulous about butt hygiene that I learned to be more into the whole experience.

However, I'm just as happy sucking off my current squeeze until he coats my throat with baby batter (baby batter-licious) and letting him go to town working on me orally and with a Fleshlight. Although, he's also into getting fucked, I let him take control in that department, too. There's a lot of me and I'm keenly aware that the wrong twist or turn can cause substantial pain if I'm not careful. Besides, I'm an old fart. It's my turn to relax and enjoy being pampered.

However, if we were only into having oral sex, that would be fine with me. I don't have to fuck someone just to get my jollies. Fortunately, I not that hard wired.