For intact guys in the usa what was it like for you growing up,love to hear your experiences

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My experience is pretty different from most guys here. I grew up in a super religious household. I have a ton of brothers and none of us were circumcised. My Dad was, so I'm not really sure why we weren't.

My parents were good about making sure we knew how to take care of ourselves. I remember my mom telling us, when we were little, that when we got older, our foreskins would stay back. I'm not sure what she really meant, but for awhile I thought that my foreskin would stick in the retracted position when I was an adult, essentially making me look circumcised. That definitely created some confusion as I got older and my CI-9 foreskin always covered my glans.

My brothers and I were home schooled, so we didn't get a lot of social interaction. Of all the penises I had seen, cousins and friends, my brothers and I were the only guys I knew that weren't cut. No one ever said anything about us being different, but I always felt like the odd man out, even though my brothers were the same as me.

As a young adult, I didn't really like my foreskin. I considered getting circumcised just to be like everyone else. I was especially worried about what girls would think of it. Thankfully, I didn't go so far as to do anything about it.

My wife loves my penis the way it is. I was so scared the day she asked me whether or not I was circumcised! I asked her if she knew what the difference was and when she said no, I very nervously explained the difference to her! It was actually a pretty beautiful moment. After hearing my explanation, she had no reservations about my not being cut. After she did some research, she has become an advocate! She has actually informed a couple of her friends that I'm uncut and told them that circumcision is barbaric!

I have been getting a lot more confident in my body, much of it thanks to my wife. I am so happy that my parents left me all natural. I still haven't got to the point where I am comfortable being naked in front of anyone other than my wife, but I hope to someday be able to show off my foreskin proudly. One thing I have been able to do is start a blog where I can share some of my fantasies, all of them involving uncut guys like myself. You can check out uncuterotica.com to have a look.

All in all, I haven't really had any bad experiences growing up intact in the U.S. but, I did have a lot of the same insecurities a lot of us have, being in the minority. I am looking forward to the day we're in the majority and a young man doesn't give his foreskin any more thought than he gives his nose, his hands, or the rest of his penis. Kinda like it is in Europe.
 

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My experience is different than most of the USA guys here. None of my brothers, cousins, uncles, dad or granddads are cut. Growing up, none of my friends were either. I never saw a cut dick until I went to College. My first room mate was from Tennessee and uncut. My next one was from Alaska and cut. The next one was from Chicago and cut. A great many of the guys in the dorm and PE showers were cut. I never heard anyone say anything bad about an uncut dick either. I did have a couple of close buddies say they wished they had never been cut. It was not a major topic like the size of my dick was. It is funny what a drunk man will talk about.

I fucked several girls in college with no complaints about my foreskin only my size. I know they talked about it to each other. I had several want to see it just because what they heard or saw through my pants.
 
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My experience is different than most of the USA guys here. None of my brothers, cousins, uncles, dad or granddads are cut. Growing up, none of my friends were either. I never saw a cut dick until I went to College. My first room mate was from Tennessee and uncut. My next one was from Alaska and cut. The next one was from Chicago and cut. A great many of the guys in the dorm and PE showers were cut. I never heard anyone say anything bad about an uncut dick either. I did have a couple of close buddies say they wished they had never been cut. It was not a major topic like the size of my dick was. It is funny what a drunk man will talk about.

I fucked several girls in college with no complaints about my foreskin only my size. I know they talked about it to each other. I had several want to see it just because what they heard or saw through my pants.

Where did you grow up, and when?
 

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I wonder if being uncut is common elsewhere in Appalachia or if it was unique to your nearby area.
I have cousins born in Oklahoma, Arkansas, Texas and California. From what I have seen they are not circumcised either. I haven't seen them all nude but the ones around my age I have.

The South and the West have much lower circumcision rates than the others.

When I was born, the Dr. said that circumcision was not necessary. He didn't circumcise his own sons.
 

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The South and the West have much lower circumcision rates than the others.

Is that statistically accurate, or just your experience? I haven't seen a breakdown of circumcision rates by state, so that really surprises me.

I'm from the northeast, upstate NY, to be exact. I don't know anybody, other than my brothers, who are uncut. I would have expected people in more 'liberal' places like NY, VT, CA, etc to be more open to letting a guy stay intact.

It seems like a lot of the south is more religious, so I would have expected people there to be more interested in getting their sons cut, since circumcision has a Jewish/ Christian background.

It's interesting that it turns out to be the exact opposite!
 

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Circumcision, while not explicitly banned for Christians by the Bible, has some pretty strong words against it in the New Testament. I'd think the people in the Bible Belt would be more inclined to not cut because of that. The only Christians who think they're supposed to be cut are Messianic Jews.
 
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I was one of very few uncut in school. Gym class showers were difficult at best and actually had several guys ask what was wrong with my dick. They had never seen uncut. By high school I was over it because I had one of the bigger softies and they had been educated by then. Several said the wish they were uncut.
 

