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Do we have any guys on the board who have done

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with another guy? No frat hyjinks when you pledged in college, no strip poker with your pals... I mean you have never seen another hard or semi cock on another adult outside of a locker room... So my question is... why? I would have to think that the older one gets the more unusual it would be that you have had zero contact with another person of the same sex. I’m simply talking about the math here- every year added to your life increases the ratio.

I know that availability to internet pornography along with the male sexualization of western society, and the mainstreaming of GLBTQ rights and issues have continued to shape social norms, and I know that young people are becoming more sexually mature and active at younger ages. Sexual education in schools has told gen XYZ and later that they can do whatever pleases them, as long as they are legal, respectful and not hurting a willing partner. Maybe the odds of finding a guy who hasn’t thought about a bro job, or allowed a buddy fantasy of a threesome to get to a nut, but who is still on the board reading this might become much less common as time goes on.

So my question is, “if you have literally never done anything with a buddy, or a stranger, or anyone- or even thought of that as a possible way to get some joy out of life.. why is that? I’ve heard lots of answers before, ranging from religious influences (“sex is wrong outside of marriage, and/or homosexual behavior is sinful”) to no interest (“I’m attracted to pussy, so I have no interest whatsoever, or repulsed by the idea of interacting with parts that match my own.”). I’ve heard the standard answer- “if eggplant doesn’t interest me, and I’m not looking to try new foods, you can’t force me to try it.” In other words, “lack of experience isn’t a necessary reason to justify trying something I’m inherently not interested in, or maybe naturally repulsed by.” Or perhaps you look at sex as an act of importance and you would never treat it as “recreational” (meaning a one-off with a stranger you will never meet again has no consequence.)

I am always interested when I meet a guy in my age group who is uncircumcised- perhaps they grew up outside of the USA, or in a very rural home, or had a pro-foreskin dad who helped them skip the knife, but it’s something different than myself. (Certainly these rates have dropped so much in America that its no longer a point of common conversation, unlike the tattoos that we can tell each other about in the locker room.) It’s a visual part of ourselves, has no inherent positive or negative meaning, and can be a point of conversation sitting in the sauna to someone who is open and friendly.

By the same token, this is LPSG. We are here to share and talk about interesting topics, and have opportunities to learn from each other. So rather than flaming or scolding, we can either participate in conversation, quietly lurk in the anonymity of internet shadows, or turn and walk away. I’d hope that you would choose to participate, and not complain that this question has been asked and answered thousands of times, or that this dead horse has finally been beaten to death- perhaps it’s a revival of a theme.

If you are a guy that, by your own choice, identifies as pure 100% straight on the absolute spectrum end, no same sex attraction, no sexual appreciation for a naked male body who has a huge cock, etc... totally black and white, no gray area.... : Did your friends help to shape your thoughts and feelings growing up? Did you have a macho role model that you emulated? Did you connect with girls your age (or maybe an older woman) who arrested your attention early on that put you on a “one track mind?” Remember many of these things may have occurred before age 18, so we can’t talk about them specifically in open forums here.

Kinsey studies show that most men range on the sexual spectrum, and if the 90/10 hetero/gay numbers hold true there is more diversity (or at least openness) about where other guys mentally entertain themselves. We know it’s ok that everyone works their own desires differently (no one else controls my mind or fuels my own sexual appetite but me.). We know that attraction, appreciation/affinity and eroticm are all different things and that differrent folks have different rules, triggers, or even “barriers” that they may erect to protect themselves from acting inappropriately. While I believe that we are innately given a unique identity at birth that defines who we are, I think life provides opportunities for us to flesh out what we really like (pun intended) or to course correct, and with some this may mean making different choices, maybe even opposite choices, down the line.

So most guys I know have lived their lives by participation and experience, and can say they have defined the borders of their own lives by figuring out what works, what passions drive them, what they want from life, etc based on what they have done, what they have learned from the peer group they surround themselves with, or by what they are pursuing. That’s the way that most things operate, but when it comes to our biological needs this can get muddled up very quickly, for better or worse. Mother Nature is strong and she will eventually get us to betray ourselves to base instinct lol.

