Once upon a time long ago I was experimenting with my sexuality, when you are seeking to answer the ultimate question, sometimes you are driven. When I finally came to grips with the source of my pleasure, I chose homosexuality. There is a lot of debate about choosing your sexual expression, is it genetic, environmental or an accident of nature but as I see it, sexuality is too complex to fall into a set of categories.
It all boils down to attraction and pleasure and the things and people who reinforce that in your life experience. Those who are not experimental will never stray from the "norm" and considering that it is not socially correct to ply a person with alcohol or drugs in order to take advantage, some of the experiences I've had in wilder times will not be experienced by the present generations.
In my experience, I've had sex with at least 8 men who considered themselves to be totally straight. Of these guys, I am certain that I was the only Man they will ever know sexually. The stories and experiences are quite varied but one thing was consistent with the encounters and that was their interest in experiencing, first hand, a huge Cock which is something every guy straight or homo wants to know.
I found that my size has always got the attention of even the straightest men in the gym, at the urinal, on the beach or out and about in the community. It is hard to hide and I no longer try but this is what has lead me to intimacy with men who would not consider it otherwise.
My point is, once you can get past your inhibitions, anything is possible and if your attributes are substantial, some standards may be lost in the heat of a moment. Pull the shades if you must dude, your about to get what you have secretly wanted all your life! :dilemma: