found a sex tape

[Tattooed Goddess]

Oh FFS, enough of the sanctimonious, holier than thou, high and mighty shit people.

This is a typical example of pack mentality/bullying. It's especially prevalent on this forum and others with a majority male membership - a female poster criticises a man and then umpteen guys all fall over themselves to validate her opinion, like they're going to get laid IRL as a result.

Sad.....

Have you filled out the form yet?

 

[Snakebyte]

Oh FFS, enough of the sanctimonious, holier than thou, high and mighty shit people.

This is a typical example of pack mentality/bullying. It's especially prevalent on this forum and others with a majority male membership - a female poster criticises a man and then umpteen guys all fall over themselves to validate her opinion, like they're going to get laid IRL as a result.

Sad.....

Yes, because women are wrong most of the time and guys just agree to impress them. Right?

 

[Bbucko]

Anyone else read this post and think "Bullshit" immediately? I can't be the only one.

By tape do we mean an actual VHS or some shit? I assumed he meant on a computer or phone or something, not literally a physical copy. Odd.

Yup

 

[petite]

I thought he was talking about a DV tape, not a VHS type of tape.

Like the kind that goes into this recommended camcorder

Canon Vixia HV30 Review - Watch CNET's Video Review

I have a camcorder that takes cassette tapes.

 

[hugeboto4ladies]

I would ask her about it. She kept it and hid it for some reason. I assume you watched it, but wouldnt it be real funny if it was her niece's 3rd birthday party tape.......

 

[sexplease]

Relationships are challenging. Especially the one with ourself.
When you get involved with someone, you are getting involved with 3 people.
The person you think they are.
They person they really are and,
the person they become as a result of knowing you.
Try this:
Keep focused on the real (and current) persons involved (the you and her) and NOT on the imaginary personality that develops - the Us/We/Our.
Talk about your feelings and respect her feelings.
Start your talk with I feel...
and not, you (filmed..) this or your (sex tape) that. That sets a tone for defensive, counter-productive interactions.
Ask yourself this: Is this past thing in her life so important that I allow it to take priority over my feelings today?

 

[CUBE]

If the tape is in your possession you need to give it back. It is none of your buisness if she made this before meeting you

 

[Unnamed]

lets suspend our disbelief for a second and take this xp seriously. this relationship has trust issues. get that handled or break up. this video issue is a symptom of the distrust and dishonesty.