For those who've deflowered a virgin

[deleted356736]

Only once with my wife on our wedding night, and although I was very experienced it was not a pleasant experience for either of us. Well-hung men aren't the best suited for deflowering, as has already been stated. We did it, however, without any damage and the next morning was much better. After that first time, it became like sex should be.

 

[D_Manaj Atwaa]

put it this way, in my experience, the idea of popping a girls cherry is much more appealing than the practicality of doing it with a big swinger.

 

[ruggerkit28]

i've deflowered 3 girls. i had already had sex with an experinced women when i was 15, and when a bit later i took my then girlfrind's virginity i was very pleased that she was not my first; it would not have been pleasant.

but, as others have said, it is seriously HORNY

 

[B_625girth]

never had a virgin. I had a gal tell me she felt like she lost it again due to my thickness. she was extremely tight. it would take several minutes just to penetrate. she would be sore the next day, and walking "bowlegged" as she called it. after 2 months she got pretty accustomed to my size and we were fucking every day. another 2 months and we broke up. she took my size for granted and didn't find "Mr. Goodbar" in the next 3 guys she dated/fucked.

 

[D_76froy]

I had a couple of virgins in HS, but the first time wasn't that great for either of us. It was hot knowing I was the first, but not very good sex. I also fucked a woman a few years ago who had her hymen restored surgically because she wanted to be deflowered again. I didn't know until I tried to cram my cock in her, and it was damn difficult, even though she was begging me to cram it in her. She kept saying "I want you to split me with your big cock". Turned out to be kinda messy, but she loved it. A little too kinky for even me.

 

[Mule]

A lot of this is going to depend on the virgin's attitude toward sex. If she is eager to learn and explore, it will be fun. Obviously it requires a little more patience and graciousness on the part of the non-virgin.

I LOL'd at the comment about some of us definitely not having "starter cocks". One girl I was with said something very similar.

The girl in my gallery videos was a virgin (yes, she wanted her first time on camera), and some people commented that she didn't seem to be "into it" when giving me a blow job. The truth is that she said she didn't really know what to do with it. It was her first cock, and a little more than she could handle orally. I was coaching her when the camera wasn't running, and she was doing the best she could. Even though she couldn't get much more than the head in her mouth, she took the whole length in her pussy with lube and patience. The important thing is that we both enjoyed it.

 

[joeweekend]

There should be a rule that well endowed men do not get virgins. Some of the cocks on this site are definitely not "starter penises."

You sure do have that right.

Sex columnist Dan Savage once used the expression "varsity-level sex". That's a worthwhile distinction. Not all sex, and not all cocks, are quite equal.

 

[D_Clifftonne Copperclappers]

Virgins were very thin on the ground when I was young, and I didn't actually deflower a virgin until I was 24 and quite experienced. And I didn't know she was a virgin until I tried to enter her. But although it was a bit scary for her and slightly messy, I did manage to get half of my cock in and get about twenty gentle strokes that first time before the sheer excitement overcame me. Since then I've had a total of three virgins and each time the same: lots of foreplay, get her wet and go gently.

 

[B_daunte]

I fucked a virgin, not good fun. Too tight and she found mine too painful...I guess my cock is defo not a 'starter' cock. This was a one night stand...they might be good if you had the time put into it.

 

[RLSteve]

A lot of this is going to depend on the virgin's attitude toward sex. If she is eager to learn and explore, it will be fun. Obviously it requires a little more patience and graciousness on the part of the non-virgin.

I LOL'd at the comment about some of us definitely not having "starter cocks". One girl I was with said something very similar.

The girl in my gallery videos was a virgin (yes, she wanted her first time on camera), and some people commented that she didn't seem to be "into it" when giving me a blow job. The truth is that she said she didn't really know what to do with it. It was her first cock, and a little more than she could handle orally. I was coaching her when the camera wasn't running, and she was doing the best she could. Even though she couldn't get much more than the head in her mouth, she took the whole length in her pussy with lube and patience. The important thing is that we both enjoyed it.

How come you haven't posted the video of you having sex with her?

 

[Mule]

How come you haven't posted the video of you having sex with her?

I posted an animated GIF instead, as that was a nice piece of footage that wasn't really long enough to warrant a video clip. The full video is something we reserve for friends.

 

[hungtoomuch]

I have deflowered two virgins, one was a bad experience and the second was amazing! First time we were both virgins and unexperienced, I went way to fast and she hated it and there was quite a mess. The second time was amazing. We had a ton of foreplay, especially me eating her for a long time, fingers and she was incredibly lubed. I went very slow but when I popped/broke thru she went wild, once we got past that she rode me like a crazy lady. I am not huge (8" x 5") but all I can say is she came back for more. It was a good fun couple of months.

 

[nikebasketball18]

There should be a rule that well endowed men do not get virgins. Some of the cocks on this site are definitely not "starter penises."

