For the Uncut Men...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Perry_A_Dontist, Jul 27, 2010.

  1. D_Perry_A_Dontist

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    I'm a 19 year old uncut guy whose wondering if anyone was ever told about "being uncut" by their dad, or their mom, or anyone for that matter.

    What I mean is, when I was a kid, I had no idea that my penishead could be pulled free from the foreskin. Eventually I noticed that my dick was different from some of the other boys in my class who WERE circumcised, and I started poking around the internet for info when I was about 13 or 14.

    If it hadn't of been for that, I don't know how long it would have taken before I "discovered" that my foreskin could be pulled back. I remember the first time I did it it was such a rush, it felt and looked like something that would be painful but it wasn't at all. It was like I'd just found a secret that had been hidden on my body my whole life.

    I'm glad I discovered it when I did. Discovering it lead me to discovering masturbation, and learning that uncircumcised guys didn't need lube to masturbate. I'm sure most of you also had your foreskin "rip" from your dickhead as I've heard that's common to everyone. There was a point when I was 14 where I had many little "pockets" where my foreskin was no longer attached to the edge of my glans due to ripping it during masturbation. I'm very glad that this "ripping" all took place before I was sexually active, as I feel like I would have been self-concious about the gaps between where my foreskin was still attached. Luckily it became 100% separated from the glans (as a result of masturbation) long before I became sexually active, so I'm glad that I didn't have to "worry" about what girls would think of it.

    All this leads me to wonder - should I tell my own son (if/when I have one) about his penis? I feel like I won't circumcise my son/s, because even though I went through a period in my life where I was self-conscious about being uncut when it seemed like every other guy was cut, I've grown to love my uncut schlong and really appreciate the fact that I wasn't cut as a baby.

    So what do you guys think? Have any of you shared with your kids? Did any of you have a dad or family member who explained the nature of your uncut cock to you? Or do you think it's something every boy who is all natural down there should learn on his own?
     
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    Hi - btw - nice pix - no children here - was not told anything either - I'm oldre than U - found found all about sex, etc from friends. Talking to your children - if and when - is what your obligation as a parent is!

    Enjoy what U have - this is the way we came into the world - God doesn't make any junk - natural is awesome. Take care.
     
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    One of the most thought-provocative posts I've seen here! Story well-told, apt questions posed.
    Glad to hear you're not going to circumcise your boy(s). As to the other point, what/whether to tell your boy(s) about their intact cock, I have to think about what is my opinion---and I will!
    Welcome to LPSG, dude, hope to hear more from you.
     
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    In the UK circumcision isn't especially common, so I wouldn't see any need to inform my future kids that there are people who have the foreskin removed, but I understand it's a different situation in the US (I'm assuming that's where you are) so it seems sensible to educate an uncircumcised boy if he's likely to be in the minority.
     
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    I used to bathe with my dad when I was a youngster and he (uncut too), and my mother when she bathed me, would tell me to pull back my foreskin to wash under it. So I was always aware of my cock with foreskin and without from an early age. I suggest you talk to you sons about their foreskins, especially if they will be a minority. Tell them how special it is.
     
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    i am already teaching my 2 year old that he needs to retract his foreskin to wash his "pee pee"....it wont completely retract but it retracts about 1/2 way and that is what helps it detach from the head of the penis.
     
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    I can't really remember the time when my foreskin was not fully retractable. My mother was ever the teacher and explained that it was important not to force the foreskin back, but at the same time it was important to pull it back just a bit so as to be able to direct the flow of pee. In time, of course, it was fully retractable but most of the time it was ample to cover the cockhead in one's trousers.

    Mostly, I have found that to have a foreskin is to like having a foreskin. I have no sons but I am glad my folks were "old county" in some ways.
     
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    Even if I grew up in continental Europe, where uncut is the rule, I was told by my father from an early age to retract my foreskin and also to try and keep it constantly retracted to minimize odor.
     
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    Two years old is too young. The foreskin is attached to the glans until five years of age, sometimes much later. You can cause problems by trying to retract too early. His foreskin will grow with his penis. He will retract himself when he is old enough. You probably mean well, but please reread the OP and let your son discover his penis on his own.