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I have posted about this topic on another board. I was the only one growing up that was uncut and I was embarrassed by it. Not that I had a lot of exposure to other guys being naked, but on the rare occasion that I did, they were all cut as were my cousins. I remember one night my cousin who was 2 years younger than me and I were spending the night together. I was around 11 and for some reason we were in the same bed and under the covers. His mom walked out of the room and I got brave and showed him my penis which was hard. The only thing he said was "you should get that cut". I said no and years later realized a 9 year old knew about being cut. The only other time we were naked together was changing for swimming and we never looked at each other and nothing was ever said again. One incident in college was when a guy who was Jewish, for some reason, came into my room right after his shower. There were others in the room as well and we were all talking about some topic when this guy took off his towel and stood naked in the middle of the room. He was very good looking and had a body to match, but what he said took me aback. "What if I wasn't circumcised? Then I could never show my dick to anyone" Nobody said a word as they were all shocked. I can still see him standing there in all his glory. Yes, he was straight and for the most part thought he was better than most of us. I made sure to never be in the showers at the same time as him.
 

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I didn't even know circumcision was a thing until I was already into puberty. Any exposure to anyone else before that had been with other intact guys, though, there wasn't much of that other than my father who was also intact. My mother was a nurse who worked with newborns and I think that, along with my father being intact, and our lack of any real religion are the reasons why I was left as nature intended.

I heard jokes about foreskins, but really not that much going through high school. I remember a few time women stating their preferences and it usually wasn't in my favor, but I know that they were young and were influenced by what other people had said around them. Most of the jokes I heard in person were from other guys, and I feel like that was similar to what I experience on this site: an extreme defensiveness that, while they may not realize it, probably shows they were affected by their circumcision more than they could ever understand or admit. Much more of the jokes were in movies, on TV, or told by comics, which I wrote a lot about on the anti circumcision culture thread.

All of the people I have been with have seemed to enjoy what they called the "extra skin." I never had a complaint and everyone I was with came back to me after they had left me for someone else. Whether I took them back or not is something else. But there was never a complaint, like someone this forum will claim, that it doesn't look good or has a smell or taste.

I've been in plenty of gyms and never shied away from being naked in front of others. No one every said anything negative about my foreskin, but I also noticed that the ration of circumcised to intact was about 1 to 1.

I did grow up in the northeast even though I live in the southeast now. All of my locker room experience, and really all of the experience I described above, was in the northeast, MA. I will be interested to see what is different as I explore this area more.
 

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I didn't even know circumcision was a thing until I was already into puberty. Any exposure to anyone else before that had been with other intact guys, though, there wasn't much of that other than my father who was also intact. My mother was a nurse who worked with newborns and I think that, along with my father being intact, and our lack of any real religion are the reasons why I was left as nature intended.

I heard jokes about foreskins, but really not that much going through high school. I remember a few time women stating their preferences and it usually wasn't in my favor, but I know that they were young and were influenced by what other people had said around them. Most of the jokes I heard in person were from other guys, and I feel like that was similar to what I experience on this site: an extreme defensiveness that, while they may not realize it, probably shows they were affected by their circumcision more than they could ever understand or admit. Much more of the jokes were in movies, on TV, or told by comics, which I wrote a lot about on the anti circumcision culture thread.

All of the people I have been with have seemed to enjoy what they called the "extra skin." I never had a complaint and everyone I was with came back to me after they had left me for someone else. Whether I took them back or not is something else. But there was never a complaint, like someone this forum will claim, that it doesn't look good or has a smell or taste.

I've been in plenty of gyms and never shied away from being naked in front of others. No one every said anything negative about my foreskin, but I also noticed that the ration of circumcised to intact was about 1 to 1.

I did grow up in the northeast even though I live in the southeast now. All of my locker room experience, and really all of the experience I described above, was in the northeast, MA. I will be interested to see what is different as I explore this area more.
 

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Was born in Louisiana. Father and brother were cut but doctor thought I had a loose foreskin
and told my mother to not circumcise me. Most of my friends growing up were cut with only about 20% natural. Later on was happy to know that I was more sensitive and after marrying, I became proud that the doctor had left me uncut. Don't know whether this is true or not but have read that circumcision deletes up to 30% of the nerve endings. I would hate to look back and regret I'd been cut and have no say so in the issue. I'm a big proponent of letting each person choose their own destiny about being circumcised or not.
 
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In general terms it sucked and I wouldn't want to wish it on anyone else growing up.

I grew up in the Northeast, so nearly my entire peer group was cut. Until I joined the Army at an age below the TOS for me to discuss I never seen another guy uncut until the influx of immigrants from Portugal, a few from Central and South America in the mid 70s.

Growing up it was awkward and uncomfortable as fuck. Had I not ever seen a porn magazine with an uncut guy in it I would have felt like an even bigger anomaly, because back then there wasn't a common place (like the internet) to garner embarrassing knowledge from.

Once I joined the Army and used community showers 24-7 and seen more guys from outside my geographic area, I felt perfectly normal and comfortable in my own skin. The anteaters had parity in the community showers for once.

Most of the guys uncut tended to be African-American or Caucasians born in the south or rural areas.