I respectfully disagree with the former, yet the latter is true.

Ive had my fair share of virgins and like Torque8 said, the hot part is knowing your the first (so a bit of added tightness). Just depends how much you get off on that as to whether its better than a normal shag.

Rock on mate! We've have similar experiences.

Conclusion of this thread: It is scary to loose virginity with a big dick!

Now THIS is a definite truth !!!:biggrin1:

You sure do have that right.

Sex columnist Dan Savage once used the expression "varsity-level sex". That's a worthwhile distinction. Not all sex, and not all cocks, are quite equal.

Varsity-level sex, eh? So that's what they call it.

-----

'Twas my sophomore year of high school when I deflowered my first virgin. She played basketball and lacrosse, had blonde hair and was like 5' 7". It was slow at first, but I'd say I left a lasting impression. :wink1:

 

[houtx48]

all i can say is i think penthouse still accepts letters.

 

[strutter2]

I wish guys wouldn't use the term 'ripping' when they refer to having sex with a woman - just makes you sound like you were raping them - not very attractive.

 

[Stu Pendous]

I have had 3 virgins. I was devirginized with a virgin. It wasn't terrible...but I was new to the game so had nothing to compare it to. She didn't bleed and it was quite bland looking back. The newness and youth of it made it great at the time.

The next was wayyy too difficult. I had trouble fitting one finger in and it was a 2 hour wrestling match with her to try to loosen her up.

The 3rd was actually the best even though she bled. Although she told me afterward that it kind of sucked for her. She said that's what she was expecting anyway and she never complained about the ones after.

 

[DJFriar]

My first time was with a virgin. It sucked. We both just wanted to get it over with, and she laid there like a dead tree.

Had 4 total. Two of which I was asked to deflower them. Both were friends of mine I had known for years and had dated a few of their friends. They knew enough about me from their girlfriends that they wanted to sample themselves I guess. One was fun. She was into it, just wasn't really good I guess. The other was awesome. She was heading off to college and didn't want her first to be at some frat party and wanted it with someone she knew and trusted. I started with oral, and she was soaking wet enough that I was all the way in her in about 5 minutes. We took about a 5 minute break, and for the rest of the night she was an animal. Definitely one of my favorite memories.

So like most have said, some are good some are bad.

 

[D_Andreas Sukov]

my gf aND I WERE VIRGINS. it wasnt the funnest. but she was determined to trya nd take me. she didnt bleed too badly. well i didint notice but she saus she did a little and we now ahve a good sex life so im happy. i really wouldnt ant to do it again, but i wouldnt turn it down

 

[RPM]

My first sexual experience was a deflowering action.

Was 14, she was 16. Did not really know much about this, porn those days wasn't widely available, and at that time my family and me were based in Singapore.
She was that Chinese girl that no guy would go near, she was the bully in school that was tall, big framed and fat (we all know the curse it is to be a fat girl in South East Asia)
Anyway it was somewhat instinctive, somehow or rather my penis went into her vagina. Thankfully at that time my penis was not the girth it is today.

2nd virgin, she was my 2nd gf a little over a year later, also a Chinese girl, this time quite a slim and petite one and same age as me. Did not really understand the idea that should be gentle with a virgin. Penetrated her the same way the 1st gf and me usually penetrated, head in slowly, then hard push the rest into her.

3rd virgin, was during freshman year at uni. She was my 5th gf, a White girl from Idaho. I was very gentle with her and she enjoyed the experience. If I recall, was already at the girth I am now.

4th virgin, a one-nighter. She is a BBW. Met her on IRC. She was the first ever woman I did in complete darkness.

5th virgin. I met her on ICQ. She is Korean+White, was 36 at that time. One day asked her if she wanted to meet, she asked what for......... I told her to deflower her. She agreed. This woman, they say god was not kind to her, she looked 100% Korean, but unlike most Korean women who were slim, she was built like a large-sized American woman, complete with 42D boobs. It was not the "fairytale" deflowering story for her.

6th-10th Virgins. These ones, I was working in PRC (Mainland China) and in some parts of the country, when a very big deal is closed and you appear fatigued, your boss will bring you to this place where you can deflower a girl. You normally won't have a choice of who that girl is. Most of them will be between 17-22. They have this weird believe that if you deflower a young girl you can take her youth. It all started from their late leader Mao Tse-Tung who reputedly deflowered over 5000 virgins.
It is not a very pleasant experience, but if you don't do it you may get fired because your boss will think you did not give him face. Not a pleasant experience, but in China where it is about your job you basically gotta do what you gotta do.

 

[rob_just_rob]

"Deflowered"? Who are you, Jane Austen?

I have had sex with one virgin - it wasn't spectacular, but the object was accomplished, and sex was much better the next and subsequent times. The physical difficulties aside, I liked it, because at the time I imagined I was in love with her and that it was therefore 'special'.