Men: For what reason was your girlfriend/wife attracted to you initially? charm/funny or cute/handsome? Or Women: For what reason were you attracted to your boyfriend/husband? charm/funny or cute/handsome? It cannot be both cute and funny or charming and handsome. Which one was the MAIN reason for your attraction? In other words, was it looks or personality that originally got your attention? Feel free to elaborate if you want... Thanks a lot!!!