For really hung guys, is getting your entire penis in always the goal?

[SaltnPepper32]

Don't know how to really phrase the question better, I've always been a "take what you need to enjoy yourself" kinda guy. I definitely prefer it when someone can take all of it... but I think its unrealistic to expect most partners to be able to do full penetration the first go around, especially if they don't really have any experience with bigger guys or just much experience at all. I get turned on enough seeing that they're turned on usually. Anyway was chatting with an online buddy and he says its basically a letdown if someone can't take all of him, curious what other people's opinions are?

 

[thongboy]

If you care about your partner you don't want to make him (or her) feel guilty about not taking all of you. Especially if it's the first time you two have fucked, you need to be patient.
Still, if you're a top, a balls-deep fuck is awesome. That's because of the feeling that your cock is totally in the grip of someone else's body

 

[Eights]

I take my time with the bottom and eventually most can take me balls deep.If not, that’s ok too.

 

[Magnum10x2]

That's always the goal! The sub-goal is to hear "I want you to go all the way" or "Go ahead and give me all that cock" when I'm on top. Doggie... doesn't matter - that pussy is getting stretched.

 

[Evenflow618]

Yes but its not that common to be able to go balls deep.

 

[chrisrobin]

If your aim is to go balls deep regardless then you're not being considerate to the guy you're fucking - but then there are those who prefer a quick hard bang and cum shot to extraordinary sexual adventures. Aggressive sexual predators might just shove and push regardless.
Like many others I've seen cocks to make the eyes water and I've sort of regarded them as a challenge. Maybe I don't get the entire length up me in one go, but like all these things you work at it, take time and then proceed inch by inch.
Hopefully if the fuck is really well-endowed he won't take it as an insult if he doesn't achieve total balls-deep fucking as long as he gets a decent orgasm.

 

[BigAl9]

Again I mention that I am bisexual; therefore, I have been with both men and women who have not been able to take balls deep. There have been some who with a little patience it does become possible. I have also been with those who at times can take it all, and other times not the last inch or so. Basically both of us do enjoy what has been accomplished...full orgasm. Of course full, deep penetration is the goal.

 

[corey19930]

Coming from my experience with bigger guys, often times it's the tempo of the motion that interferes with going all the way in sometimes it's the type of lube being used. I've had a guy who was 11in fuck me and made me cum without ever touching me in the front and it felt like heaven, then I've had guys who were just a lil above average and it felt like being fucked by Satan with lava for the lube.

 

[Blondeblowjob7]

As a longtime male cocksucker, I’ve given many blowjobs to a number of men over the years with a large penis. I would say that my feeders with a large cock almost always want to see me completely deepthroat their cock whenever I give them a blowjob. So as a cocksucker, I can definitely say from experience that for many men with a large cock it’s definitely their goal to see their entire cock into my throat with almost every blowjob I give them.

 

[PutItInHere691]

It’s my part to top.. I’ll fuck whoever it is.. if they can take my 8 inch dick then that’s cool…if not I’ll go in as far as can handle it and go no further.. It my might be my cock but it’s the persons ass that knows what he can or can’t handle

but I will say some guys will only take so much because they thinks it makes them look slutty if take it all

 

[lapdog2001]

I've been able to go "all in" vaginally with every woman I've been with. Not on the first stroke, but easing in, building a rhythm, going just a little bit deeper with each stroke. After 30 seconds to a minute at most, I'm going balls deep on every stroke, depending on the position. Doggie has the possibility of hitting the cervix depending on the woman, angle of penetration, time of the month, moon phase, etc. I'm always aware of what I am doing and how she is reacting and if shallower strokes are wanted or needed, then shallower strokes it is.

As for oral sex, that's another issue. Due to my 6 inch girth the length of my shaft, 6.5 at the base, no woman has been able to fully deepthroat me although most have given it their best try. With oral sex on me, the woman is really in total control of depth, so while I may support her head, or thrust a little bit, there's no way I'm forcing anything. I'm fortunate in that the woman that could go the deepest on me just so happens to be the one I married. Bonus: She swallows as well!

 

[deleted808122]

After clearly disappointing a hung top years back when his guidance on how to relax didn't help, things had to change. As a bottom, my role is to please my top and prepare properly to ensure the cockpit is ready for whatever he brings, in its entirety. Since that half-in experience & the regular "trainings" thereafter, whether it's their goal to go balls deep or not, never has anyone complained when asked to go deeper and harder.

 

[zanny10]

I don’t really call myself a top, bottom, verse, whatever have you but the times I do top I do get curious on if I can get the entire thing in (I’m around 9in or so)

so when I do the act of topping my goal is to get the whole thing in just to see if it’ll feel better since the times I have topped I never managed to go all the way in.

 

[SaltnPepper32]

Was mostly referring to anal with the initial question but glad some people took it to oral as well. Rarely a fan of oral service personally, it's a lot to expect of the average person. I think lpsg and online porn kinda skews expectations, most people I've met are from "experts" in regards to dicksucking. Admittedly it does feel amazing when I find someone fairly skilled.

 

[Ranxerox]

It's never the goal for me because it never happens. The only time I thought that was the goal, was the first was the first time I did it. I had a much older and experienced girl take my virginity and I assumed it all gets stuffed inside until it's gone... I was looking down and stabbing and stabbing. She was inching away, by the time I looked up her head was clear through the decorative railing on the end of the bed!

The goal for me is to make my girl cum like a freight train... not hurt her in the guts, so it's not the goal, no (although it really would be cool to get the fattest part inside

Roxx.

 

[deleted23128231]

I am exactly what men will call a very experienced bttm, i have taken almost all sizes, obviously the bigger endowed men are always a challenge to get balls deep but with patience i can take some pretty huge cocks, i think the biggest i have taken balls deep was over 14 inches long & 9 inches thick approx. I like all sized men & smaller sizes is my preference, it's not always about how big a man is but for me at least how they fuck is more important.

 

[PutItInHere691]

That is a good question as I have already posted once .

but I will say look at porn straight and gay porn you will see the majority of the men and women take about half if not little over half inside them..

 

[BiAlex39]

Im still waiting to find out how much cock my ass can take but I can take a 8 inch dildo that I back up to and it feels incredible now if I can find someone that would filk my virgin ass…love sucking a hung dick

 

[Gaper]

As a longtime male cocksucker, I’ve given many blowjobs to a number of men over the years with a large penis. I would say that my feeders with a large cock almost always want to see me completely deepthroat their cock whenever I give them a blowjob. So as a cocksucker, I can definitely say from experience that for many men with a large cock it’s definitely their goal to see their entire cock into my throat with almost every blowjob I give them.

Hot!

 

[PutItInHere691]

Im still waiting to find out how much cock my ass can take but I can take a 8 inch dildo that I back up to and it feels incredible now if I can find someone that would filk my virgin ass…love sucking a hung dick

Try a 14 inch double headed dildo.. it’s amazing how deep things can go