sir1826 said:
Me and my Ex were thinking about getting back together after being seperated for about 6 months. The thing is, I found a few Magnum condoms in here nightstand, and I can't seem to get it out of my head that she was almost definatly with someone that was bigger than me while we were apart.
It seems to me that the key word here is 'Ex'.
Now, I am happy for you if getting back together with her is really what you want. But the only thing which these condoms mean for you is:
While you were apart, your girlfriend used common sense. At least some of the time.
There will always be someone out there who is bigger than you. Smarter than you. Younger than you. Older than you. Prettier than you. Better at sex than you.
If she wants to be with you, who cares?
I daresay you could play the very stupid, juvenile and dangerous game of: If fucked so and so while we were apart, who did you fuck? And was he better than me? Who knows, maybe you two were with the same guy...
Just kidding. Seriously, the only problem I see here is in your head. And I would be willing to bet anything you like, this jealousy will play a rôle in your next break-up with her unless you learn to deal with it.
Good luck!
ps: I'm green-eyed myself, and not 'cause I'm a cat, so you have my sympathy...