For the bottoms- how to take a thick cock?

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Sometimes the right answer is — don't even think of it. I'm long but only medium thick and I'm glad of that when I top, which is most of the time. And when I bottom, I;m always ready to say no to a cock that's too thick for me to handle. It's smart to know the limits of our own body.
 

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It took me a while before I could take all of him inside me. Had to do some practice stretching with a dildo and he just fucked me with the head of his cock the first few times. Then progressively went deeper. Best things to do is get on top and ride his cock so you can control it better. It just takes patience and a lot of lube (or cum) lol
 

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i am in a relationship with a really great guy but his dick is way too thick for me and we have never managed to have an actual intercourse. he has fucked me max 2 minutes and then i ask him to stop cause it hurts way too much. i hope it works out for us in the future
 

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I get ready by using water only to clean out fully. After cleaned I lube my hole and insert my 8" x 1 7/8" wide silicone realistic dildo fully using a condom for cleanliness. After I'm satisfied I am stretched and ready for my friend's big cock I sit in a tub of very warm water and use Dove body wash to clean everything, even into my b-hole a distance with the wash cloth and my index finger to insert the soapy cloth. After rinsing I sit in the warm water for 10-15 minutes. Usually I can take his huge cock with very, very little pain.
 

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The thicker the dick, the sloppier I seem to suck. The more sincere I suck. The more I inhale his musk and savor his taste. When it's time for him to fuck me, I'm so turned on that I fully relax and give in... and in so doing even a long thick dick slips in with relative ease. And then, well, its not about me but about him. However HE wants it. As long as he wants. Any position of his choosing.
 

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You gotta really really really want it...
It does help to be turned on and wanting to have the big cock in you. I've only had 2 times that it hurt. One man was super thick and the other was 8+ inches long & pretty thick. We worked through it and they both were in balls deep eventually. Exciting
 

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This questions is for the bottoms- and not the size queens necessarily. (I'm sure I'm repeating another post, but whatever.) I'm a top, and my dick is pretty thick. Fairly often, I'll be with a guy who finds it too uncomfortable to bottom for me. I've tried a few things- going very slowly, starting with fingers, but for some guys it just doesn't help. I obviously don't want to hurt my partners, but I also want to make sure the pain:pleasure ratio is acceptable for them. The guys I've been with have been experienced bottoms but haven't necessarily taken the kind of girth I have to offer.

So what works for you all? Having a big dick is nice, but not if I can't use it the way I want to. Advice would be nice. Thanks in advance.
To be honest there isn’t a quick fix. Some times a guy just isn’t able to take you. You are abnormally large and not a lot of guys can take it so I wouldn’t think about it too much. It’s a fact of life
 

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Organic coconut oil, lots of foreplay, and a slow but firm entry is the way I can do it. I like to start out face down so I can relax enough for entry. Once the head slides in, it's best for the top to stop for a few seconds and let me get used to the thickness and slowly work his member in (inch by inch) and when he is all the way inside... hold still a bit more then I am ready for the fun to begin. AMAZING feeling. My big boy friend is 6.75 inches in circumference with over 8 inches that makes it's way inside. Yea... it's AMAZING !!!
 

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my boyfriend has a 7.5 inch cock we're together for almost 3 months and i was not able to take him yet, he has inserted the tip of his head, we did a few minutes fucking but it hurts so bad i can't take for longer. we tried tons of lube, special relaxing creams and foreplay ass toys and i feel kinda depressed with this situation since on the other hand we're a great couple. i know most of you feel lucky when you find a guy with a big dick, i feel sad, i prefer average sized ones.