For those who like to watch, what makes a "good masturbator"?

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  1. SilverTrain

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    I'm curious as to what people consider important in terms of the key ingredients for an expert jerkoff artist. Are there certain techniques, or "moves"? Appearance of the cock, hands, upper thighs, lower abdomen? Duration of the session (long or short)? What kind of orgasm: loud bucking bronco or quiet and cool? Lots of cum, or just a little? What type of cum: thick, thin, stringy, watery, white, clear? Shooting or oozing? Any other factors you consider important.

    Please list and discuss. :biggrin1:

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    Variety is nice. Just one position or technique gets boring if taken over 10 minutes. Also, if performing on cam, good lighting, background and camera angles can really help, especially in the climax. Many times the ejaculation is undetectable or flies off range of the cam. I personally prefer it directed toward the chest.
     
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    Admit a hangup of mine is to observe a person/s Masturbating
    It is preferable that he is totally aware i am observing him (i am not neccessarily getting off myself)
    The beauty of it all to me is this
    - you/he are sharing an intimate personal experience-be it sexual
    -he would HAVE to be exactly my type-for the Maxiumm benefit to myself (ie i would not watch some one i was not attracted to)...I would watch such as a Jock Hunk Punk College (17/35)perhaps at a push a Twink? type either well built-not overly,but it does not exclude a fairly skinny guy tho
    Are there certain techniques, or "moves"?
    - i would just be intrigued re his particular style' (ask him how he came about developing it etc)
    Appearance of the cock, hands, upper thighs, lower abdomen?
    - this would be an advantage ie seeing how the different body parts react etc.(upper thighs/abdomen appeal)
    (i especially enjoy a guy opening his legs WIDE and exposing himself..ie allowing self to be vulnerable-knees drawn up or laying on bed)
    Duration of the session (long or short)?
    - 20/30 minutes Max would suffice - under 10 i would consider too short a time.
    What kind of orgasm: loud bucking bronco or quiet and cool?
    - just a medium gutteral sound at Orgasms fine/expression of facial features of prime importance.
    Lots of cum, or just a little?
    - a reasonable amount is best for my observation needs (too much/overly messy - too little denotes possibly Jo,s too much
    What type of cum: thick, thin, stringy, watery, white, clear?
    -thick white = to me xtra healthy (plenty of little swimmers within the concoction-perhaps)
    Shooting or oozing?
    -shooting (overly excessive is ok')
    Any other factors you consider important.
    - the fact he is getting as much enjoyment as myself with performing
    - can be a non touch no strings attatched affair/or if he wishes participation thats OK'
    - the main beauty to me is to see the masterful strokes in action,severity of grip,alternating moves,especially the tensing of muscles-legs and thighs especially,and then again the facial expression at orgasm...and the final relaxation and full on contentment..always followed by the obligatory grin/smile or smirk...when a fellow has an observer in his presence.

    OP -THANKS for the Thread-enjoyed that (now just got to consider posting it haha)
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    The bigger the cock the better. The more the cum the better. But most of all nice slow rhythmic strokes with plenty of ball action.
     
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    There's got to be enough teasing and interaction with the audience. Not physical interaction though as that'd be less of a tease and more of a, erm, sex. Also play with the sack - that can be equally arousing.

    And, most importantly, the audience must be able to see the action when you cum. I'm talking cum shooting/flowing/dribbling out of the head... not just your arm and moaning and 15 seconds later a patch of cum on your stomach.
     
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    Everybody jerks off differently. Individuality is part of the variety of life that makes things interesting. Some want to give a good show, others just maximize their own pleasure, and of course there is a range of variation in between. I can enjoy watching regardless, and as for myself I think a little interaction and teasing is good for both my own enjoyment and that of the audience if there is one.
     
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    I have a few videos on here .......... my method is showing my complete stomach and a little chest........and of course the cum pouring out. In fact -- I am gonna post another today and go a different route --with emphasis on my head mainly and the cum pouring out.

    Everyone is different -- I have seen methods on here that would not work for me -- but being unique is OK !!
     
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    Layin back, slow strokes, dudes who just zone out and focus on their cock - you can see their eyes just honed in on the cock in either admiration or anticipation. I like to see plenty of the cock, so maybe they just use some fingers not a full grip. Dudes who know that a good jo is not just a wank grip shoot, but it's a massage of the cock, letting fingers explore, making sure they get some precum out working serious pressure up.

    cumshot- breathing, heavy laboured gasps, none of that screaming porn star shit, just a cool enjoyment of an impending release. I like a dude who knows how to control his squirt as in slows it right back and lets his cock do most of the work with a few decent strokes to let it fly. Love a huge volume squirt or 5, so plenty of pressure on the head and a good watery squirt of precum first followed by the squirts of juice.

    self facial is hot too.
     
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