Haha, I can imagine it can be kind of difficult then, a blessing and a curse. I recently found out from a lady friend that she actually tries to board a plane somewhere in the middle-end of the line so that she picks who she sits next to instead of getting there early and having people pick to sit next to her.i do not purposefully dress provocatively.
i just have a body that would make a burqa look pornographic.
This makes me curious, what about when you ladies are alone and you are dressed provocatively? I dont live in NYC so I dont know how common it might be... but when you are dressed that way it draws attention regardless... so do you still carry the same opinion of wanting to punch the guys lights out when dressed that way?
All I know is here in houston it gets hot... and I work in a restaurant and there are some women that you just cant help glance in the least. I never stare or undress, but its pretty much impossible to not peek for a quick half second.
Where do you hang out? I have been in and out of Manhattan for 25 years and spend a large amount of time on the subway and have never seen what I would call excessive staring?I was wondering, how do you handle all the guys on the streets and in the subway undressing you with their eyes? I watch it happen all the time and maybe I am a part of it myself but I can't help it! There are some beautiful women in the city! How do you handle all that constant attention though? Do you like it or does it kinda freak you out sometimes?
The tables do get turned and I do get the occasional stare but I'm a guy and I'm starved for attention from the opposite sex. When it does happen it does make the day seem a whole lot better.
Absurd! How is a man wanting attention from women gay?The bolded statement seems kinda gay... just sayin'![]()
Including the possibility that they think he's hot.Maybe, just maybe they are working out in advance whether to knee you in the groin or punch you in the throat if you get too close.
There are so many possibilities as to why a woman would be looking at you.
Word! But seriously, unless they are moving things out of the way to get a better look, or rubbing themselves while looking, I tend to ignore excessive ogling. I moved myself to a position where there would be more obstacles between myself and some creepo in the supermarket recently. My nipples were really, really obviously hard in a bright yellow tank top, and he was moving the impulse items near the register out of the way to get a better look at them. He was creepy enough that I'd decided if he got within arms reach at any point between my new register and my apartment, I was going to stun-gun him first, and maybe ask questions later. Sometimes, men, when you stare too hard, you are frightening. I electrocute scary dudes. No lie.while your eyes undress me,
my eyes are disembowelling and setting fire to you.
fantasy is harmless if done with subtlety.
TASER. Polite looking may bother me a little (or it may not) but I never protest. Rude looking will nearly always prompt me to say something degrading to the perpetrator. Creepy behavior will prompt me to make evasive maneuvers, and if those fail, to deliver some pain.This makes me curious, what about when you ladies are alone and you are dressed provocatively? I dont live in NYC so I dont know how common it might be... but when you are dressed that way it draws attention regardless... so do you still carry the same opinion of wanting to punch the guys lights out when dressed that way?
All I know is here in houston it gets hot... and I work in a restaurant and there are some women that you just cant help glance in the least. I never stare or undress, but its pretty much impossible to not peek for a quick half second.
Where do you hang out? I lived in the Bronx for 28 years, and have seen this behavior in all 4 of the boroughs that count. (Sorry Staten Island. I know you guys pay taxes too, and the rest of us appreciate that, and the fact that you let us turn your island into a dump.)Where do you hang out? I have been in and out of Manhattan for 25 years and spend a large amount of time on the subway and have never seen what I would call excessive staring?
it's easy for a man not to notice,Where do you hang out? I have been in and out of Manhattan for 25 years and spend a large amount of time on the subway and have never seen what I would call excessive staring?
dressed provocatively
I kinda figured that dressing provocatively would be taken as dressing in a sexual fashion. How about I rephrase, as there are women that dress in such a way... if you were to be dressing such that there is very little left to the imagination, would you have the same opinion? When does a quick stare turn into a stare that lasts too long? What about repeated quick glances? This question does not really apply to women that dont dress in such a way, I am just curious.Provocatively? What do you mean? What am I trying to provoke? Fear? Lust? Pity? Anger?
The way someone, anyone, dressed should not provoke anyone else to do or feel anything. The 'provocation', or rather the emotions stirred in the watcher speak WAY more of the watcher than they do of the watched.
One man can look at a woman wearing a short or mid length skirt, walking alone at night, and think she looks attractive and then hope she's OK walking alone - the next man can look at her and think 'slut'. Does the woman change from an attractive human being to a piece of meat in the time it takes for Man A's eyes to leave her and Man B's to find her? Of course she doesn't - Man A is a good person, Man B is not. That's all there is to it.
a woman showing a little cleavage is provocative. a man with his shirt entirely open, or even topless, barely raises a brow.
there are girls with almost no chest.Boys don't have boobies!
undressing me, and more importantly undressing my girlfriend, ain't just looking.
a glance, a brief ogle, flirty eye contact... fine.
further + comments + any touch = bruised, bloody and afraid of girls for life.
Society is strange, I agree.a woman showing a little cleavage is provocative. a man with his shirt entirely open, or even topless, barely raises a brow.
Nobody I know gets mad at their date for ogling them. Strangers who ogle are tasteless assholes.I kinda figured that dressing provocatively would be taken as dressing in a sexual fashion. How about I rephrase, as there are women that dress in such a way... if you were to be dressing such that there is very little left to the imagination, would you have the same opinion? When does a quick stare turn into a stare that lasts too long? What about repeated quick glances? This question does not really apply to women that dont dress in such a way, I am just curious.
I mean, if I am going on a date with a girl I have been going out with for a while, and shes in a super sexy small black dress you can bet that I would be undressing her with my eyes. If its a stranger I wouldnt, but a girlfriend I definitely would.
I sigh a lot. Sometimes I get angry. I mean, really? I was out running a couple of months ago, and my husband passes me in the car. I go up to his window and he's laughing his ass off. He tells me that there was a group of roofers who stopped everything to watch me run pass. Come on! I am in the rattiest, baggiest sweatshirt with jogging pants. The only thing they could have possibly seen was my ponytail sticking out from my Braves cap and maybe my calves. Did the pink trainers give me away?
I just don't freaking get it!!! I understand the LBD and heels turning heads. That's why I wear them, but sweating like a sow and looking absolutely stomach-turning, well, you got to be somewhere on the other side of sick to find that sexy.