For straight guys only... (a question)

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asking to see someones penis is pretty suspect.

however if you're the type of person who likes to brag about how big your dick is then im gonna tell you to pull it out.

anway there's nothing wrong with seeing or commenting on another mans dick
 
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I'm just going to refer to it as the snowglobe effect lol
 

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I forget which comic it was when talking about sexuality aksed his friends if they liked porn with small dicks or big ones and they all said yeah we like them big..If you like porn and you like big dicks...you aren't 100%

A complete , misunderstanding of the function of the male porn star to straight guys. Perhaps this is a result of the gay fantasy of being able to "turn" a straight guy?

The reason many straight guys like seeing big cocks in porn is because of the effect on the GIRL. The guy is there to represent US - when watching we are subconciously putting ourselves in the place of the actor. In a perfect fantasy world with no STDs, smelly co-stars and stop-start scenes, we wish we WERE the male actor. It's the fantasy of having a huge c*ck and driving the girl wild that arouses us - as much as we realise intellectually that isn't what things are like in reality.

When I see big-cock porn and realise that in many cases the guys are no bigger than me, I get aroused by having a big dick myself - in other words i get aroused at my own dick - does that mean I have gay tendencies? Be serious.

I can honestly say that I like seeing big cocks in porn, while at the same time having no desire whatsoever to have sex with a man - in fact I find the idea off-putting. Although I am adamantly against homophobia, I don't even find gay porn pleasant to watch, presumably in the same way that I've heard some gay men say they find pussies distasteful.
 
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myself[/I] - in other words i get aroused at my own dick - does that mean I have gay tendencies? Be serious.

I can honestly say that I like seeing big cocks in porn, while at the same time having no desire whatsoever to have sex with a man - in fact I find the idea off-putting. Although I am adamantly against homophobia, I don't even find gay porn pleasant to watch, presumably in the same way that I've heard some gay men say they find pussies distasteful.

Yeah, I agree with this statement completely. I think most straight men who watch porn are projecting themselves onto the male actor and imagining themselves experiencing what he is experiencing. Most, but not all, would prefer to be experiencing having sex with a big penis.

I have no inclinations to have any sort of sexual interaction with another man. I'm not sure whether or not I could do it to save my life, or that of someone else, or for a ridiculous amount of money. Perhaps I could.

I can look at a photo of a fit man's body with some sense of admiration just as many women like to assess other women's bodies and often do positively. I don't think that makes them or me "gay", but if you do so be it.
 

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I've never ever ever asked to see another man's dick unless I was planning to suck it. Of course that's gay.
 

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how straight can you be if your asking to see someones dick? Seems a little unorthodox don't you think?
I mean like I understand if you want to compare size but begging for it doesn't send the right message.
I've never asked and I never will.
The reason many straight guys like seeing big cocks in porn is because of the effect on the GIRL. The guy is there to represent US - when watching we are subconciously putting ourselves in the place of the actor.
When I see big-cock porn and realise that in many cases the guys are no bigger than me, I get aroused by having a big dick myself - in other words i get aroused at my own dick - does that mean I have gay tendencies? Be serious.
Good post drabman.The reason porn is a turn-on is empathy.If I can't relate to what I'm watching I get bored and switch off.
 

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Well said. From all the women I've watched porn with, almost none of them find the standard porn actor in hetero porn targeted at straight men to be at all attractive. The steroid-junkie guy with the vascular biceps are what men like to see, since that's generally who men think they want to be. The men in porn who women tend to really like are all a lot more slender, cute, and 'normal' looking. Guy's don't really want to project themselves on to a nice regular guy when they watch porn, even if that's what many women are fantasizing about.

I definitely know what you mean about getting aroused by your own dick. I like a lot of the vids on monstersofcock.com, and whenever I see a girl hold the guy's dick up to her forearm I notice that my dick goes up just as far on my girl's arm (and she's bigger than most of the tiny women on that site), her fingers go just as far around it, and her mouth get just as stuffed as my girl's does when I stick my cock in it, and it's a massive turn on for me. Truth is, I care way more about my big dick then my girlfriend ever will. An extra 2" more on the end of my dick than the average guy doesn't matter 1/10th as much to her as my fast tongue, or ability to read her reactions and touch her how she wants to be touched.

A complete , misunderstanding of the function of the male porn star to straight guys. Perhaps this is a result of the gay fantasy of being able to "turn" a straight guy?

The reason many straight guys like seeing big cocks in porn is because of the effect on the GIRL. The guy is there to represent US - when watching we are subconciously putting ourselves in the place of the actor. In a perfect fantasy world with no STDs, smelly co-stars and stop-start scenes, we wish we WERE the male actor. It's the fantasy of having a huge c*ck and driving the girl wild that arouses us - as much as we realise intellectually that isn't what things are like in reality.

