Belly_Dancer
Experimental Member
A lot of interesting opinions have been expressed on this thread. But of course, I have to throw in my two cents. :wink:
My attitude is probably most similar to that of Artfulwilly and NoStrings.
To me, all types of sexual activities and touches are like palette of colors that can be used to paint whatever strikes the artist's mood.
Sometimes, I do want penetration immediately. But that doesn't mean the sex is "casual," or that I don't love the person. Far from it!
With words alone, my lover can make me so hot that I'm soaking wet, my clit and G spot are engorged, and I'm internally "ballooned," (yes, I've actually checked).
And if you don't know what "ballooned" means it is the expansion of the distal end of the vagina/fornix that occurs with a woman's arousal and makes more room for the penis.
Anyway, I am good and ready without his having even laid a finger on me, and if he wanted to bend me over and have the very first contact be his cock sliding into my pussy, that would be more than fine with me.
In addition, my thoughts alone can be enough to get me fully aroused, without any words being said at all. So you can see, what most people consider "foreplay" is not necessary for me to be ready for penetration. And as far as the emotional aspect of sex goes, I view all sexual activities as expressions of passion that can be played out in any order or combination -- and to appease my particular tastes, I need a nasty, unpredictable lover. :wink:
There are endless possibilities...and I won't limit myself or my lover to any kind of a formula.
My attitude is probably most similar to that of Artfulwilly and NoStrings.
To me, all types of sexual activities and touches are like palette of colors that can be used to paint whatever strikes the artist's mood.
Sometimes, I do want penetration immediately. But that doesn't mean the sex is "casual," or that I don't love the person. Far from it!
With words alone, my lover can make me so hot that I'm soaking wet, my clit and G spot are engorged, and I'm internally "ballooned," (yes, I've actually checked).
Anyway, I am good and ready without his having even laid a finger on me, and if he wanted to bend me over and have the very first contact be his cock sliding into my pussy, that would be more than fine with me.
In addition, my thoughts alone can be enough to get me fully aroused, without any words being said at all. So you can see, what most people consider "foreplay" is not necessary for me to be ready for penetration. And as far as the emotional aspect of sex goes, I view all sexual activities as expressions of passion that can be played out in any order or combination -- and to appease my particular tastes, I need a nasty, unpredictable lover. :wink:
There are endless possibilities...and I won't limit myself or my lover to any kind of a formula.