B_Stronzo
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Lex I disagree. Alex went to some trouble to post Judith's initial entry post to this place and though I agree it had a self-aggrandizing tone to it, everyone's different. And I also think that in the larger picture she was speaking from a place of disenfranchisement. That's why I brought up the 'initiation' thing. I lived it. Bronxy is lovely. But she doesn't contradict much so she's bound to be liked immediately. But is that why we're here? To be 'liked'? Geeez, I hope not. It's always nice but hell I graduated from high school eons ago and it wasn't dreadfully important then.Lex said:I would agree here (while agreeing also with Matthew--Libra CURSE) and say that these points really have little to do with her leaving.
I enjoy it here. It's brain food.So, the question is--what makes someone like you stay?
I haven't a clue what motivates others.Why do some stay, feeling that they have something to say and offer while others don't?
I tend to believe that some people have the resolve to stand by their words (regardless of how others respond to them--or don't) and some people lack it. Blaming the board for rejection and isolation based on potentially unpopular opinions or potentially offensive stances is displacement at its most textbook.
However 'textbook', it's nonetheless true in part.
And I agree with you to a point. But again I say that this business of saying "oh I just adore so-and-so" and dedicating a thread to it is dangerous stuff. It is bound to cause an "us and them" sort of mentality.
I think she never should have announced her leaving. It was grand standing. But I think something can be learned from her take on this place. As Windy says, (and I paraphrase) 'I enjoy all posters'. I do too.
Didn't see the piece you added. I agree entirely Lex.