i am a grower. from 4 to 8. My girth also increases from v small to 6! I k now im not a monster, but i have a big thick juicy cock that i am proud of. So on occasion, when out either at a club, or at a beat, or sex on premises venue, some guys have had a feel of my flaccid state, and then walked off! I usually think - your loss. Has anyone else every had this happen to them? do people when they meet someone new, consider whether the person may be a grower, or do they make a judgement and leave?