I’m hoping to hear from the guys on the board that are the self-identified 100 straight... I will not try to put words in your mouth or assume anything but I’m sure you would say “I’m just not interested in any sort of homo touch.” That’s AOK! I’m also thinking we’d hear you say “I’m only interested in having a place to show off my self pictures and hear from women.” that’s cool, bro. Maybe you want the status that comes from having a place on a discussion board that is all about having the sexual power from being the biggest and virile. It’s been that same way since caveman days and it doesn’t change here at LPSG, our species has that one hard-coded and you are very normal to want to hang around here for that.

You may not even change 1% because you don’t look at other guys’ profiles (or pictures!) but you like the novelty of the site, and so you stay around. But what I’m trying to understand is, why do you draw the boundary fence of your sexual self where you do? Do you think it’s because of how you think your friends (or family) view you? Is it tied to how you see social roles of men in our society? Do you think that you have become more tolerant to solo or same-sex behavior as you have gotten older and gaiined life experience?

We are all who we are- we are all different, and we are all unique. I would guess we surround ourselves with people that we like (to some extent) and we disassociate from those who we can’t tolerate or take joy from (if possible.). We all are on our own journeys, learning new things, and hopefully being made better by those who we are lucky enough to get to be an life influencer. Knowing this, I’m thinking that most of the guys on the board are always looking to engage with those who don’t have the same life experiences, but can take advantage of the LPSG board as a safe meeting place, albeit accepting that you may get burned by the occasional flame.

To put it another way, what aspects of your male sexuality do you restrict to only yourself, or make available to your spouse/girlfriend, but keep restrictions from your close guy friends? Where is your Iine, and do you see the LPSG as a virtual extension of the line that you would not extend to life outside your computer? If you don’t have a tribe that would back you up if you suddenly lost your health, family, possessions, etc (meaning a life-altering event that would cripple your current self-identity.) Do you think you have changed as a result of reading the posts on the discussion boards, or have they only cemented your view of life?

This long posting isn’t an attempt to convert or coerce. It’s opporunity for understanding each other.
 

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Hi there.

That's alot of questions, but I am willing to talk about it.

I am one of those who identifies as 100% straight. Which to me DOESN'T mean I didnt/never did try different things when I was younger. I explored my sexuality, but not overly much (not the promiscuous type).

It wasnt because I thought "I might be gay/bi so let's try it", it was because either a) I was sexually frustrated at the time and a male friend approached me (which in retrospect is kind of funny because he also identified as straight), or b) because I was simply curious.

So, two encounters in my early 20s.

Now, nothing influenced me one way or the other. It was always just me, making my own decisions. I had no overtly straight male nor gay male influences in my life....unless you count those male figures in television and film that I identified with (Han Solo, etc). I was raised by a single mom, divirced when I was 10, so there's that. Most of my mother's boyfriends after that point, I didn't like or get along with, but there was a couple that I thought were "ok".

The two experiences I had in my early 20s, actually only served to "cement" my sexual orientation as "straight". While I won't say I didnt enjoy it (because consentual sex is fun and enjoyable), I did come to realize I enjoyed sex and companionship with the opposite sex far more.

In the psychological sense, I never fantasized about men nor dreamed about sexual encounters with men....its always been women, even subconsciously (wet dreams and so on....even drug induced visions LOL). That alone, right there, is more than enough to tell me I am 100% straight. Most gay and bi people have always explained to me, they KNEW without a doubt by the time they hit puberty....and I'm sure most gay or bi men on this site would say the same.

So despite those encounters, I'm not going to put anything other than 100% straight in my profile, because a) never even thought of doing it since, and b) I know for a fact, psychologically, that I am indeed 100% straight. Also, I dont really want to "open the door" so to speak....while I do appreciate comments and am open to discussion from gay men (because I am Kind and not narrow minded or homophobic, says so right it my username), I have no desire to have it go any further than that.