When I see big-cock porn and realise that in many cases the guys are no bigger than me, I get aroused by having a big dick myself - in other words i get aroused at my own dick - does that mean I have gay tendencies? Be serious.

I can honestly say that I like seeing big cocks in porn, while at the same time having no desire whatsoever to have sex with a man - in fact I find the idea off-putting. Although I am adamantly against homophobia, I don't even find gay porn pleasant to watch, presumably in the same way that I've heard some gay men say they find pussies distasteful.
 

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I've wondered this too...no offence to any guys out there though, of course. But I guess it depends on your definition of straight? My definition of straight is that the thought of another guys cock does absolutely nothing to turn you on.

I think that if you want to see another cock and it turns you on then you aren't exactly 'straight'.

I've asked numerous previous partners what their thoughts are of other cocks...all have said that 'they are not gay' so don't think about it. But I've always been curious about this...I wonder if more guys are bi than what they lead on. I think guys should just admit they are bi, rather than pretending they are straight. I know labeling isn't the right way about going about it, but I dunno how else to put it.


For me I like to look at a big dick but only when it is being used to pleasure/fuck a hot girl. I dislike porn where the guy isn't packing but this is why I label mysely 10% gay for looking at big cocks:biggrin1:
 

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It curiosity. It's only natural. Just like women looking at another woman's breasts or arse.
 

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As someone who is absolutely straight, I can't say that I would ask another guy to see his cock. However, I may be curious if it is a girlfriend's ex or if I want to know if he is bigger. I have had several heterosexual guys ask to see my cock upon hearing that it is big, though they have asked more often than not to see it in photo form. I think the separation between celluloid and cock-in-front-of-them gave them the reassurance that what they wanted to do wasn't gay-- which I do not believe it really was.
 
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how straight can you be if your asking to see someones dick? Seems a little unorthodox don't you think?

I mean like I understand if you want to compare size but begging for it doesn't send the right message.

I would never beg. I would never even ask. I don't think there should be any shame with comparing each other's body parts. You probably get really curious about dicks because they've become such a "taboo" topic. The only reason I found my way onto this website is because I was bombarded with images of huge dicks and I began to lose the ability to separate reality from fiction, and I just wanted to see pictures of every day people's dick sizes. I know this place is skewed towards a larger member base, but there are still the average and even small guys on these forums. I think I am getting off topic, but I don't think there's an inkling of homosexuality to just see another guy naked. I completely disagree with everybody in this thread that says you are bisexual if you like porn to be anything but female on female.
 

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I wouldn't beg, but I research purely out to compare and just get a rough idea of what's out there in the world.
 

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When I see big-cock porn and realise that in many cases the guys are no bigger than me, I get aroused by having a big dick myself - in other words i get aroused at my own dick - does that mean I have gay tendencies? Be serious.


That is so me! I get aroused by my own dick when I see its bigger than the porn stars.

We can be turned on by big dicks for different reasons, but if you aren't wanting actual physical contact with a man, chances are you aren't really too gay or bisexual.

A man who just likes to see other dicks for comparison reasons (to get off knowing he's bigger than another dude, or gets off on a man's dick he is jealous of), says nothing about his true sexual orientation.

I believe that most men are naturally attracted to the penis. We usually can get aroused easily by the seeing an ideal one without any woman in the picture. It doesn't mean we are all repressed homosexuals, but what is does mean is that there is a little gay in every man.
 
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i guess there are ppl here who have nothin better to do then waste time - right?? or am I wrong? why question somethin which is natural? Guys looking at the guys - it doesn't make them gay, does it? same as girl lookin at a girl - does it make her lesbian?

Get a life Vladimir
 

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My thought is that this world is full of judgmental people, and as a society is not mature enough to except people for who they are. With that said, I'm sure most guys to, I mean we all look at guys fucking chicks and bound to see a cock in it. So if your jerking off to some dude fucking, then yes I would think so?
 

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That is so me! I get aroused by my own dick when I see its bigger than the porn stars.

We can be turned on by big dicks for different reasons, but if you aren't wanting actual physical contact with a man, chances are you aren't really too gay or bisexual.

A man who just likes to see other dicks for comparison reasons (to get off knowing he's bigger than another dude, or gets off on a man's dick he is jealous of), says nothing about his true sexual orientation.

I believe that most men are naturally attracted to the penis. We usually can get aroused easily by the seeing an ideal one without any woman in the picture. It doesn't mean we are all repressed homosexuals, but what is does mean is that there is a little gay in every man.

I totallt agree wiv u big bull