My wife has never been interested in foreplay, I asked her the other night if our cuddling and handholding was a substitute for foreplay and she thought that maybe it was the case. Cuddling and handholding in no way gets her wet and when we decide to make love she just wants to get going. I feel that foreplay is an important part of our relationship and that it would help her relax and lubricate, which has been a problem. My questions are: are there other women who don't like foreplay? And if not, why?