For STRAIGHT guys...

[D_ddHIi]

Hey guys I identify myself as a 22 year old straight male, but I have a couple questions for all of you who also identify as straight.

What exactly does straight mean? In the lockerooms and stuf, do u check out other dudes? Me and my straight friends some times whip out or cocks and joke around and stuff, we got all drunk and went streaking once too. I would probably have a threesome with another girl and a guy (like we we dp-ing her i mean) idk ive thought about maybe hooking up with a friend, but i def dont think im bi or gay, is this normal?

i think humans are alot more similar than we all would like to admit.

whats wrong with taking a look at a naked dude? the human body is a nice thing to look at it. I was reading somewhere too, that looking at pics of topless chicks cause less boners in dudes than when dudes shower together, etc.

What does it all meaN!?!?

 

[trappedinthecloset]

i think it means we're physical creatures

and from what im reading, i think it means youre gay

sorry!

 

[astrosfan]

I think every normal guy has one or two "homosexual" tendencies. I understand where you are coming from and I am not gay. I have curiousities as ever person does, but I could never do anything with a dude. So I would have to say you are as normal as the next guy, just a bit more open minded.

 

[hedonic]

I think its like everything else in life, we check out each others cars, houses, gf, clothes, etc... We are inquisitive beings and most of us want to try something new and learn form it. At least those that have tried it 'wont die stupid' Have fun and go easy on yourself. cheers. tp

 

[ddazndd]

Being straight means one is attracted to an opposite sex not caused by curiosity but affection.

 

[D_ddHIi]

i dont think it makes me gay trappedintehcloset but from the sound of it, u certainly might be.

 

[Not_Punny]

Some people say there's no such thing as a purely straight person.

It's perfectly normal to have curiosities and interests.

What defines your MAJORITY sexuality is the sex that you pursue.

 

[hyperionic]

Maybe.. we should all just forget about labels and try to be ourselves without being scared what other people may or may not think. The biggest reason we classify ourselves and other people is so that we can fit people in a clear picture. If i have that label.. then i'm normal.. if i don't i must be 'ab-normal'. Why bother.. just be happy and enjoy the broad spectrum of sexuality. And don't focus on 'how it should be'.

 

[cracka77]

We're normal. Guys arn't gay because they look (or even get 'excited') when they shower together. Guys like looking. Even the most homophobic male fights the urge to 'check' the guy at the next shower. I know this because I only have staright mates & we talk about this shit... Gay mates want to screw you, as soon as they know (what you've got).... So I stay away, yet even the straights are 'interested'.

& if 'anyone whoreads this' is gay & you think I'm full of myself, fuck up & live my life..... then comment.

PT

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

It's just a label. Like all other labels, it's only as useful as you imagine it to be. If you start having sex with guys, and enjoy it, and continue looking for or thinking about sexual encounters with other men, then you'll have a hard time convincing anybody that you are "straight." But call yourself whatever you are comfortable calling yourself or whatever you think applies. If you start suspecting that you are bi or gay, well then you probably are, and there's nothing wrong with that. Ultimately, though, you don't need to let the labels society uses define who you are or what you can and cannot do. Just be yourself and don't worry about it so much.

I call myself straight because I've never been sexually attracted to men unless they've made themselves up to look like women. I can appreciate the nude male form from an artistic and aesthetic standpoint, and also as a fellow man who is trying to get in shape himself. I don't like looking at other men's penises, I think they're gross. I just barely get along with my own. I probably would have a MMF threesome, if the situation were right and we were both focusing mostly on the girl. I've also thought about sexual experiences with other men, but it's nothing I've ever actively sought out or been aroused or excited by the thought of.

Most importantly, I am extremely attracted to women, enormously more so than I am to men. If I ever had the option of being with an attractive woman or an attractive man, I would choose the attractive woman 100% of the time. If I had the option of being with a super attractive man or masturbating, I would more than likely masturbate. If I had the option of being with a fairly plain looking woman or masturbating, I would probably choose the plain looking woman. I've never felt like I was falling in love with a man. I just love women, and in general am not at all sexually interested in dudes. So I say that I'm straight. The rest is unimportant.

 

[visceraltuning]

What does it all meaN!?!?

I think it means you are a 22 years old male, but not necessarily any one sexuality although you probably act masculine and identify with being straight. Not having a clear cut sexuality during adolescence (I mean the psychological definition, which is about 12-25 years old) is normal.