As for my presence in this group, it was originally a female friend on another site that directed me here...and I just...stayed. In fact, I was...absent...for some time and have only recently returned to participating. I just never bothered to delete my profile.
 

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What an interesting and thoughtful question and what a terrific first response.
As a gay male I’ll follow this thread and watch from the sidelines but if the responses are as well written and thoughtfully done as @KindlyJedi then this should be enlightening.
 
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Do we have any guys on the board who have done

N. O. T. H. I. N. G.

with another guy? No frat hyjinks when you pledged in college, no strip poker with your pals... I mean you have never seen another hard or semi cock on another adult outside of a locker room... So my question is... why? I would have to think that the older one gets the more unusual it would be that you have had zero contact with another person of the same sex. I’m simply talking about the math here- every year added to your life increases the ratio.

I know that availability to internet pornography along with the male sexualization of western society, and the mainstreaming of GLBTQ rights and issues have continued to shape social norms, and I know that young people are becoming more sexually mature and active at younger ages. Sexual education in schools has told gen XYZ and later that they can do whatever pleases them, as long as they are legal, respectful and not hurting a willing partner. Maybe the odds of finding a guy who hasn’t thought about a bro job, or allowed a buddy fantasy of a threesome to get to a nut, but who is still on the board reading this might become much less common as time goes on.

So my question is, “if you have literally never done anything with a buddy, or a stranger, or anyone- or even thought of that as a possible way to get some joy out of life.. why is that? I’ve heard lots of answers before, ranging from religious influences (“sex is wrong outside of marriage, and/or homosexual behavior is sinful”) to no interest (“I’m attracted to pussy, so I have no interest whatsoever, or repulsed by the idea of interacting with parts that match my own.”). I’ve heard the standard answer- “if eggplant doesn’t interest me, and I’m not looking to try new foods, you can’t force me to try it.” In other words, “lack of experience isn’t a necessary reason to justify trying something I’m inherently not interested in, or maybe naturally repulsed by.” Or perhaps you look at sex as an act of importance and you would never treat it as “recreational” (meaning a one-off with a stranger you will never meet again has no consequence.)

I am always interested when I meet a guy in my age group who is uncircumcised- perhaps they grew up outside of the USA, or in a very rural home, or had a pro-foreskin dad who helped them skip the knife, but it’s something different than myself. (Certainly these rates have dropped so much in America that its no longer a point of common conversation, unlike the tattoos that we can tell each other about in the locker room.) It’s a visual part of ourselves, has no inherent positive or negative meaning, and can be a point of conversation sitting in the sauna to someone who is open and friendly.

By the same token, this is LPSG. We are here to share and talk about interesting topics, and have opportunities to learn from each other. So rather than flaming or scolding, we can either participate in conversation, quietly lurk in the anonymity of internet shadows, or turn and walk away. I’d hope that you would choose to participate, and not complain that this question has been asked and answered thousands of times, or that this dead horse has finally been beaten to death- perhaps it’s a revival of a theme.

If you are a guy that, by your own choice, identifies as pure 100% straight on the absolute spectrum end, no same sex attraction, no sexual appreciation for a naked male body who has a huge cock, etc... totally black and white, no gray area.... : Did your friends help to shape your thoughts and feelings growing up? Did you have a macho role model that you emulated? Did you connect with girls your age (or maybe an older woman) who arrested your attention early on that put you on a “one track mind?” Remember many of these things may have occurred before age 18, so we can’t talk about them specifically in open forums here.

Kinsey studies show that most men range on the sexual spectrum, and if the 90/10 hetero/gay numbers hold true there is more diversity (or at least openness) about where other guys mentally entertain themselves. We know it’s ok that everyone works their own desires differently (no one else controls my mind or fuels my own sexual appetite but me.). We know that attraction, appreciation/affinity and eroticm are all different things and that differrent folks have different rules, triggers, or even “barriers” that they may erect to protect themselves from acting inappropriately. While I believe that we are innately given a unique identity at birth that defines who we are, I think life provides opportunities for us to flesh out what we really like (pun intended) or to course correct, and with some this may mean making different choices, maybe even opposite choices, down the line.

