Foursome or not??

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  1. Valentina

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    HI,

    I have been asked to do foursome by my current b/f with him and 2 of his buddies.

    Never done it before. Any pros and cons and what should I keeo in mind and be aware of?

    Thanks:eek:
     
  2. B_andyo

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    STD's, HIV and others.
     
  3. D_Ollyvalle Treegirth

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    in my experience, theyre more fun in fantasy than reality....but go ahead, try it for yourself
     
  4. RedScrotum

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    be aware that i wanna be one of your bf's buddies
     
  5. maestro071

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    You should be aware of possible risks, like STDs. Also, it's not easy to satisfy three guys!I practiced threesome and foursome and can tell you that its pleasure only if you really like the partners! You need to know your motive to do it. Is it because you want to please your b.f. (than don’t-because you may be very disappointed, latter on), or because you like guys and would like to have them all at the same time, or you just want to experiment, or…?MFM or FMF can be very good, as well as MFMF… but 3 on 1, I’m not sure, lol.Well, if you anyway decide to go 4 it, those guys will be very lucky!
     
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    i tried it with three girls recently. the girls were rather shy when i came to doing something with each other. basically they just waited for their turn to get fucked. while the idea sounds great, it wasn't a very exciting experience.
     
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    might be fun if you are willing to go wild and work hard.
     
  8. Not_Punny

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    My advice would be to lay the ground rules down ahead of time. Discuss IN DETAIL with your bf what you will permit, and what you will NOT permit.

    And make sure everyone knows your safe word.
     
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    Well first off I don't think your current b/f respects you to ask you to take on 3 dicks at once. I personally think it would be different if he asked about taking 2 but if you've never had a 3some or a 4some 3 guys might be a bit much. Of course it's hard to say w/out knowing more details. I'm w/Not Punny about laying down the ground rules and make sure your b/f helps you enforce them. What are you looking for w/3 guys also? Are you into "air tight", double penetration, or just taking turns or what? Remember in something like this you have to keep yourself first for your own safety.

    My current g/f just asked me if I'd be willing to let another man into our bedroom and though I'm still entertaining the idea of it I haven't said yes yet. But she has already asked if I liked it and if she liked it if I would let her try 3 guys. Hmmm.... still thinking.
     
  10. B_KOKOBWARE

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    A liitle too extreme....imo
     
  11. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Just remember that while it all sounds like fun there is a very real possibility that one your bf seeing you with other men he will become jealous and the harm that could do to your relationship. Also the awkwardness it may cause with these friends in the future
     
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    Back when you only had to worry about getting a shot to get rid of std's I was in 3some's 4some's and moresome's. MMMF MFMF MMF FFM MFM MMMM and lined up a few times for some good ole gangbangs. Be sure if you do this that there will be nothing done that you don't agree to. Also they should be wearing condoms for your protection. And you should probably ask your BF if it will bother him to see you enjoy taking several other men. If it bothers him to see you enjoying other men then it could damage your relationship.
     
  13. Dan the man

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    Well be aware that you should film it all, call it Valentina does Dallas or something, and post it here. It certainly wouldn't be for voyeuristic gratification on my part, I just need to make sure you're doing it right. Trust me, I'm a doctor.

















    * gets popcorn and beers *

    :3822733875wackit:
     
  14. B_Monster

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    Three is better, no pairing off and make mine mmf all bisexual.
     
  15. Chick&2DicksUK

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    Unless you're into a gangbang, period (under any circumstances).

    3 at once for your first time is a little excessive (in our honest opinion).

    For your BF to suggest it and you to consider it smacks of a daydream without thought for the consequences and the actual event.

    Calm down.

    Take it one (or 2 - lol) steps at a time.

    And to suggest you do 2 of his buddies at the same time (when you've never even done one, before) does suggest he has little regard for you other than as a shagging post for him and his buddies.

    Has he already discussed this with THEM?

    If so, he's not showing you much respect.

    And that's advice from a set of swingers.

    Take care. It can be the best fun in the world, but it can also end in tears.
     
  16. MichiganRico

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    It always seems like a great idea at first. Then one partner or another gets a bit jealous when the other is getting just a little more attention, etc. When one partner or another wants to "expand the horizons" of a relationship, it usually translates as "I need a new piece of ass because you're not doing it for me anymore." Generally, nothing good ever comes of it...unless, of course, you're the third party in the menage. Then it's pure physical pleasure because you don't have any investment in the relationship.
    I know it works for a few couples, but for most of us, it's the beginning of the end of the relationship. If you can "cheat" in a group setting and it's all right, it's not long before you're cheating one-on-one.
     
  17. Phil Ayesho

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    If you want to....

    but if you don't really want to...
    tell your BF that real life is not a porn film and you expect to be treated with more respect than a porn actress.

    Really... just because he SEES it in a movies doesn't mean he has to DO it.



    Or, hey, try this... tell him okay, but he has to take the two guys first...while you video it.
     
  18. christina

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    so are they like all gunna just be on u or are they gunna participate on each other as well? are they thinking dp and u suckin or dp and one of the guys suckin or what? Whats all gunna be all envolved?
     
  19. Chick&2DicksUK

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    Your opinions are merely that. Your judgementalism is of no consequence. Your knowledge is nothing and your reasoning is Neanderthal.

    Being a swinger, today, is akin to being black in the 50's/60's or homosexual in the 60's/70's.

    Beat us up if you wanna.

    We can no more change what we are than can they.
     
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