For the guys, if you don't cum when you are with another person, do you still ....

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If you don't cum when you are with another person, do you still consider it sex?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  3. I don't have sex with anybody.

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  4. As long as we sleep togther, that is sex.

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  1. redheadinsf

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    For the guys, if you don't cum when you are with another person, do you still consider that sex?



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    It is sex. Maybe not as fun..
     
  3. dolfette

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    if it worked that way for women, i'd still count as a virgin.
     
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    I am pretty inexperienced sexually, but I have never been able to cum with another person. I am ensuring my therapist can afford whatever they need.
     
  5. D_Jared Padalicki

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    Yes, if you have intercourse but you don't cum, you still have sex. Although cumming is the cherry on the pie like we say :rolleyes:
     
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    Yes if I enjoyed it anyway. No if I got bored and gave up.
     
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    It's true that this could be something like "when are you officially no longer virgin?".

    But I agree with the rest; it probably was rather bad sex, but it's still sex.
     
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    The idea that I could suck the hell out of a guy's dick and someone would NOT consider this sex makes me lol.
     
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    is this like an internet thing? i have never run across so many people who fail to orgasm during sex...amazing we're still populating the planet at all...
     
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    Sex begins at penetration, oral or anal.
     
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    OK, here is another way to put. You catch your significant other having sex with someone else. They stop after you show up. Neither had a chance to orgasm because of the interuption.

    Did they have sex?
     
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    Like he said! And vaginal penetration.
     
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    haha nicely put
     
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    Sounds like a question Bill Clinton would ask. If I just let her suck me and stroke me, and I penetrate her with a cigar is that sex?
     
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    I still consider it sex.
     
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