For the guys....do size queens turn you on?

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In my case, I have to say that they definitely turn me on. Mainly because I like the idea of a woman who is experienced (I am not) and clear about her desires.

I guess to show how much of a nerd I am (I love doing that, I'm very self-deprecating) I was thinking of forking over 5 bucks because I saw a magazine where they promised a feature of Cat Power in which she reveals that she's a size queen. Now I've loved Cat Power's music since I heard He War a couple of years ago. But the thought of a female singer (i love the female fronted bands) revealing this definitely caught more than my eye.

So, I'm curious if I'm just petty, or if some of the guys on this site also like a woman who prefers them big?
 

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It's amazing Chan Marshall even knows what size dicks she's getting; everytime I've seen her, she had bangs covering her eyes.
 

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Yeah it does - a slightly older woman who loves big dicks and is after me to satisfy her needs is pretty hot but mainly in fantasy mode. If it happened in real life, I'd probably run a mile!
 
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Yeah, BigPackage, you're kind of right. I like the fantasy of it all same as you. LOL, I was in heat when I posted this thread. Heh. I was entranced with the idea of like these celebrity women and thinking about the idea of them choosing guys purely based on packages.

In reality, there are plenty of things I'm looking for in a woman a lot more than that....first of all, if she's of equal intelligence or smarter than I am, that's a big turn on; second, she has to be fun and be a bit of a libertine; third, she has to be cool (not in the traditional sense, but more as in having similar interests); lastly, she has to be remotely attractive or better. There was a woman who really liked me, but I just couldn't imagine being able to get hard and have sex with her so I didn't pursue it. She was really nice otherwise, and I felt bad, but I just couldn't do it.

(And for those who are saying what I am asking for is way out of my league, I know. But I met someone who fulfilled all the criteria above before that was into me. She was my first girlfriend. The bar was just perhaps raised after that and I was never happy with my subsequent relationships)
 
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Size queens don't turn me on. It is similar to someone liking me because of my skin colour. If you like me as a person first and then find my colour or cock interesting, that's fine. As long as your primary interest in me isn't something so superficial.
 

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For a really big cock owner (9 inches +) that struggles to find girls/boys to take it - they must be a great thing. However surely it is kind of a turn off as by being a size queen a girl is purely judging her potential partners from a sexual point of view.

Personality, looks, kindness, intelligence? No No. Big cock please! Its kind of trashy.
 

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For me,its ALL about chemistry...

someone who is 'turned on' by me is nice,but there are so many variables... once in awhile its nice to be 'worshipped' but..... I want people to recognize me for more than...
 

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While I love it when a woman is turned on by the size of my dick, I wouldn't want any part of someone who was with me only for my dick.
 

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I get turned on by a woman, esp if she's younger, who is bold enough to joke or ask me about my dick w/o first hand knowledge... the directness is so rare and refreshing. If she wants to know what all the fuss is about, or says she's never really been w/ one, I'm usually more than happy to oblige if the circumstances all align.

I wouldn't be comfortable w/ her obsessing over it 24/7 unless she was 100% a fling and it was clear what we were using each other for.
 

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I think the term "size queen" gets used a lot to apply to so many different attitudes that it means lots of things to different people.

In the media, if any woman expresses any preference at all it's taken as being 'size-queeny', even if they state they prefer slightly bigger than average - mentioning an ideal dick-size for a partner seems to still cause a lot of offense!

Personally, it's the biggest turnon there is to find a girl who's not only not going to freaked out by my size, but also appreciates it. Some of the misconceptions in the thread are that a sizequeen will only be thinking about your cock; but in practice the opposite is true - in my experience, a girl who just can't take it is going to have more issues with your dick, while a size-queen can take it and it doesn't become a

So I'm hoping to hear what Cat Power said!
 
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