So most guys I know have lived their lives by participation and experience, and can say they have defined the borders of their own lives by figuring out what works, what passions drive them, what they want from life, etc based on what they have done, what they have learned from the peer group they surround themselves with, or by what they are pursuing. That’s the way that most things operate, but when it comes to our biological needs this can get muddled up very quickly, for better or worse. Mother Nature is strong and she will eventually get us to betray ourselves to base instinct lol.

I’m hoping to hear from the guys on the board that are the self-identified 100 straight... I will not try to put words in your mouth or assume anything but I’m sure you would say “I’m just not interested in any sort of homo touch.” That’s AOK! I’m also thinking we’d hear you say “I’m only interested in having a place to show off my self pictures and hear from women.” that’s cool, bro. Maybe you want the status that comes from having a place on a discussion board that is all about having the sexual power from being the biggest and virile. It’s been that same way since caveman days and it doesn’t change here at LPSG, our species has that one hard-coded and you are very normal to want to hang around here for that.

You may not even change 1% because you don’t look at other guys’ profiles (or pictures!) but you like the novelty of the site, and so you stay around. But what I’m trying to understand is, why do you draw the boundary fence of your sexual self where you do? Do you think it’s because of how you think your friends (or family) view you? Is it tied to how you see social roles of men in our society? Do you think that you have become more tolerant to solo or same-sex behavior as you have gotten older and gaiined life experience?

We are all who we are- we are all different, and we are all unique. I would guess we surround ourselves with people that we like (to some extent) and we disassociate from those who we can’t tolerate or take joy from (if possible.). We all are on our own journeys, learning new things, and hopefully being made better by those who we are lucky enough to get to be an life influencer. Knowing this, I’m thinking that most of the guys on the board are always looking to engage with those who don’t have the same life experiences, but can take advantage of the LPSG board as a safe meeting place, albeit accepting that you may get burned by the occasional flame.

To put it another way, what aspects of your male sexuality do you restrict to only yourself, or make available to your spouse/girlfriend, but keep restrictions from your close guy friends? Where is your Iine, and do you see the LPSG as a virtual extension of the line that you would not extend to life outside your computer? If you don’t have a tribe that would back you up if you suddenly lost your health, family, possessions, etc (meaning a life-altering event that would cripple your current self-identity.) Do you think you have changed as a result of reading the posts on the discussion boards, or have they only cemented your view of life?

This long posting isn’t an attempt to convert or coerce. It’s opporunity for understanding each other.
I’m not 100% but 99-1 because I will never say never but I have never wanted to have sex with a female, never been attracted to a female, never wanted to have a relationship with a woman just nothing. There’s no dislike or disgust or anything like that In my mind I just would never sexualise a female. I know it may sound difficult or wrong for other people to read but (not that I am comparing them in anyway other than this context) but i also wouldn’t sexualise inanimate objects or animals. I just don’t see women as something I would sexualise personally.
 

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That's a really good question. I grew up religious, so that is probably where it all started.

To be honest, I have been curious about dicks, but not in a sexual way. You see, I live in America and my parents decided not to have me circumcised. So, when I was a child, and I saw my friends' circumcised penises, I was curious about the differences between us. But, since all of my friends were cut, I was afraid to show any of them mine for fear of being ridiculed.

When I got older, I decided that I liked having a foreskin, but I was still pretty self conscious about it. So, when I watched porn, I would try to find porn with uncut guys in it. It helped me feel more normal and it was also a turn on because it was easier to imagine that it was me fucking the girl with my uncircumcised dick, instead of him fucking her with his.

My curiosity has never been sexual, though. I have never had a desire to have sex with a man. I like to watch a man having sex with a woman, but watching two guys go at it, or thinking about doing it with a guy is a huge turn off for me. I don't find it arousing and I've never had the desire to try it.
 