 

[rawbone8]

You're young and you may yet discover you have more fluid boundaries than other "straight" males. "Heteroflexible" was a term someone here contributed some years back. Bisexual is another term. Labels are generally reductive. They are useful in a broad way, but not necessarily accurate.

Some very bright people on here (and at other sites) have written about this subject before. My understanding from their wisdom is: Sexuality and orientation can be complex and each individual may find themselves in a unique place in a continuum. It may change over time for some. With others it may be firmly resolved for life.

You may be displaying more honesty than what is sanctioned by society, by acknowledging your interests. That doesn't mean you are not straight, just self aware.

 

[rimmer9]

Forget trying to label yourself and just enjoy how you feel.

 

[D_Shaggy_Shittington]

As a straight man, I am curious to see what other men look like, and I can certainly acknowledge when another man is attractive. But I just can't imagine having any kind of relationship other than friendship with another man. It's just not something that my mind is capable of, be it physical or emotional.

On a similar note, I would be very turned on by a MFM threesome, but only because I would enjoy the F with the other M. It's like watching a porn, only being there in person, and taking part in it.

 

[auncut10in]

When I was growing up, I was deep down inside always attracted to men. Because of social expectations, I fought these attractions and only dated women. I had plenty of girlfriends but it was mostly for show. I never really got into them if you know what I mean. When I was your age, I married a wonderful person hoping my attraction to men would go away. It never did. The pressure of society cannot change who you are. So I would say that if you are truly attracted to women sexually as well as emotionally then you are straight. If you are with women because you feel the pressure of being "normal" then you should look within your self as honestly as you can to find out who you are. No one on this site can tell you whether you are straight or gay or somewhere in between. Hope this helps.

 

[hung]

http://www.lpsg.org/28232-young-male-sexual-experiences.html

Please visit this link. It is from some time back, but I feel that it may also be germane to this thread.

Have a Great Day.

 

[Industrialsize]

I think every normal guy has one or two "homosexual" tendencies. I understand where you are coming from and I am not gay. I have curiousities as ever person does, but I could never do anything with a dude. So I would have to say you are as normal as the next guy, just a bit more open minded.

I'm a gay guy and can tell you that I do not even have one or two "heterosexual tendencies"

 

[str82fcuk]

Hey guys I identify myself as a 22 year old straight male, but I have a couple questions for all of you who also identify as straight.

What exactly does straight mean? In the lockerooms and stuf, do u check out other dudes? Me and my straight friends some times whip out or cocks and joke around and stuff, we got all drunk and went streaking once too. I would probably have a threesome with another girl and a guy (like we we dp-ing her i mean) idk ive thought about maybe hooking up with a friend, but i def dont think im bi or gay, is this normal?

i think humans are alot more similar than we all would like to admit.

whats wrong with taking a look at a naked dude? the human body is a nice thing to look at it. I was reading somewhere too, that looking at pics of topless chicks cause less boners in dudes than when dudes shower together, etc.

What does it all meaN!?!?

I`m sorry I just have to crash your straight party here, just to tell you, that you sound so damn fucking straight to me, that we gay guys will not even let you call yourself bi, never mind gay, no matter what other straight dudes might say.

You sound like the kind of straight guy that gay guys would love to blow but only if everyone accepts that you are straight and you remain straight straight straight straight dude (as long as you dont fall in love with just any old guy who is lucky enough to have you let him suck on your big dick) maybe you and your straight buddies could watch each other getting sucked off by a gay guy while you take turns doing a girl .... I think it would be very clear who was straight and who was not

yeah so anyway dont let any straight guys tell you youre not straight - we gay guys own this word because we invented it so you can`t stop being straight without permission from our language police sorry :tongue:

 

[rob_just_rob]

What exactly does straight mean?

Straight means "engages in sexual activity exclusively with the opposite sex."

 

[D_Adoniah Sheervolume]

whats wrong with taking a look at a naked dude? the human body is a nice thing to look at it. I was reading somewhere too, that looking at pics of topless chicks cause less boners in dudes than when dudes shower together, etc.

What does it all meaN!?!?

there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with appreciating the human form! i am so angry at the way american males are brought up, as if acknowledging ANYTHING about another guy makes you a fag (as if that's a bad thing, btw).

plur', you're an enlightened young man who is honest with himself. thanks for sharing your opinions, and keep it up!