While definitions can be helpful at times and do serve a purpose......when it comes to sex and what turns a man on, or what a man wants or what a man enjoys sexually, the definitions become less important. Who cares? As many here have stated, many men who live straight lives or consider themselves straight, also enjoy sexual acts (JO, oral, anal, giving & receiving) with other men. Why does it matter what % "gayness" they do / do not claim, what they call themselves or how society wants to label them? They are adults, they are not breaking any laws, the sex is pleasurable (fabulous actually!!) and they enjoy it. I'm glad they are having fun and enjoying life. I can never understand why this seems to be such an issue to some people.......