For the Ladies, Especially those in NYC...

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  1. Tehachapi

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    I was wondering, how do you handle all the guys on the streets and in the subway undressing you with their eyes? I watch it happen all the time and maybe I am a part of it myself but I can't help it! There are some beautiful women in the city! How do you handle all that constant attention though? Do you like it or does it kinda freak you out sometimes?

    The tables do get turned and I do get the occasional stare but I'm a guy and I'm starved for attention from the opposite sex. When it does happen it does make the day seem a whole lot better.
     
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    choke-slamming a bastard.

     
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    RAWR!

    :naughty::fing02:
     
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    Nope - doesn't freak me out at all. In Western Canada, we knock you upside the head so hard, you starve to death before your head stops spinning.
     
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    Damn. Just for looking?
     
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    I don't pay any attention to the looking. What happens to me more on the trains in NY is touching. Touch me and hurt.
     
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    undressing me, and more importantly undressing my girlfriend, ain't just looking.

    a glance, a brief ogle, flirty eye contact... fine.

    further + comments + any touch = bruised, bloody and afraid of girls for life.
     
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    I undressed ladies, now I don't. MickeyLee taught me that valuable lesson. Thanks!
    (This was a paid endorsement for ML's 'Smack a Sucka' program.)
     
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    Nothing's wrong with briefly checking someone out, so I'm cool with that and even compliments or handing me a number, totally not a big deal. But, there's a limit to what's acceptable and rapist-like stares are, in Jennifer Aniston speak, "not cool."

    Interesting to read a man has taken note of the behavior. When I first moved to NYC, I was surprised to find so many women travelled with knives of some sort - now I kinda get it. Still NY is much better than what I experienced while in Mexico City.
     
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    *gives Mr. MoT an "undress me"free pass for his endorsement*
     
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    Kewl. :cool: Far more valuable than mere money! :tongue: Luckily, MickeyLee has taught me to undress responsibly. Thanks!
    (This was another paid endorsement.)
     
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    The bolded statement seems kinda gay... just sayin' :cool:
     
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    I'm comfortable with my sexuality. What I meant is that its nice when women check you out. That's all.
     
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    Maybe, just maybe they are working out in advance whether to knee you in the groin or punch you in the throat if you get too close.:cool:

    There are so many possibilities as to why a woman would be looking at you.
     
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    Sometimes I do dress to attract attention and I do like it most times not always though. Other girls beat me to it and answered it for you, it all depends on how they look.
     
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    while your eyes undress me,
    my eyes are disembowelling and setting fire to you.

    fantasy is harmless if done with subtlety.
     
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    You can't have Slaughter without laughter, right!?!:tongue:
     
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    *humps Ms. Dragon vigorously*
     
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    This makes me curious, what about when you ladies are alone and you are dressed provocatively? I dont live in NYC so I dont know how common it might be... but when you are dressed that way it draws attention regardless... so do you still carry the same opinion of wanting to punch the guys lights out when dressed that way?

    All I know is here in houston it gets hot... and I work in a restaurant and there are some women that you just cant help glance in the least. I never stare or undress, but its pretty much impossible to not peek for a quick half second.
     
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    Bazinga! :love: <-----*on a new Sheldon Cooper phase*
     
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