It doesn't bother me or disgust me in the slightest, but I think the gay world would really benefit from a little more restraint for the simple reason that not entirely knowing how things stand is part of the spice of life. I mean, maybe I'm weird, but I love dating someone and only half knowing what's up - that whole guessing game and figuring things out - it's all part of courtship. If women were to pinch my ass and drool over my cock 24/7 I think it'd be cool for about a week before I'd want to go back to having to work for it. I'm not saying that gay men have no standards whatsoever, I know lots that do, but sexuality in general is a lot more rampant, and I just think it'd be a good idea to have a more intensive screening process before you go "nice cock, want to fuck?"
Again, I know not every gay man's like this, which is why this post is only really aimed at those who give it up way too easily. Don't sell yourself short is what I'm trying to say, I guess.