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This has been asked before but not quite as in-depth as this lol.
To retread answer I have said before I am straight and have never had any type of sexual interaction with a male or any desire to do so. I am currently a university student, near the end of my education, and none of what youve describe has ever happened to me or anyone else that I am good friends with at my uni.

They stereo type that us, the younger generation are more accepting and open minded about this is played up way to much by the older generation. It is true we are more accepting of other identities and what have you but that doesn't mean we are just hooking up with everything in sight. Respect doesn't need to lead to participation.

As for why it's because I am not attracted to men and have no interest in doing anything with men. And just because I'm a straight man doesn't mean I'm attracted to every woman out there. There are only specific traits that I do find attractive and not every women has those.
 

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I have not because it doesn't interest me. I had my first gf before I could even write my name. I have always loved girls. I am not averse to hugs from male friends or anything like that. I just like women for sex. I don't use them, I require a relationship before anything happens, and I am only attracted to certain traits. Also, I will be 60 this year.
 
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It’s so interesting to read these responses- it really makes you realize just how unique we all are! Makes me think that those early responses to the Kinsey questionnaires must really have freaked out the examiners!
 

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I'm basically 100% I only state 99 since I will use a gay dudes mouth when pussy ain't available. Have fucked a guy a couple times drink, but ain't never been the receiver in the mouth or ass. I WILL circle jerk with buddies watching porn though, sometimes we grab each other for a few tugs but that's it
 
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I'm basically 100% I only state 99 since I will use a gay dudes mouth when pussy ain't available. Have fucked a guy a couple times drink, but ain't never been the receiver in the mouth or ass. I WILL circle jerk with buddies watching porn though, sometimes we grab each other for a few tugs but that's it

Apologies for my crass language, no harm intended, just raised that way. Sorry I offended anyone
 
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I'm basically 100% I only state 99 since I will use a fags mouth when pussy ain't available. Have fucked a guy a couple times drink, but ain't never been the receiver in the mouth or ass. I WILL circle jerk with buddies watching porn though, sometimes we grab each other for a few tugs but that's it

You know you could have made your point without using homophobic slurs?

Plus, topping and bottoming are no gayer or less gay than each other.
 

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You know you could have made your point without using homophobic slurs?

Plus, topping and bottoming are no gayer or less gay than each other.
Agreed again apologies for my crass and ignorant language. I was raised very redneck and sometimes use harsh language that no offense is intended
 

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Agreed again apologies for my crass and ignorant language. I was raised very redneck and sometimes use harsh language that no offense is intended

I'm not particularly offended (I did however roll my eyes when I read the post though), the word "fag" still mainly means "cigarette" (as I'm from the UK) to me, but you should be aware (and I'm certainly aware) that there will be plenty of people on the site who've had that word shouted at them aggressively to dehumanise them. So it isn't appropriate given the high number of gay men (including plenty from North America) on the site. But apology accepted nonetheless.
 
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I am 100% sure this question is irrelevant. If somebody tells me they are 100% of anything that is their prerogative.

I will say again as I have before here that when I see this question posed - no one ever questions the motive or the where with all if a Gay male says he is 100% Gay; however the pitch forks and torches come out for guys that claim to be 100% or even 99% Straight.

If a person is claiming 100% straight and start talking about suck buddies, jerk off buddies and "using" a gay guy you sure as hell probably aren't 100% straight, but again it's your calculus and I will just giggle my ass off or smirk.

For the record I am 90% Straight 10% Gay because I believe if I did anything intimate with a male I crossed the line in the past, present or future. That's my standards though and everyone has their own.

Personally I give zero fucks.

To the OP you write well and long, but perhaps you should have expended your literary energy to better pursuits.
 

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I'm a member and past moderator of a PE website, enjoy looking at dick pics here, have posted many of my own, but I honestly have never had any desire to engage in any kind of sexual act with another guy. I have used dildos on myself and done other similar kinds of acts on myself - and even enjoyed some of them to the point of doing it multiple times. Mutual sex though is only with and has only been with my wife.