Found Best Friend on Cam Site

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  1. 007Member

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    So the other night I was on my favorite cam site when watching a live cam of a couple (str8), I noticed a guys comment and picture on the chat wall. I was a best friend of mine. I was curious and opened his profile. He was on cam, wanking it! Like i said above, he's a good friend of mine and we hit the gym everyonce-in-a-while together but never seen each other nude.

    What should I do? Should I say something? Should I let him find me on the site?

    HELP!
     
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    Did you like looking at your bud while he wanked? Did you jerk off along with him? I'd only tell him if you wanted to do this in person -- which would be pretty fucking hot!
     
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    I'd have to admit I was a little interested but not enough to jerk with him ect. but i've thought about inviting him over to chill... we have fall break this week... have a few beers and tell him that i've found a good site, open it, show him... and see if he says that he's known about it, then see where it go's. Maybe we might have a wank together live on cam... :/
     
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    Sounds like a plan. Get the beer flowing and it should prove to be an interesting hang out.
     
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    That does sound good. Let us know how it turns out.
     
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    You really shouldn't say anything to him!!!
     
  7. EagleCowboy

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    Ya know, the difference between gay and straight is 6 beers. LOL.
     
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    don't say again at all. he may react rather badly.
     
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    i wuld not say anything! what website is it? never managed to find decent cam site
     
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    somehow I wouldn't say a thing... but I know the effect of curiosity and in the end you want to know and be honest. What you better don't do is tell him in the face u saw him on cam. Try to lead a nice conversation to sex and the "risky" and new things you do... You can say that when u are really horny you don't mind people watching you and checking you out while wanking and that you sometimes cam on that site. And maybe he will be prepared to be that honest too and tell you about it.
     
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    I actually like your idea of bringing the site up on your computer, without letting him know that you know he's on it.

    That will let him know that you are ok with the site, and gives him the chance to divulge it he wants to.

    If he doesn't, then Mum's the word:wink:
     
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    i could never watch a friend wank on cam , i will forget about it quickly and take it with me six feet under.
     
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    Some good ideas here. I might also say to my buddy that I found some sites and like to jack off on cam. Maybe he will say me too
     
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    If you are both on the same site, then you have something in common, soooo many people here tell others to shy away from this, then you see posts and threads of dudes that mess around with their friends and they are ok with that. GO FOR IT! Big freakin deal, again, you are both on the same site, do think he hasnt been in your shoes looking at other dudes, break the ice with some beer and shots of jager and have fun, see where it goes. Just dont act like you are gonna be gay buds if you're not. Nothing wrong with pullin it with a friend. How many of us havent had a circle jerk amongst friends or pulled one with them. Most of us have at one time or another. Now if you get grossed out by your bud then by all means dont. but hell, who cares. Show him the site after a few too many drinks and some porn of some hot chick you like in porn. DO IT!!
     
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    I'm scared of this possibility myself. Sorta...kinda. Well not really scared - just wary.
     
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    I personally don't think it's a good idea to bring it up... Whatever your friend does in private, is his own business :) But if you believe that by doing so won't cause any problems then you could follow some of the advice above.
     
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    Couple of questions:
    Is the site for straights/gays/both?
    Any reason to suspect he's gay/bi?
    For whom do you jerk off on the site? Guys or girls or anonymous? If you do it for gals or anonymous then expect him to do so....

    Otherwise I would go to with pieter's advice and not say that you saw him... just let him know that you are on the site too...

    PS: One of the reasons I keep my album empty...
     
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    Bringing up the site is equivalent to saying you saw him on it; if someone just 'mentioned' LPSG to me that's the first thing I would suspect.

    That might be ok, though, if there are indications he's "open" to male/male interaction.

    But generally, this:
     
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    If he's jacking off on cam for anybody in the world to watch. I would hardly call is private or his own business anymore.

    Really your the only one here who knows him so you know better than any of us how he might react. I would say you definitely have something in common, and under the right circumstances it could bring you guys closer. But what the right circumstances are, is up to you.
     
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    Of course you can use this information in your own advantage. You now know that he might be into something...

    But you shouldn't tell him you saw him. He might be shocked and if he wants to separate his sexcamlife from his normal life, he can end your friendship...
     
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