As a size queen I am sick and tired of being called on the carpet for stating my preference. I don't see why it's so hard for you people to deal with. This is after all the large penis support group. I am here to support, chat, adore, befriend, etc men with a large penis.
Most of the men on this board would never give me a 2nd glance in real life. Why not? Because I am not the Hollywood/media/porn/ ideal. I am not blonde, I am not buxom, I don't have a tiny waist and curvy child bearing hips, I don't look like Halle Berry, nor do I have the zaftig BBW curves of Monique or Emme. I'm cool with that! If a man says he likes big boobs, I don't PM him, because I don't have big boobs.
I can relate to this one too. I'm not any of those things either. I certainly don't PM a guy who says he likes big boobs. I'm usually hurt by those statements because I don't have them and wish I did. Although a lot of the guys here seem to be saying their preferences are for B's and C's? Well, I actually do fit into that category now. When I was younger (teens and early to mid twenties) I really was an A cup. I was very distressed about that, too. Yes, I was slim, but I was not as skinny as you might think. In my teens I really was very slim but not in an anorexic way - more of a healthy very slim (5'2" and 94 lbs. - no lie!) I think the people who say they don't like skinny women are talking about the anorexic, bony looking ones. I was not like that. But I was too flat chested.
I am no longer slim, and some guys are now thinking I'm too fat (but still too flat chested!) I'm not going to PM them over this. I don't need the grief. There are other guys who prefer BBW's and would think I'm too skinny. Not going to PM them over that either.
The truth is, I'm probably average. I think I'm a little heavier than average for my height, and a little smaller breasted than average for my height and weight, but I'm in that "average" range. But I've noticed how few men actually have a preference for "average"! Maybe because there are just so many of us?
And yeah, you'd think that on here you could state your preference for well endowed men without being given any grief. Life is crazy... I know that for me, and I think this is true of many of the women here if not most, our preference for well endowed men is for physiological reasons, not just visual (not saying that we don't have the visual liking though - I know I do!) Apparently I am not "average" everywhere...
As for how I look, I am not blonde either - brunette here... I haven't been told I look like anyone famous recently, but when I was in college I was told that I sort of look like Pat Benatar, if that gives you any idea.