This questions is for the bottoms- and not the size queens necessarily. (I'm sure I'm repeating another post, but whatever.) I'm a top, and my dick is pretty thick. Fairly often, I'll be with a guy who finds it too uncomfortable to bottom for me. I've tried a few things- going very slowly, starting with fingers, but for some guys it just doesn't help. I obviously don't want to hurt my partners, but I also want to make sure the painleasure ratio is acceptable for them. The guys I've been with have been experienced bottoms but haven't necessarily taken the kind of girth I have to offer.
So what works for you all? Having a big dick is nice, but not if I can't use it the way I want to. Advice would be nice. Thanks in advance.
Well, like everybody already said, use lots of lube. Be gentle. Wait for your bottom make the moves. He's the one in possible pain, so wait for him and obey his requests.
As a top I think it's a must when I'm going slow and have my bottom to push his butt against my dick. That's when I'm sure he's alright.
There's no math in it. It' will differ everytime, even with the same person. Sometimes a position is fine, sometimes not. You'll have to test until you got it right everytime. Personaly I like to be on top first. I've had a few even a little thicker. For me length is more serious than girth. The sphincter an adjust after sometime, but the depth of your ass can't.
Your dick is beautiful. I'd ride you anytime! ;-)
