Found Magnums in my Ex's cabinet

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Me and my Ex were thinking about getting back together after being seperated for about 6 months. The thing is, I found a few Magnum condoms in here nightstand, and I can't seem to get it out of my head that she was almost definatly with someone that was bigger than me while we were apart.
 

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Bigger doesn't necessarily mean better, so if you want to get back with her then worry about the things that you can control instead of the things that you can't.
 

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Why not ask if she intends on using them again? Honesty is a good policy. If it's bothering you then it warrants a discussion with her.
 

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Maybe she wanted to try something different but realized you knew what you were doing and now she's back. Obviously he wasn't that good or she wouldn't want to be getting back together with you.

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sir1826 said:
Me and my Ex were thinking about getting back together after being seperated for about 6 months. The thing is, I found a few Magnum condoms in here nightstand, and I can't seem to get it out of my head that she was almost definatly with someone that was bigger than me while we were apart.

so
 

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Gold, or black?

A lot of really average guys like the gold magnums because they provide 15% more room. Hell, try one on for size (I would suggest you do it alone to check for fit) you might be surprised.

The black 30% larger and are the cadillac of condoms (IMHO) because they provide the least nuisance. These were accidentally discovered by the ex of a girl I was dating and it caused some drama. Not the same person, I hope.

Fact is, that girl and I weren't made for each other, physically she was a very small space, we disagreed on some important basic worldview issues. We remained friends, but she got back together with her ex because they worked really well together. Oh yeah, she loved him too, and wanted to spend the rest of her life with him.

I'd like to find that, and if I did I wouldn't let who or what she had done before bother me. If she saw pictures of you and the model you were dating during the breakup should she hold that against you?
 

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Dr Rock said:

Good point, Dr. Rock. You two were split up! Who she fucked doesn't matter. The size of his dick really doesn't matter. If you can't get passed it, then don't get back together.
 

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At least she played safe!! So who cares if he was bigger, must not have been any good as she is wanting to get back with you. As has been said already, bigger does not mean better!!
 

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yeah I wouldn't worry about it too much. After all, she's back with you, right? Assuming you guys had sex before, she must not have thought that your size was a big deal. Plus, I think a lot of guys get those Magnums to make themselves feel bigger. I prefer Magnum or Magnum XLs myself, they're more comfortable, but it's not as if regular sized condoms don't fit...
 

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Maybe, if you live in America she got them 'just in case' or to make you jealous. If she were in the UK however then no one has them unless they are required, since its a lot of trouble to acquire them. Maybe its the same in Europe too, not sure.

Still, she probably has had sex with someone who used a Magnum, doesnt mean he was any bigger than you, and she's not with him anymore. She has come back to you so that should tell you something. You make her feel better than a guy with a big dick. So stop worrying about it.

You can give her frenzied, painless good sex. Live with it :p

And if you dont want her send her my way hehe
 

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sir1826 said:
Me and my Ex were thinking about getting back together after being seperated for about 6 months. The thing is, I found a few Magnum condoms in here nightstand, and I can't seem to get it out of my head that she was almost definatly with someone that was bigger than me while we were apart.
It seems to me that the key word here is 'Ex'.
Now, I am happy for you if getting back together with her is really what you want. But the only thing which these condoms mean for you is:
While you were apart, your girlfriend used common sense. At least some of the time.
There will always be someone out there who is bigger than you. Smarter than you. Younger than you. Older than you. Prettier than you. Better at sex than you.
If she wants to be with you, who cares?
I daresay you could play the very stupid, juvenile and dangerous game of: If fucked so and so while we were apart, who did you fuck? And was he better than me? Who knows, maybe you two were with the same guy...
Just kidding. Seriously, the only problem I see here is in your head. And I would be willing to bet anything you like, this jealousy will play a rôle in your next break-up with her unless you learn to deal with it.
Good luck!
ps: I'm green-eyed myself, and not 'cause I'm a cat, so you have my sympathy...
 

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Dude, chances are if the other guy was really better than you, she wouldn't be knockin on your door now right? It is possible, but not likely. I was in in a situation where I got back with an ex and she had said that she was with someone SMALLER than me and it had been better. So we talked about it, and used it to help us learn each other's bodies better and end up having better sex because of it.

That reminds me though, my ex has a whole sleeve of my They Fits :(
 

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I am personally hoping she is a diabolical bitch who is fucking with your head by putting Magnums in her dresser. Considering you were rummaging through your ex's stuff, you deserve it.
 

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Paul Vincent said:
Maybe, if you live in America she got them 'just in case' or to make you jealous. If she were in the UK however then no one has them unless they are required, since its a lot of trouble to acquire them. Maybe its the same in Europe too, not sure.

I live in the UK and my local pharmacy sells Magnums.