Found Magnums in my Ex's cabinet

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:cool: Buddy, I think your girlfriend ex leave these condums laying around so, if she dated anyone or a one night stand, he could see what he is up against and also to mark his domain. Guys leave condoms over girlfriend just for convient purpose too get a big pack of 36 and leave there for whenever. When I was dating a former girlfriend I found condum in here vase on the night stand, so I knew she was fucking around. I did not address her because it was a not steady relationship, but I made sure the other dude knew I was fucking her too by using his condoms. Soon I realized that he was not coming over anymore because his condums stack was the same and she also call me over the more. In the end she said that my sex was the best and she was sure of an orgasm. Something she had to tell her girlfriends about, so I heard and the look I get when they say me. :biggrin1: (What?) So give it a try and see if you can work it out together.
 

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Dude it not a big deal. No pun intended...lol.
So what if she had a guy that was bigger than you. You and her were not together. It was her choice. It does not mean that she will only be happy with an endowed guy. Just enjoy that fact that you and her may get back together.
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Just wanted to go back to what someone said earlier about gold Magnums being only a bit larger than regular condoms. I had a few people crash at my place last night after a party, and one of my girl co-workers (cute, btw) shared my bed with me. The guy tossed me a Magnum. I gave him a sly grin and mouthed the words "still too small." The next morning, the girl went into the bathroom to wash her face and I sidled up to the guy and gave him a nod for having the Magnum. Then, I realized that they aren't all that huge and he pretty much concluded that. To save some face he said that they were still a little snug, and then I explained how I needed XLs -- then I said the measurements. Yeah, I wanted to shut him down. :biggrin1:
 

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sir1826 said:
Me and my Ex were thinking about getting back together after being seperated for about 6 months. The thing is, I found a few Magnum condoms in here nightstand, and I can't seem to get it out of my head that she was almost definatly with someone that was bigger than me while we were apart.

If finding Magnums bothers you, you should be happy that you didn't find MagnumXLs.

All kidding aside. She's back with you, don't worry about the other guy.
 

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so were you on the straight and upper up the whole time you were separated? did you have sex with anyone?
why should she be any diff..
but on the other had...if i were her... i would buy them and have them out just to piss you off!!
if she is wanted to get back together...then the sex was not that good and she likes you better for sex and more..
there is more to just sex (really ? ha ha) yes, and she knows that..a good fuck in the hay does not replace everything else...wise up... treat her like the old days when you all used to do other things besides sex... take her out... and maybe once a month even go to a nice hotel or someplace and be alone and treat her like she wants to be... we all forget that... touch, massage, kiss, and then sex..:cool:
 

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I don't get it. It's an irrational worry. Obviously if she was with someone bigger she isn't now.

I'd only be worried if she was saving USED magnums.

I think that if you read enough posts on here you'll realize that size really doesn't matter as long as it works.
 

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sir1826 said:
Me and my Ex were thinking about getting back together after being seperated for about 6 months. The thing is, I found a few Magnum condoms in here nightstand, and I can't seem to get it out of my head that she was almost definatly with someone that was bigger than me while we were apart.
So, what the hell're you bitchin' about??:confused: In six months time during your absence, you didn't expect her to have another relationship with somebody else? And by the way- just what exactly were you doing in her nightstand to begin with?
 

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sir1826 said:
Me and my Ex were thinking about getting back together after being seperated for about 6 months. The thing is, I found a few Magnum condoms in here nightstand, and I can't seem to get it out of my head that she was almost definatly with someone that was bigger than me while we were apart.
Dude, I really doubt it's because your ex thought your dick was inadequate in some way that you broke up in the first place. Are you sure that the issue isn't that she might have been seeing other guys since your breakup? Did you really expect her to take a vow of chastity?
 

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Being prepared for an activity is not the same as being engaged in the activity. I have a variety of condoms handy, but like someone pointed out....it's only the ones that get used that count.

I have to say that I have rarely seen a sadder sight than a whopper of a hard dick stuffed into a "regular" size condom. :eek: That is NOT happening again on my watch...lol
 

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GoneA said:
reattach her hymen.

The reward for your brilliance is that I'm going to tickle you. I'm not saying where, or with what.


Dude. She's back. Focus on why she's back. Don't focus on what she may, or may not have done when she was gone. Throw a party. She's back. Maybe she'd disagree, but I don't think jealousy, or insecurity is sexy.
 

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Dude,

As long as you don't find magnums in the glove compartment of her car, six months from now, you should be ok. Let it go brother, you're gonna make yourself sick if you don't accept who you are and what you got. There is ALWAYS someone out there a little bigger, and if that made any difference, think how many little brothers we have that would NEVER have hooked up. Believe me, and it is not easy for me to say this, but the size of our cocks matter much more to US than to our women. At least that is my experience after 40 years of swinging this meat around,

so there,

Don't worry, be happy,

AOX3
 

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Chuck64 said:
Good point, Dr. Rock. You two were split up! Who she fucked doesn't matter. The size of his dick really doesn't matter. If you can't get passed it, then don't get back together.


Agree, because some men can never forget this kind of thing... insecurity is a pain and no matter what you said they just don't believe we are with them because we trully choose to....:rolleyes:
 

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BronxBombshell said:
The reward for your brilliance is that I'm going to tickle you. I'm not saying where, or with what.

the suspense is KILLING me!!!!

(i can tickle you back, right?)
 

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This isn't a problem that she's having its a problem you're having. When a man and a woman break up and try to get back together a guy cannot accept that she might have had a different dick, meanwhile the woman generally doesn't care. You might have confiedence issues, but she has enough faith in you to come back. I only speak from past experience but only one of my ex's really ever cared if I screwed anyone else, mainly she wants you back, unless your relationship is based on nothing but your dick and your sex life I would get over yourself and be happy, otherwise you'll blow it
 

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Omegaman said:
:cool: Buddy, I think your girlfriend ex leave these condums laying around so, if she dated anyone or a one night stand, he could see what he is up against and also to mark his domain. Guys leave condoms over girlfriend just for convient purpose too get a big pack of 36 and leave there for whenever. When I was dating a former girlfriend I found condum in here vase on the night stand, so I knew she was fucking around. I did not address her because it was a not steady relationship, but I made sure the other dude knew I was fucking her too by using his condoms. Soon I realized that he was not coming over anymore because his condums stack was the same and she also call me over the more. In the end she said that my sex was the best and she was sure of an orgasm. Something she had to tell her girlfriends about, so I heard and the look I get when they say me. :biggrin1: (What?) So give it a try and see if you can work it out together.

I like that, free condoms. Never have to buy them, never have to worry about stopping off and waiting in line at a cash register. That guy made your life less complicated. I still think the matter needs addressing in this case, and from a more mature perspective of one's own health and safety. If both of you have been doing others while separated, it's a simple matter of reciprocity to get a clean bill of health. Your papers, are they in order ?
 

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Whether it's ex's or not, it doesnt matter. we are always a bit jealous in our own little way. the condom wasnt the issue. you could replace it w/ a better looking guy or a nicer car. it's about your insecurity. that's someone else can be "better" than you.

while it's never easy to accept that your ex had a fling during your time apart, you can either count your blessings to have known and been w/ her, or you can sit and dwell in the shadows or a dark period in your relationship w/ her.

i always believe we cant control what other people say or do, but we can control ours.