    Also, if you don't believe me, it is very easy to corroborate. Look it up.
     
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    My brother and i wasn't cut when we was born (according to my mum the doctor did not asked whether we shld get cut). Up till i joined this site, i thought all pee-pee looked like mine until i knew there's was a cut and uncut pee-pee. I pretty much learned alot of stuff about uncut pee-pee from this site then from my parents (like retracting your foreskin to clean it, loosening it etc etc.) Thanks LPSG :)
     
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    I think one of the reasons why I might not have been "taught" by my father is that he is cut himself, so he probably didn't realize what having a foreskin meant/entailed. Thanks for the input everyone! great discussion!
     
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    I doubt there is ever a reason for a boy to be cut. The foreskin is elastic enough that it will stretch for retraction with a bit of exercise.

    I do believe the reason so many fathers consent to having their infant sons circumcised is that they do not want to have to deal with the boy's education on this very important point.

    Leave 'em intact!
     
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    I don't remember a specific time when I learned that the foreskin goes back I guess it just happened.
     
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    May I ask , when the foreskin is pulled back revealing that giant head, is that the same as being circumcised
     
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    It looks the same. Obviously it is not the same though because people with a foreskin are still able to re-cover the glans by moving the foreskin forward.

    Cut people lose that function and there is some evidence that the gliding back and forth of the foreskin during intercourse helps with lubrication and may feel good (for both parties).

    No one really told me I was uncut or anything but then most caucasians in the UK are uncut anyway.

    The main thing to do with your son is to inform him of how to properly retract and clean the foreskin. The only time I was told what to do was at school when the nurse came in and said to peel it back in the bath.

    Everybody sniggered and I don't think anyone took her seriously. Therefore I didn't end up pulling my foreskin back til I was 16. It took a lot of force and was a little bit painful. Once retracted the foreskin was too tight and wouldn't move back.

    It took a good minute or two for everything to move back into place. From about the age of 18 I began stretching my foreskin to make it looser and more mobile because I had heard stories of foreskins tearing and didn't want that happening to me.

    As it is now, the left side of my frenulum is still attached to the back of the glans. The OP mentions that his is fully detached on both sides. I wish mine were like that.

    I have never had any problems having sex (with/without a condom) but it does take a lot of force to retract my foreskin when hard
     
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    My husband taught his son that you must gently pull back and clean under the foreskin, and that helped detach it I believe. You are right, your father probably did not know what to tell you to do. But you know whats up, so you will be able to help your boys :D
     
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    I have almost exactly the same story : / I was 15 when I learned to masturbate and from that about my foreskin, also on the internet

    In the UK not many guys are circumcised, before porn every boy I'd seen in the changing rooms looked exactly like me, just skin no head or anything; and when I saw porn I just thought that the red head things were just differences between people like black or blonde hair. Until I got the internet I didn't really know what masturbation was, I hadn't cum and my foreskin was too tight to pull back easily. I wish sex-ed would have at least taught us that but instead they put up an overhead projector drawing of a circumcised penis ... to a room full of uncircumcised boys.

    Now I'm "normal" but if it wasn't for the internet ...

    Maybe there are guys who still don't realise. I know enough girls who complain about hygeine ...
     
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    OP... I started masturbating when I was 7... I never knew anything was wrong or right.. it just was. I wasn't told about cleaning under my foreskin untill I was in my teen years. If I had a son I would clean that area until they were old enough to clean it themselves then let them take over as they learn to clean their own bodies.. no need to go further than that.
     
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    2 yrs is not too young. i raised 2 boys and they started peeing standing up under 2 yrs of age. i had them pull their foreskins a little bit back so that they wouldn't piss all over the place. their was no damage done and i didn't have to mop the floor several times a day. as a result of that they have taught their sons the same.
     
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    i am fully aware that the foreskin is attached, and I dont force it. And I am also fully aware that he will grow into it, if you go back and read my post I said I was teaching him to do it, as in this is how you wash your self.....and futher more this is my child and I know what is best for him and how dare you critize me on how I raise and teach my child as you have no idea or clue as to me or my childern....
     
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